Proverbs 31 Devotionals
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• Nov. 16, 2009 - Infected
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The writer of Psalm 119 knew well that bad company corrupts good character. In verse 115, he told evildoers to get away so that he could keep God’s commands.
I got to thinking about how some of my activities pull me away from God’s commands. Now, I’m not referring to what most of us would classify as “big” sins such as adultery, murder, or homosexuality. I am thinking of seemingly innocent things like using the computer. While the Internet can be a wonderful tool, how many times do we find ourselves spending more time there than necessary? After all, we could be spending that time in the Word or in making the house look nice for when our husband comes home at the end of a long day. We could have spent that time reading to our children or playing with them. When we realize we have wasted too much time on the computer, our attitude usually changes for the worse. We realize that we are suddenly pressed for time in getting the evening meal ready or whatever the case may be. The result is often that we tend to get crabby. Add a short fuse to our temper, and we can quickly infect those around us. Before we realize it, the whole family is in a bad mood, thus slightest offense leading to much bickering.
I admit it – I am a FOX news junkie. With all that is taking place in the world, I find it difficult to turn off the television. Yet, when they begin to talk about Madonna, Miley Cyrus, or Lindsay Lohan, do I really need to hear it? To put it bluntly, it is gossip, and God’s Word tells me to avoid it. If I ignore His commands, I become spiritually infected.
A real wake-up call to me was one morning when I told my daughter that I had a nightmare about Muslims the previous night. She had an astonished look on her face and replied, “So did I!” My husband and I knew immediately that the excessive watching of the TV news was not only infecting us, it was also infecting her.
You see, when we allow spiritual infection into our lives, it doesn’t just affect us. It affects others. Just as the psalmist took a stand against spiritual infection, we also need to do the same.
Do you need to treat any “infection” in your life?
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• Jul. 30, 2009 - Loaves and Fish
~~~~~ Loaves and Fish ~~~~~
Many years ago, I kept having dreams that I was singing solos at church. I would wake up and think, “That is weird! I can’t sing!” Well, I could sing, but it sounded more like a joyful noise! Yet, as I continued to have those dreams, I started to hear the Lord telling me that one day I would be singing solos. About nine months later, I went Christmas caroling with our nursing home ministry team. I loved it! I quickly signed up to join the team that went out each week to a local nursing home to do a Sunday service. Wouldn’t you know it? The very first Sunday I went, they handed me a microphone and said, “Sing!” I honestly thought I could hear God laughing!
Now, when I started singing at the nursing home, it wasn’t as if God said, “Start out singing Sandi Patty songs.” No, He only asked me to sing. And He was wise enough to start me out in a small setting with people whose hearing wasn’t all that good.”
Later, He led me to join the church choir. As I began to strengthen my voice, He built my confidence. A few years later, I did end up singing several Sandi Patty songs. I offered to the Lord what little ability I had in those early days at the nursing home, and He took it and multiplied into something bigger.
In Mark 6:30-44, we find the story where Jesus fed the five thousand. What I love about this story is that Jesus didn’t ask the disciples for what they didn’t have. He only asked them for what they did have. “How many loaves do you have?” (verse 38) Then He blesses it, multiplies it, and uses it far beyond what we can imagine.
When the Lord first told me to start my Internet ministry, I had no expectations of what He was going to do. I just knew that I had a passion to share with other ladies things I had learned over the years that made a huge impact on my life. The Lord made it clear that He was going to gift me write in devotional format many lessons I’d learned over the years. He wasn’t asking me to write a book. He was only asking of me what I had – a love for writing. My love for writing is similar to the five loaves and two fish in Mark 6 – that is what I had to offer.
Over the years, the Lord blessed my “loaves and fish.” I am still amazed that people from every continent have signed up to receive my monthly devotions. What amazes me even more is that some of my devotions are being translated into three different languages. Now, I don’t share these personal things with you to brag about myself. Rather, I brag on the Lord because this is His doing!
Often, I think we get overwhelmed when the Lord begins to show us a new place of ministry. Dear one, don’t allow yourself to overly burdened with what the Lord reveals to you. Offer Him what you have. That is all He asks. He will be the One to bless your efforts. You don’t need to worry about whether this new place of ministry will succeed or not. That is in the Lord’s hands. Just give Him your “loaves and fish” and watch how He blesses and multiplies them!
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• Jul. 17, 2009 - Unity
Unity
Unity is something which God truly desires for His church, yet very few churches have a strong sense of unity. I came up with an acrostic to help us in striving to remember what unity is all about.
Use your gift and talents for God’s glory and never for your own.
Never put someone else down to try and elevate yourself.
Invite the help of the Holy Spirit so you will only speak that which is edifying.
Trust in the Lord at all times, even when you do not understand what He is doing.
Yearn for God’s presence to saturate you every day.
Remember that any gift or talent you have is from the Lord. Every good gift comes from the Father. (James 1:17)
We are to do nothing out of selfish ambition, but consider others better than ourselves. By keeping an attitude of humility, we will protect ourselves from a prideful heart that tries to make us look good on the outside, while polluting us on the inside.
The place where I struggle the most is with my words. If I do not diligently seek the help of the Holy Spirit, I will easily be swayed to complain. I am more likely to be critical if I am not mindful of the Lord. If I fail to be faithfully in the Word, I resort to my “B.C” (before Christ) language – a language which should be completely foreign to me now.
