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17 December 2007

A Happy Homeschooler's Christmas Wishes

Over the last several months, I have read The Bitter Homeschooler's Wish List a number of times.  As a self-proclaimed homeschool apologist (my daughter says I'm a homeschool activist!), I have greatly enjoyed (and agreed with!) most everything expressed by this bitter homeschooler.

However, in the spirit of Christmas I decided to create my own list...same idea...just a little bit less bitter!  As homeschoolers, we often rub shoulders with those who are curious, those who are downright skeptical, and those who are truly interested.  Here's what I wish for my interactions with all of them:
  • Please ask me how my children came to be such pleasant, polite, and happy children.
  • Please stop my children and ask them how much they LOVE being homeschooled.  And go ahead, ask if they want "go to school".  I think you'll be pleasantly surprised by their answer!
  • Please ask me about the MANY different homeschooling methods that can be employed by homeschooling families!  But do so cautiously, you just might find a method that fits you!
  • Please judge homeschooling on it's MANY merits rather than on it's occasional downsides.
  • Please investigate the MANY reasons given for choosing to homeschool. You might even find a reason why YOU should homeschool!
  • Please believe that making the decision to homeschool is a difficult one and that few homeschoolers make the decision lightly.
  • Please understand that a parent's relationship with her (or his) children uniquely qualifies her to be her children's teacher.  With this relationship comes a great ability to discern a child's unique needs.  A mother's love for her children also gives her the patience to find the BEST way to teach them.
  • Please ask me how much algebra I remembered before I started teaching my children.  Then ask me why that didn't keep me from being a good algebra teacher.
  • Please ask about all the opportunities that homeschoolers have to engage in learning outside the home.
  • Please ask me where you can learn more about the laws of homeschooling in your state so that you will know how easy it is to homeschool in most states.
  • Please ask me how much I love being my children's teacher. 
  • Please remember that children have unique personalities which occur in spite of how they are educated. 
  • Please base your opinions of my children on who they are as people...not on how they are being educated.
  • Please assume that I am just like you.
  • Please be willing to at least consider homeschooling as an option for your own children.
  • Please remind me to be as gracious to you regarding your educational choices as I have asked you to be regarding mine!
  • And finally, however you choose to educate your children, please have a wonderful Christmas!!
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17 December 2007 - heather @ http://www.gracedbychrist.com

Posted by Anonymous
Much better than the bitter version.

Grrr--I hate that homeschool blogger doesn't let me look at the post while commenting. I always forget what I want to say.
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17 December 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CrossView
Ah. Much more polite.... =)
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18 December 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by kellieann
Is it ok to like both lists? But yours is definitely nicer!
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18 December 2007 - LOL!

Posted by Prodoceo
Yes...I love the bitter list...just thought I'd be nice for Christmas. I plan on going back to being bitter after the holidays! My daughter read mine and said, "I like the bitter one better!"
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18 December 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by job19v25
Came across your blog when random blogging. Similar title to my own (also after Michael Card's song.) Really enjoyed this post!
Have a great Christmas,
Deb
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18 December 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Arby
Be nice? Hmmm. Where's the fun in that?! Being nice means that you cannot look at a home school skeptic and say, "Obviously, I love my children more than you love yours!"

Good list!
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