Clothing:

     Clothing should not be too tight, short, low, or high. There is a line that many girls cross, just to look attractive and pretty. I, personally, am sickened by the lack of clothing many girls wear. It is a stumbling block for young men, and a temptation for young women. 

     I do not believe that a woman or girl has to wear skirts or dresses to be modest, or even feminine. I wear skirts and dresses on Sundays. I do not believe that if a girl cannot do an activity in skirts, she should not do it.

     For example: In the summer, we play softball with homeschool friends. I really enjoy that, and I couldn't wear a skirt. It's just not practicable. Yes, some of you may say that softball is unfeminine, but I enjoy nonetheless.  In the winter, we have a book discussion once a month, then we go to the community center, which has a skating rink (It's all free) and a basketball court in one. I could skate in a skirt, but it would be uncomfortable. We also play basketball. I know some very feminine, modest girls who play basketball, wearing blue jeans. They are a good example to me of being a lady. They are polite, sweet, and modest.

     Atitude:

     There is also modesty in atitude and spirit. Not being proud, no gloating, not boasting, being generous, gentle, and kind. Letting your light shine.

    

     In conclusion: I find that I can be feminine in blue jeans. While playing softball, basketball. While running and playing with small children. (Which is sort of hard in skirts. I'm pretty clumsy, so even when I try to walk faster in skirts/dresses, I trip and fall. I also do horribly in dress shoes. I'm most comfortable when I'm barefoot, as well as wearing jeans and a tee shirt.)

     In Christ,
Emily