Many times we see things in the church which we do not understand. Rather than grumbling or gossiping about it, we need to trust the Lord to work out the situation for His glory, and our good.
When the body of Christ yearns for God’s presence seven days a week, great things will take place. Relationships will be healed. The sense of Christian family will grow stronger within the Body of Christ. Visitors will not only sense God’s presence, but they will see His presence in our love toward one another. Factions, dissensions, and gossip will cease. We will be concerned about the Father’s business, rather than our own agenda.
© 2007, Stacy R. Miller
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• May. 29, 2009 - Priorities
Priorities
Do you struggle to keep your priorities in the right order? I certainly do! It can be quite frustrating at times. We try to keep our husbands happy, take care of the kids, manage a home, keep on top of all the outside activities, keep up with extended family, and suddenly, there is no time left for us, nor time to spend with the Lord.
Psalm 1 gives some wonderful insights into how to change this merry-go-round that seems to spin out of control. Verse 2 tells us the godly delight in doing everything the Lord wants. Hmm…..how many times do I find myself doing things everyone else wants me to do? That happens more often that I care to admit. Perhaps that is our problem. Sisters, we need to learn to say “no!” If you don’t think you can say no up front to someone who asks you to do something, train yourself to say, “Let me pray about this and discuss it with my husband, then I’ll get back to you.” This will train you to be a God-pleaser, rather than a man-pleaser. You will learn to pray before saying “yes,” and it may lessen your load because you may discover that God wants you to cut many activities from your life.
The second part of verse 2 says the godly think about God’s law day and night. This means they take time to read the Word, meditating on it until it is in their spirit. This way, even when they are going about their daily grind, they can still be thinking about what they have learned. This takes practice and diligence. Ok, I can hear some of you saying, “I just don’t have time for this!”
Verse 1 tells us the godly don’t follow the advice of the wicked. We may claim to not have time to read the Word, but how often do we turn on secular TV and listen to the ungodly advice given there? How often do we pick up a magazine or newspaper and read ungodly advice in those pages? Verse 1 also mentions the joy the godly have because they aren’t filling their spirit with ungodly advice.
This verse also tells us the godly do not stand around with sinners. In other words, they find wise, godly friends who will be like iron sharpening iron. The godly also refuse to sit down and get comfy with those who scoff the very Lord they serve. Yet, how many times do we sit down and turn on a situation comedy to relax and wind down for the night? Often, these shows portray the fathers as idiots, and they frequently make Christians look like morons.
Verse 3 tells us the godly bear fruit in each season. If we make time with the Lord a priority in our lives, it will enable us to stand firm regardless of what comes our way. We can bear fruit:
n when going through a desert experience,
n when the children are squabbling,
n when a family member is ill
n when our marriage is in a rut,
n in the midst of a job loss,
n while grieving the death of a loved one.
I don’t know about you, but with the trying times in which we live, I’m finding much more life in the Word than on television. It refreshes my spirit and gives me hope, even when the evening news makes me want to tremble in fear.
Do your priorities need to be adjusted?
© 2008, Stacy R. Miller
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• May. 21, 2009 - Spiritual Romance Series
Listening for my Lover's Voice
Many times we don't think of our relationship with the Lord as being romantic. We save that term for our relationship with our spouse. Yet, the Bible makes it clear that we are the Bride of Christ. What bride is going to unite herself with a groom if she has no romantic feelings for him?
God makes it clear that He has some very strong feelings for us. In Zeph. 3:17-18, it mentions how God takes great delight in us and He rejoices over us with singing. In the original translation, it meant that He literally spins about with joy. We have probably all heard a lovestruck girl exclaim, "Oh he makes my head spin!" That is what I think of when I read this portion of scripture. My Father is so lovestruck over me that His head spins!
Do you remember when you first fell in love with your husband? Do you remember how he could walk into the room, and it was like the world just stopped revolving? He could make your heart skip a beat. You were so lovestruck that there was a sense of loving awe when your eyes beheld him. There was a romantic reverence as he approached you. Our God wants it to be this way with Him. He desires for us to have a romantic reverence toward Him - to be so in love with Him that when our thoughts turn toward Him, our heart literally skips a beat because of the passion that is stirred up in us.
He has written a love letter to us called the Bible. He would dearly love it if we would take the time to write a love letter to Him. Some people keep journals of their thoughts and of their conversations with the Lord. It helps to stir up the passion for Him in their lives.
Think back to when you were dating. You might be in the middle of a really bad day, and suddenly, your love calls you on the phone. What happened? Everything else fails in comparison to focusing on him, and knowing that he was thinking of you - in knowing that he took the time to call you because he cares for you and loves you deeply. God desires to bless us with these kinds of moments. In the mundane, He tries to "call" you. Are you listening for your Lover's still small voice?
Romanced by God
Did your husband ever sing love songs to you while you were dating? God desires for us to sing love songs to Him, out of a heart filled with love and adoration for Him. Too many times, we may sing words, but they aren't truly praises sung to Him. We fall into the trap of doing it out of habit. It's similar to a real marriage where one spouse takes the other for granted. God has given us so much. Let's be very careful not to take Him for granted.
