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Me and My House



We are the Pretzel Family. Not really but we always use the word Pretzel to tell everyone how to spell our last name. This is our adventure through the ups and downs of homeschooling. I hope you can learn something from my ups and my downs. I am 31 years old, I have been married to my wonderfully patient husband P, he's 42 years old, for 12 years. We have 4 children, P's 21 year old son J (He's in college), Our 9 yr. old twin girls KH and KG, and our 5 year old son M. We are in our 5th year of homeschooling. Blessings!!!

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Jan. 16, 2008
Captivating Chapter 1

My thoughts on each passage are in bold.  Otherwise the passages are either directly from the book or my paraphrase.
- I am not alone in this nagging sense of failing to measure up, a feeling of not being good enough as a woman.  This is deeper than failing at what I do, but a fear of failing at who I am.  I am not enough & I'm too much at the same time.  It seems as if I could have written this passage myself.  It is so refreshing to know I'm not the lone oddball who never feels like I can be enough.  Who always feels like too much.  I'm definitely always concerned that I am failing at who I am.  I'm just amazed that it's not just me!
 
- I feel unseen even by those who are closest to me; unsought (not pursued).  I wonder if people ever see who I really am.  I always feel analyzed for every little thing and that people never see the whole person.  I know who I feel like I am inside, but will other people ever perceive me that way?
 
-The desires planted deep in our hearts seem like a luxury, granted only to those women who get their acts together.  I often wonder if I will ever have my act together.  It seems that every time I conquer something the Lord is showing me that I need to work on, there is always something else that needs to be fixed, and I get so disappointed and discouraged when I fall back into my old habits.
 
- It's not about what I ought to do or who I ought to be.  It's about who I already am, as a woman.   Your kidding right.  Everything I've ever read or heard has made me feel like I need to change.  Not that I need to embrace who I already am.  Who am I anyway?  I'm surely ready to find out.  I'm tired of struggling day in and day out.  Feeling like I'm not growing fast enough.  Being a disappointment.  I definitely needed this book!
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Jan. 17, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CrossView
I, too, had gotten tired of the whole list of things to do to be the perfect wife, mother, woman.... They weren't suggesting improvements- they were talking personality changes. And I never wanted to be a Stepford wife...

I'm reading it in bite-sized amounts. Savoring it... =D

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Jan. 19, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by mmcfrancis
God made you, He doesn't make mistakes. Of course, ALL OF US have things we need to improve and if you ask God to show you what you need to work on, then He will. Self Help books can be "helpful" if you take them with a grain of salt. Nobody has it all together, we should constantly be seeking the Lord for guidance. God is faithful even when we're not!!!!!! If you mess up, get up and dust yourself off and try again. God Bless You!!!!
Blessings,
Kristi
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Jan. 19, 2008 - Captivating

Posted by WisdomBuilders
We just had a Captivating Ladies Retreat. I love that book!! Very intense, though. I had to put it down to cry every other page. What a book! I figured out that my weight problem is because I replace my need for romance and companionship with my sweet foods. This has really helped me in putting the sugar away.
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