Do you remember how the unexpected cards, flowers, or candy would just make you feel so special? Even now, if your husband would walk in with a small gift for you, wouldn't it just thrill your heart? God does the same thing for us, but I think many times we take it for granted. For example, I went shopping and found over $117 worth of items and I only paid $8 for them. That was God showing up, giving me a gift. A friend recently gave me a huge trash bag of clothing for Rachel. That's God showing up again, only He used a person to give me this gift from Him. What about the times a friend may take you out to eat? That is God again, wanting to bless you and show you His love.
Do you ever have times where your husband gives you a gift that literally causes your jaw to drop, leaving you speechless? God is really good at doing the same thing. When I figured up the value of what I bought on my shopping trip, compared to what I actually spent, my jaw dropped. I knew it was God's blessing.
There was another time where my heart was filled to overflowing for the blessing of the Lord. We had just gotten possession of our house, knowing that we would have to repaint everything, not to mention buy new blinds, curtains, drapes, etc. It seemed that the money was unending for what we needed. Now, we aren't wealthy by any means, if you only count wealth by financial status. Yet, the funds continued to stretch to the point of even buying a new stove and refrigerator. One day I was praying and thanking the Lord for His blessing. My heart felt like it was going to burst. I told the Lord that I wanted to do something for Him to show Him how grateful I was for His blessing. Within minutes, my husband pulled up in a used car, asking me what I thought about purchasing the car and giving it to his mother, who was in desperate need of one. I knew God was answering my prayer.
Do you remember going out to eat when you were dating? You weren't so focused on the food, but on the communication that took place while eating the food. There are times that God's Word becomes the "Rhema" word to us, meaning it is the "now" word for us - just what we needed to hear. These are times when the Lover of our soul is taking us out to eat, only what we are eating is spiritual food.
Why don't you let God take you "out to eat?" Don't forget to let Him make the "menu selection" for you. You won't be disappointed!
Whispers of Love
Do you ever do nice things for your husband, expecting absolutely nothing in return? Our church had a carnival, raising money for a missions project. While I didn't have items to donate for the garage sale, I did bake some banana bread to be used in the bake sale, and we bought many tickets to spend at the carnival. There was a booth of ladies, making fresh flowers in some pretty little cups, pots, etc. It only took two tickets, which amounted to fifty cents, to purchase some of these fresh flowers. Rachel and I came home with three little assortments of fresh flowers. That is something which I never purchase because money is tight, and could better be spent on other things. You see, I gave only a small amount to the bake sale, but came home with lots of fresh flowers that were absolutely beautiful! In my opinion, I got the better end of the deal. The point is that we can do things for God, expecting nothing in return, but we will quickly see that He will outdo us because we just can't outgive God.
Do you remember those times when you were dating, and you would try to steal away, just long enough to call your love and tell him that you love him? God wants us to do just that. One day I was praising Him, and someone walked into the room. I got up long enough to go to the bedroom and lavish some love on my Lord. I could have continued to do it with others around, but I wanted that intimacy with my Lord, and I didn't want to share it with anyone. It's similar to those times of intimacy with your spouse. Things happen that the two of you may find quite funny or intimate, but they are things which remain just between the two of you and no one else. We can have that kind of intimacy with our Lord - where we steal away to whisper loving, intimate things to Him which no one else is privileged to share.
Recently while at church, there was such an awesome presence of the Holy Spirit. The only way I can describe it to you is to say that it was like I was enveloped by His presence, feeling His kisses caress every inch of my soul. It was an awesomely intimate, spiritual experience. Words can't even begin to tell you how truly beautiful it was. Since that time, when I think about the Lord, I actually get those fluttering feelings in my stomach, just like we all did when we first fell in love. I never knew that I could have this kind of relationship with the Lord, and I wish that mere words could explain the awesomeness of this intimacy, but it just can't. Just like you can't explain the depth of your love for your spouse to someone else, it's something that is so intimate between the two of you.
Birthing of Gifts
Now, let's move on to the birthing process in a marriage. Just as husband and wife have a union where they give birth to a child, God will birth things within us. He conceives the gift within us. Sometimes He may show us the birthing process by giving us dreams about this gifting. Sometimes He may just put a passion in our heart for a particular area. Eventually, we "bear" the gift, yet we are totally aware that it is only because Father planted the seed of that gift within us. The gift is the "baby" which we've made, with the help of the Lord.
I can remember a good example of God using dreams to show me what He was going to do in my life. I kept having dreams of singing before people. I just laughed it off, thinking it was a high and lofty idea. Several months later, I went Christmas caroling at the nursing homes. I loved being around those elderly people. Within a short period of time, I joined the nursing home ministry. The first Sunday there, I couldn't believe what happened. They handed me a microphone, and said, "SING!" I think I actually heard God laughing that day! As I was faithful in helping in that ministry, God developed a confidence in me, and eventually, I found myself singing in front of the whole church. I still remember the very first time - I was positive that I was going to vomit! Thankfully, it didn't happen!
In Deut. 22:13-21 it talks about the blood covenant that comes with getting married. When the marriage was consummated, blood would be shed by the woman, if she was still a virgin. There is a blood covenant in being the Bride of Christ also, only this time, it was the Groom who shed His blood, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him. May we never take for granted the awesome sacrifice that our Groom paid for our redemption.
I hope that through these illustrations I've been able to give a different, though fresh look at what being the Bride of Christ is. I hope that it's whetted your appetite to find those intimate times of refreshing with our wonderful Savior.
© 2003, Stacy R. Miller
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• Apr. 27, 2009 - Worship That Moves the Lord
Worship That Moves the Lord
Have you ever been so desperate in prayer that you begin to beg God for His help, yet feel as if He is ignoring you? A Canaanite woman experienced that very thing. In Matthew 15:22, she is crying out to Jesus as He passes by. Yet, the Lord doesn’t even acknowledge her.
Now many of us become discouraged when we feel as if the Lord is ignoring us. We may even fail to pray since we feel as if our fervent prayers are falling on deaf ears. Yet, what this Canaanite woman does next fascinates me. She refuses to give up. She comes and humbly kneels before Jesus and again asks for His help. Her humble posture speaks volumes to the Lord, for not only does He notice her, He speaks to her. Her humble response shows her great faith in Him, even though He previously ignored her. He commends her for her great faith and grants her request.
We can learn much from this story. When we don’t get an immediate response, we must not get mad and become too proud to ask again. We must humble ourselves before Him and keep asking, for the Lord will not reject a humble, contrite heart. (Psalm 51:17) Our humble worship may be what moves Him to act quickly on our behalf.
© 2008, Stacy R Miller
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• Mar. 28, 2009 - Drained and Scarred
Drained and Scarred
Several years ago, I began to donate plasma. I wish I could say that I did it to save lives, for that sounds so noble. In all honesty, I did it for the money.
After donating twice a week for over a year, there was a period of time where they were having trouble with my veins. This resulted in being deferred from donating for thirty days so that my arms could have a chance to heal.
About two weeks later, I realized that I felt so much better! I had much more energy. In fact, I felt like a new person! It dawned on me that donating plasma twice a week had subtly drained my energy level. After discovering that donating had led me to feel like the “walking-dead,” I decided that the money just was not worth the price I was physically paying. After all, you cannot put a price on your life!
This experience got me to wondering how many times we allow ourselves to get involved in things which subtly zap us of energy. We may be involved in activities that drain us instead of refreshing us. These are often things which have become a drudgery instead of a delight. Perhaps we have been involved in an area where God is telling us we need to step down, yet we have failed to yield to that call.
There may be things that take a lot of our time. Time is a precious resource we need to guard wisely. It is a good idea to evaluate how we are spending our time. I recently had to do this in regard to an activity I was coordinating and leading. After weighing the pros and cons, it was clear that I needed to step down. Though this endeavor was a good one, it was requiring a lot of my time with very little results.
It has been a few years since I have donated plasma, yet I still have scars on both arms from where they inserted those large needles. It is the same with us in a spiritual sense. We can end up scarred when we keep giving of ourselves in areas where we have not been called. When we fail to discern the Lord telling us it is time to leave a certain place of ministry, we can end up with huge spiritual scars because we have failed to obey Him.
For instance, maybe you feel called to help in the nursery. After a few years, you have a baby. It could be time to give up that “calling” for a season. Later, when the baby is older, the Lord may draw you back to that place of ministry.
Spiritual scars can also develop through words spoken to us. When we choose to harbor bitterness, rather than taking it to the Lord, we can end up scarred.
We may neglect to spend time with the Lord, discerning His will for our lives. This not only can lead to more scars on us, but it can also cause us to scar others.
Do you need to reevaluate your daily commitments? Are there any activities that drain your energy, your resources, and your time? Are there things in your life that are causing spiritual scars?
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• Mar. 22, 2009 - Spring Cleaning
Spring Cleaning
As I was cleaning out Rachel's closet yesterday (no small undertaking, let me tell you!), it occurred to me that we could do some "spring cleaning" in our spiritual lives. So often, we go along, doing our "Christian things." We go through all the motions, and we say the right things, but have we really stopped to take a look at our hearts? Jer. 17:9 says that the heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked. It is so easy for my heart to become darkened by sins deceitfulness, and not even realize it. There are so many things to distract me - it just gets buried down deep in my heart, without my even being aware of it.
It's good for us to have those times where we get before the Lord and ask Him to reveal those hidden things in our hearts. If we try to hide those things, or refuse to even look for those hidden things, we are "cherishing sin in our heart." The Word is clear that if we do that, God isn't going to hear our prayers.
Spiritually we can do spring cleaning by remembering the words in Col 3:8-10 that tell us that we MUST rid ourselves of all such things like anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from our lips. We need to be careful not to lie because that is all part of the old practice (the stuff that should be cleaned out already), and we need to be putting on the NEW self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.
You have probably all heard the saying that if you haven't worn something for one year that you should get rid of it. We are to be clothing ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. These are garments that we should never be throwing away, but we should be wearing these garments on a daily basis. -- I have to admit, I don't wear patience nearly as often as I should. It's not a comfortable garment for me. It causes me to have to restrain my tongue quite often. That is hard for me at times!
Rom. 13:14 says that we should clothe ourselves with the Lord Jesus, not thinking about how to fulfill the desires of our flesh. - Father, help us all to remember that when we get our physical bodies dressed in the morning, that we are to dressing our spiritual bodies too! WE NEED YOUR HELP!
Rom. 6:12 says that we are not to LET sin reign in our mortal bodies. Often, if we have gotten snared by the enemy, it requires a "cleaning." We need to go before Father and confess our sin. We need to renounce it, then tell Satan that we are closing the door which we had opened to him by committing the sin. That is one good cleaning! So often, we think that as long as we confess it, it is over and done with, but in reality, sometimes there is more warfare to do over the situation. That is why God has given us spiritual armor. He gives US the power to close the door on the enemy. It is something that requires action on our part.
Sometimes we go through "guilt trips." Heb. 9:14 says that the blood of Jesus will cleanse our consciences from acts that lead to death. Sometimes we need to get "cleaning" and use that product called "The Blood of Jesus" so that we can be free from those guilt trips, which Satan likes to keep putting into our minds.
I find that physical clutter can drive me to the point of absolute frustration. I end up to the point of tears because the more clutter you have, the more of your energy it requires to take care of all of the clutter. It's the same with our spiritual lives. When I harbor unforgiveness, it is like rottenness in my bones. If I don't have my quiet times with God, my attitude is far from what I know Father desires that it would be.
In repentance and rest is your salvation, and in quietness and trust is your strength. (Is. 30:15) As we become still and know that HE is God (Ps. 46:10), He will do that inner cleansing (spring cleaning) on our hearts, and we will feel so refreshed and renewed. Remember - God is for us, not against us. Just as a toddler will often run away when it's time for a bath, sometimes we do the same thing when "Daddy" wants to give us a spiritual bath. Just as you know bathing is good for your children, know that being bathed by the Father is good for YOU!
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• Mar. 2, 2009 - Staggering Drunk
Staggering Drunk
It was a busy Friday night on the highway which runs through our city. We were out on family excursion when I glanced in the rearview mirror and saw his red eyes, all glazed over. Drunk….and he was swiftly approaching the rear end of my car. Of all things, my precious daughter was sitting in the back seat.
I wish I could tell you that was the end of our encounter with the drunken man. Unfortunately, it wasn’t. He lives next door to us. There have been numerous occasions when we have observed him staggering to the door. We have even viewed him swaying as he walked down the street to the landlord’s house because, in his drunken stupor, he locked himself out of the house.
Ephesians 5:18-19 admonishes us not to get drunk on wine, but to constantly be filled with the Spirit. John warns us not to love the world because he knew that getting too intimate with worldly things could cause us to develop a spiritual stagger that would lead us from the straight and narrow path. (First John 2:15)
When we are “drunk” on worldly passions, we lock ourselves out from the blessings of God, much like neighbor locked himself out of the house.
When we “drink” too much on earthly things, it is much harder to resist temptation. When my neighbor couldn’t resist the lure of the bottle, he faced the humiliation of having his name appear in the paper after being arrested for drunk driving. We may also end up in an embarrassing position when our sin finds us out. (Numbers 32:23)
Let us be determined to continue walking a godly path so that when Jesus returns, we can stand before Him, confident and unashamed. (First John 2:28)
© 2008, Stacy R Miller |
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• Feb. 23, 2009 - Curled up in Daddy's Lap
Curled up in Daddy's Lap
When your child is hurt or sad, there is no better place to be than in the lap of Mommy or Daddy (whoever happens to be the available one), but there is an extra security of being in Daddy's lap because Daddy has those big, strong arms of protection. The tears quickly fade, as your child feels that comfort, security, and love. Any scars are gone, and replaced with peace.
What about the times when your child is trying to do something by themselves, but obviously isn't getting it done? Well, we gently tell them, that all they had to do was ask for help, not go into a tizzy.
Now, let's talk about it where the "rubber meets the road." How many times do we get hurt by comments made by others? How many times are we deeply saddened by something, to the point of tears? How many times do we get in a tizzy, or let ourselves be frazzled because we are trying so hard to do too much, and we haven't asked for help?
We, too, have a "Daddy" and He would love for us to climb into His lap, and to share our hurts, our struggles, our feelings of inadequacy, and our feelings of being so totally overwhelmed with the tasks that are before us. Jesus tells us in John 14:1 "Do not LET your hearts be troubled, distressed, or agitated." (Amp. Bible) We tend to get ourselves into the messes where we feel so overwhelmed and inadequate and depressed. He wants us to come to Him. I Pet. 5:7 says "Casting the whole of your care (all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, once and for all) on Him, for He cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully." (Amp. Bible)
God loves us so much that He doesn't want us to just come to Him when we are so burdened with cares, but He wants us to curl up in His lap once in a while, just so He can love on us, as we love on our children when they are in our lap. I remember, as a new mom, God spoke so tenderly to me one day as I was nursing Rachel. He told me that each time I sat down to nurse her, to use that time to sit in His lap, and He would love and cuddle me, just as I was cuddling her. Those were some precious times. Nursing was never the same after He spoke that to me. The days of nursing are long gone, but the days of letting my Father cuddle me don't have to be gone. He is right there, and He is patiently waiting on me, and He's waiting on you. Why don't you go let Him love on you for a while?
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• Feb. 8, 2009 - Trashy Love
Trashy Love
One day while running errands with my mother, I mentioned something to her about some girls I knew who dressed so trashy. As Rachel sat in the back seat of the car, listening to our conversation, she said, “Mom, how are you better than them when you talk about them like that?” Busted!
Just as these girls dressed trashy, I was being trashy with my love toward them. How often do we offer trashy love to others?
Instead of patience, we offer impatience.
Rather than being kind, we choose to be rude.
When we should rejoice in God's blessing to someone else, we become envious.
Rather than having a humble attitude, we become puffed up and proud.
It seems that our motives are often self-seeking, instead of seeking the good of others.
While true love isn't supposed to be easily angered, it seems that our temper can flare up in an instant.
We aren't supposed to keep a record of wrongs, but when someone ruffles our feathers, we can quickly recite a list of wrongs done to us by this person.
Love is supposed to protect. Yet, how many times do we hang up the phone, only to call two or three people and share something that was told to us in confidence?
Love is supposed to persevere, yet we live in a society that believes in giving up as soon as some problem arises. People file for divorce. People stop serving in the church when things they get their feelings hurt. We quit attending church because we were offended by someone. We would rather not learn about perseverance.
Excuse me now. I think I need to be washed by the Father for some trashy love that I have offered to others.
© 2006, Stacy R. Miller |
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• Jan. 29, 2009 - Finding Sanctuary
Finding Sanctuary
Have you found it a bit disheartening to see the economy plummeting, yet hear stories of how top executives are still going on lavish retreats? We hear stories of those who run the mortgage companies and auto industries living the lifestyle of the rich and famous, while we struggle to put food on our table and pay our monthly utility bills. It reminds me of what the psalmist was observing in Psalm 73.
He began to notice how the proud would prosper despite their wickedness. They seemingly lived painless lives, with strong, healthy bodies. They didn’t appear to be troubled like many who were daily plagued with one problem after another. The wicked would even flaunt their pride – wearing it like a jeweled necklace. It seemed as if they could boast and scoff against the Lord, yet face no punishment.
As the psalmist beheld these activities, he couldn’t help but have negative thoughts. He even began to question God’s goodness. He wondered if he had been serving the Lord in vain. It is the same for us. First, we begin to take our eyes off the Lord. Next, we begin to magnify the circumstances we are in, as opposed to the God who rules those circumstances. Our feet begin a slippery, downward slope; we find ourselves doubting the very God we have trusted for so many years.
What are we to do? The psalmist found a remedy in verse 17. He went into the sanctuary. Suddenly, his perspective began to change. Instead of focusing on the seemingly prosperous lives of the wicked, he focused on their destiny. He realized that while on the outside, it looked as if they were succeeding. Yet, in reality, they were really heading over a cliff to destruction. The dream they were currently living was going to come to an abrupt end.
Next, the psalmist realized that in spite of his foolish thinking, and his temporary doubts about God’s goodness, the Lord continued to hold his hand. He realized that God had never left him. God was still there, guiding him. That realization leads him to declare, “Whom have I in heaven but You, Lord?”
To adjust our focus, we also need to come to the sanctuary. This “sanctuary” is more than just attending church. It is living in God’s Word, for that is what will strengthen us. Our health may fail us. The shape of the economy may cause our spirit to falter and grow weak. Yet God is strength of our heart. He can only be the strength of our heart when we daily seek Him and diligently get into His Word to find the strength to sustain us in these uncertain times in which we live.
Go find your sanctuary in the Word of God today.
© 2008, Stacy R Miller |
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• Dec. 31, 2008 - Resolutions
Resolutions
As the end of the year approaches, people begin to make their resolutions for the New Year. We resolve to lose weight, to focus on a character issue, to read a certain number of books each month, to mend broken relationships, and the list goes on. We find ourselves disillusioned when we break our resolutions after only a few weeks, and in some cases, after just a few days.
I made a resolution several years ago that I would not make another New Year’s resolution. However, I'm about to break that resolution! I don't want my new resolution to be a New Year’s resolution. I want it to be a daily resolution. My resolution: I want to know Christ, and Him crucified! (First Corinthians 2:2)
Most of our resolutions are things we try to do in our own strength. My new resolution is one I want to make, and keep, with the Lord’s help. Philippians 4:13 tells us that we can do all things through Christ. Won't you join me in this journey to know Christ in a deeper way? Perhaps as we diligently seek to know Him better, we will find the ability to conquer some of those other resolutions as well.
© 2008, Stacy R Miller
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• Dec. 7, 2008 - Christmas Message
With the Christmas season upon us, I decided to start with a devotional that is along that line. We tend to get caught up in so many things during this beautiful season -- so much to the point that we often miss out on the beauty of the season, not to mention the true reason for the season. I was reading in The Message Bible this morning. In First Cor. 7, it says "Don't complicate your lives unnecessarily. Keep it simple - in marriage, grief, joy, whatever. Even in the ordinary things - your daily routines of shopping, and so on. Deal as sparingly as possible with the things the world thrusts on you. This world as you see it is on its way out. I want you to live as free of complications as possible.....All I want is for you to be able to develop a way of life in which you can spend plenty of time together with the Master without a lot of distractions."
Distractions - isn't that something we all deal with on a daily basis? One time a lady shared how she takes a notebook with her when she does devotions. Then, when Satan whispers "You forgot to take out the trash, you didn't make that doctor appt., you didn't call that friend yet...." you can write it down, and then do it later.
How can you minimize your distractions? What gets your focus off of Jesus during this busy season? Seek to find a way to have those times of quiet intimacy with our wonderful Master. You won't regret it!
I want to share something that I heard a long time ago that has made a big impact on me during the Christmas season. It's so simple, but so profound. When you gaze upon your Christmas tree, with all of the lights and the glitter, remember that it was a tree upon which Jesus died for you. Let YOUR Christmas tree be a gentle reminder of the great love that Jesus had for you, while you were yet in the midst of your sin. Let the lights be a reminder of how He wants His light to shine through you to a lost and dying world, and yes, even to your own family. Let the red ribbons and bows be a symbol of the blood He shed to bring about healing and wholeness to your life. Let the tinsel be a reminder of the beauty that He wants to give you, instead of ashes.
May this Christmas season be the start of a new way to view the holidays, and may it start some new and lasting traditions for you in the years to come.
© 2003, Stacy R. Miller |
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• Dec. 2, 2008 - Chosen One
Chosen One
The only good memories I have of school are from the very early years. Once I reached middle school, everything changed. I remember feeling so confused because I was intelligent and very outgoing.
I quickly discovered that in middle school, it wasn't cool to be smart, unless we were doing a spelling bee. I was always the first one chosen for those.
In gym class, however, my mastery of spelling didn't help me. Whenever they would pick teams, I was always one of the last three chosen. It was humiliating. I remember the jeers and taunting I would face every time I had to go to bat. I would purposely strike out just so I would be off home plate quickly, allowing my classmates to pick on their next victim.
It was a very difficult time for me. I wasn't chosen unless my peers could somehow benefit from my presence. I was never chosen to be friends with the popular crowd.
I remember how I would wait for the bus in the mornings, fearing that I was going to have diarrhea, all because of the fear of the awaiting torture by my peers.
Yet, there is One who did choose me -- Jesus. He chose me to go and bear fruit. (John 15:16) He chose me before the foundation of the world, and in His love, He adopted me and takes pleasure in me. He has redeemed me, lavishly pouring Gods grace upon me. The God of the universe has even made known to me the mystery of His will. My Creator has a plan and purpose for my life, and it is to bring glory to Him. (Ephesians 1:4-12)
As much as it hurt to be rejected by my peers, I believe all of the pain helped to lead me to Gods magnificent grace and bountiful love. I realize now that while many are invited, few are chosen. (Matthew 22:14)
Aren't you glad that you are one of the chosen?
© 2008, Stacy R. Miller
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• Nov. 10, 2008 - Balcony Seating
Balcony Seating
When our high school girls’ basketball team went to the state finals several years ago, we bought tickets from some fans of the losing team so we could sit closer to the floor for the evening game. When we arrived, someone else was sitting in our seats. We showed them our ticket stubs, proving the seats were ours and they moved to higher seating.
We allow people who are close to us to take a front row seat into our lives. We discuss personal things with them because they have earned that privilege. Occasionally, we will have individuals who expect front row seating in our lives. Yet, we see the need to put up some boundaries and quickly send them to the balcony of our lives.
For instance, I know a lady who feels the need to frequently tell me that I need to have more children. This woman has a proven reputation of being a busybody, so I quickly move her to balcony seating. The Word speaks against the behavior of being a busybody. (Second Thessalonians 3:11) I choose to stay away from her so that her bad company does not have a chance of corrupting my character. (First Corinthians 15:33)
I had a close friend who began to make foolish choices. After investing a lot of my time and energy on her, I saw she was choosing to continue in her foolish choices. After confronting her on the issues, I chose to move her to the balcony, for a companion of fools suffers harm. (Proverbs 13:20)
If you are trying to watch your words, you may find it necessary to move some people to the balcony in your own life. If we continue to hang out with those who are given to obscene language, foolish talking, and coarse joking, we will have a much harder time breaking that cycle in our own lives. (Proverbs 4:24; Ephesians 5:4)
Perhaps you have a friend who is constantly speaking negatively about her husband. It is so easy fall into the trap of adding your own negative thoughts. Yet, by doing so, you will find it difficult to respect your husband. (Ephesians 5:32) Rather than doing him good, you will likely resort to nagging. (Proverbs 19:13; 21:9, 19) It is time to move this person to the balcony so you can focus on developing the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. (First Peter 3:4)
Because I know several women struggle with setting boundaries, I want to give one more example that may hit very close to home for many of you. Sometimes we need to move extended family members to the balcony. If we have extended family members who cannot respect the way we choose to raise our children, and they continually belittle us in front of our children, perhaps it’s time to move them to higher seating. I recently had to do this with a family member. It has been very hard because I thought I had a very close relationship with this person, and often shared very intimate details of my life with her. However, she made it quite clear several months ago how little she thinks of me. I was devastated by her behavior. I have had to do much praying to be able to handle this situation in a godly fashion, especially knowing that my young daughter is closely watching because she was there when all of this transpired. The result has been that I no longer make the weekly phone calls to her, nor will I visit her. However, when there is a need to inform her of something, such as an upcoming clogging performance for my daughter, I will tell her, but I choose to keep the conversation very short. When there are family get-togethers, I attend, and I will speak to her, but refrain from engaging in any in-depth conversation. I still treat her with respect, yet at the same time, I have moved her to balcony seating.
Do you need to move some people to the balcony in your own life?
© Stacy R. Miller
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• Nov. 3, 2008 - Politically Correct
Politically Correct
“Politically correct” has become the new buzz word of the day. It appears the concept of being politically correct has also infiltrated the mindset of many Christians.
I have seen people who profess to be Christians, yet believe there is nothing wrong with being gay. There are even denominations which are ordaining homosexual ministers. Yet God clearly condemns this sin. The Word tells us that those who are homosexuals will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. (I Corinthians 6:9-10)
I have heard numerous stories of men who profess to be Christians leaving their wives for another woman. Often, they will say that it just feels right, so it must be of God for them to continue this adulterous relationship. Jeremiah 17:9 tells us that our hearts are deceitful and desperately wicked. Our hearts will easily lead us astray, so we must follow what the Word of God tells us. His Word clearly denounces adultery in First Corinthians 6:9-10.
I see many professing Christians allowing witchcraft into their homes through a series of popular books. The Lord makes it very clear in Leviticus 19:26 that we are to stay away from these things. In Exodus 22:18, we see that anyone who practiced sorcery was to be put to death. So why would a Christian allow any kind of witchcraft in their home?
As I have taken a stand against these very things, I have been verbally attacked. I would expect this behavior from nonbelievers, but these vicious assaults came from people who profess to be Christians!
In a place of Christian fellowship, I was repeatedly bashed when I spoke out against a lesbian witch. She would pretend to be a Christian, yet was active in circles that flaunted homosexuality and Wicca. First Corinthians 5:9-11 tells us not to associate with one who professes to be a Christian, yet lives a lifestyle that says otherwise. When I dared to speak the truth of God’s Word on this issue, I was accused of being on a witch-hunt.
I believe we are living in the days when the love of many will wax cold. (Matthew 24:12) We are living in a time when even the elect are being deceived into choosing to be politically correct, rather than standing firm on the Word of God. (Matthew 24:24)
I have struggled to understand why professing Christians have so blatantly attacked those who choose to speak the uncompromised Word of God. I have finally come to realize that people who compromise on the principles in God’s Word can not stand the sight of excellence. They are deeply convicted when someone takes a righteous stand on an issue, and it makes them feel uncomfortable. The result is lashing out at those who speak the uncompromised truth.
Jesus faced this very thing many times with the religious leaders of His day. They lashed out at Him, persecuted Him, called Him names, and planned to kill Him. Jesus assured us that His followers will also be persecuted. (John 15:20)
As we get closer to the second coming of Jesus, things will only get worse. We need to make a decision. Will we choose to join the popular crowd and be politically correct? Or, will we join the ranks of those who refuse to compromise, and be Biblically correct?
© 2006, Stacy R. Miller |
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• Oct. 31, 2008 - Trick or Treat
Trick or Treat
The Bible teaches us that Satan is a master schemer. II Cor. 2:11 His goal is to trick us into bondage. That bondage can come in many forms. Unforgiveness can leave us chained to the one we refuse to forgive. Food addictions lead us to being overweight, not to mention the guilt and low self-esteem that is caused by our lack of control in that area. Sexual bondages seem to be rampant in our society. We can be compulsive shoppers, always looking for a fix, only to find that the thrill of it passes so quickly. Being overly concerned about how we look may cause us to look good on the outside, but leave us with unseen chains wrapped around us. Greed has led many people astray and into shackles which seem impossible to loosen. As we fall prey to Satan, I can almost hear him, deviously laughing, shouting, "Trick or treat! I got you!"
The Bible is clear that we are slaves to whatever masters us. II Pet. 2:19. Paul said in I Cor. 6:12 that he would not be mastered by anything. The way that he kept from being mastered was by knowing the truth. It's in that "knowing" that we can be set free. John 8:32
I find it comforting to know that even in bondage, God hasn't deserted us. Ez. 9:9 While we were still sinners (and in bondage), God still loved us enough to send His Son to die for us. Rom. 5:8 That is the best treat we could ever have!
Jesus said in Luke 4:18 that He came to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and to release the oppressed. When He arose from the dead, can't you just hear Him declaring to Satan, "Trick or Treat! I won! I have the final victory!"
My dear sister, Jesus won that victory for YOU! Whatever bondages you may be struggling with, He is still with you in the midst of it, and He has promised to never leave you, nor forsake you. Don't be ashamed to bring your shackles to Him. He would love nothing more than to set you free. After all, He's already paid the ultimate price for your freedom. Let Him unshackle you today!
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• Oct. 25, 2008 - Boo!
Boo!
On those rare occasions when life seems to be going fairly well, I sometimes let down my guard. Catching me off guard, a trial will jump out and yell, “BOO!” I’m left feeling like someone has pulled the rug out from under my feet.
We shouldn’t be surprised when trials come our way. James tells us that when, not if, trials come, we should face them joyfully.
We are often like the man who looks at his reflection in a mirror, walks away, and forgets what he has seen. We can focus on our good deeds, forgetting the poor attitudes that remain in our heart. God may choose to test our heart through tribulations so that He can uncover those things which we’ve hidden in our heart. (Proverbs 17:3)
In order to be effective and productive in our walk with God, we are told to make every effort to add goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness, and love to our faith. (II Peter 1:5-8) Our Father knows that we will never develop self-control and perseverance unless we are exposed to some trials.
The next time you have a trial jump out and yell, “BOO,” remember that God’s desire is for you to develop perfectly and completely. Don’t run in fright, but embrace those times of hardship. You will be amazed at the new dimension you’ll have in your relationship with the Lord.
© 2005, Stacy R. Miller |
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