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Tuesday, September 8, 2009 - Diagnosis for Change

I think one of the best things about homeschooling is flexibility. We are heading into our 4th week of school and we have already made some adjustments in our curriculum. We have identified areas that need more reinforcement and study. We are able to stop the planned course of action and focus on those things. One such adjust was made when I realized that we need more instruction in non-fiction writing, specifically in essay writing. The kids do a wonderful job writing from their imaginations and are extremely creative in their thinking, but when it comes to the nitty-gritty of laying out facts in an interesting and organized manner they need more practice. So we are setting aside the Learning Language Arts through Literature books for a bit and focusing on the formal writing process. We are also having struggles with the “how fast can I finish this assignment” syndrome and “how little can I do and still get away with it” disorder. This seems to be an ongoing condition that really needs treatment. That means a bit more discipline is applied on everyone’s part which some days can be frustrating all around. But, because of the flexibility that homeschooling allows, we are free to not only work on the academic weakness but also the spiritual inadequacy and hopefully will succeed in improving on both.

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Tuesday, August 18, 2009 - Confessions of a Clutter Bug

The 1828 Noah Webster Dictionary defines clutter as a heap or assemblage of things lying in confusion; a word of domestic application.

I define it as part of my life. It seems that I struggle daily to keep control of it often losing the battle. Now that is not to say that our home is a total disaster area; far from it. But I fret over what I call organized clutter. The basket of magazines I hope to get to read someday, the stacking trays of unfiled receipts, the weekly grocery sales circulars sitting on the counter waiting for me to make a list, the stack of books that need to have a home, the baskets of laundry ready to be washed. When I open the kitchen cabinets, I have appliance clutter, kitchen gadgets that I use occasionally and can’t bear to part with and my pantry is a constant battle. My night stand has a catchall basket with who knows what in it and don’t look under the bathroom sinks.

I think I have narrowed down the problem. We live in our home and we have stuff. Lots of stuff. Now I’m not talking about junk, just the everyday stuff that fills most homes. And because we live in our home and have stuff sometimes we don’t get a chance to deal with our stuff piles right away, so then they become the definition of clutter. As I re-read Noah Webster’s definition of clutter, I believe the last part fits literally, “a word of domestic application”, because clutter in our home is surely domestic in its application to our day to day. I think I will no longer look at our clutter as a battle to be won but as something to be kept organized and contained and accepted as a fact of life. I guess being a clutter bug is not so bad as long as I don’t become a clutter giant.

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Tuesday, March 24, 2009 - I Will Survive Homeschool

I came across this and had to share. About this time of year I think we all need a bit of a booster shot.

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Tuesday, August 26, 2008 - Funeral for a Tractor

I am always in awe when I see how my God works in our lives and how He takes all kinds of situations to mold us into who He desires us to be.  Case and point:
My husband has been under a great deal of stress with family issues and in his job.  His feeling of helplessness to change the situation has led to the frustration in his life spilling over into our basic family life.  After having an exceptionally trying week last week there was an incident that could have made him blow his top.  He had just begun to mow the lawn while my son was weed-whacking, when all of a sudden, BANG, BANG, BANG! I was inside doing laundry when I heard the racket. I thought he had run over something the dogs or kids had left out hidden in the grass and it had got caught up in the blades.  My daughter and I went down to see what had happened.  He hadn’t run something over.  The motor had caused all that noise.  It had a huge crack across the front of the engine and smoke and oil was pouring out of it.  We had this lawn tractor for only about 8 years and I was sure that he was going to be upset.  But when I looked at him there was a peace about him.  After evaluating the situation and pronouncing the thing officially dead, I took my cue from his reaction and I began to ‘sing’ taps.  He took his cap off, placed it over his heart and just smiled.  There we were in the backyard, paying our last respects to this lawn tractor.  As crazy as it was, it kept the situation in perspective.  Ok, so now the grass will stay tall for a while until we can replace the thing.  No big deal. The dogs love to play hide and seek in it. And, yes, those things aren’t cheap.  But what I took away from it was the example he had set for our children.  No matter what life throws you, God is in control.  It will do no good to throw a fit and rant and rave over things that just happen.  It is what it is and it is what you make of it.  In that moment of silliness I saw God working in my husband and it was awesome.

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Tuesday, June 17, 2008 - Are you an Invisible Woman?

I saw this somewhere and thought it was something worth passing on.  I think there are times that we all feel like the ‘Invisible Woman”, but this puts it all into perspective.

I hope that I will be a cathedral someday.

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Thursday, June 5, 2008 - Bless The Lord

One of the reasons I so enjoy my church is because of the wonderful worship team.  I thought I’d share one of my favorite songs that I found on YouTube.  I think you might like it also.

 

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Tuesday, March 25, 2008 - Up a Tree

Sunday was a lovely day of celebration. My parents attended service at our church, and then we met at my house for a turkey dinner.  My oldest son and his girlfriend joined us. The meal was delicious and the conversation lively.  Every one left around 2:00 and the kids and I were to enjoy a peaceful afternoon.  My husband had to work, but was home early. This made the day especially nice.

 The kids had taken the dogs for a walk and the house was quiet.  At this point I have to say that I think our cat has an identity problem. We have never had an outdoor cat so her behavior is new territory for us. Left to her own devices, she usually stays within the perimeter of our home.  She does the usual things I would expect from a cat, chasing birds, catching mice and lizards and leaving them as ‘gifts’ at the front door, and other cat like things.  But she has an appetite for dog food and whenever the kids take the dogs for a walk she follows beside them as if she, too, wants to go for a walk.  We really didn’t see a problem with this because she follows the dogs closely and always comes back with them.  Well Sunday there was an incident that has put an end to her walks.  My son was walking his dog and got about half way around the mile long block when another dog confronted them.  He had picked up the cat in one hand and had the leash in the other when the other dog expressed his distaste for them being in his territory.  My son dropped the cat that proceeded to take off and shot up a tree.  Not knowing exactly what to do he ran home and frantically told the story.  He went back to the site, asked the dog owners to put the dog up, and tried to coax the cat out of the tree, but with no results.  He even climbed the tree beside it trying to reach her, but she was very uncooperative.  By this time the sun had begun to go down.  He returned to the house and I told him to wait a while and that I have never seen a cat skeleton in a tree, so I was sure that she would come down.  About half an hour later, my husband suggested that I go see if I could get her down.  So armed with her container of cat treats, my son and I headed over to the scene.  There she was, sitting on the thinnest twig about 20 feet up. (wish I had the foresight to bring the camera) I couldn’t believe that she hadn’t fallen.  After about 15 minutes of trying to entice her with treats, I knew that we were going to have to do something drastic.  So we returned home and got our ladder.  My husband thought we were nuts and was very frustrated by the whole situation.  Now picture this, it’s now dusk, we have our ladder sticking out the back of our Tahoe, and we drive half way around the block to get a cat that thinks she’s a bird out of a neighbor’s tree.  If our neighbor’s didn’t think we were crazy before, I’m sure they do now.  We tried to be quiet, but my son had never extended a ladder before, so discretion was out of the question.  After he finally let me show him how to do it, we put the ladder against the tree.  By this time we had drawn a small crowd.  Some of the neighbors had come out to offer their advice as to how to achieve the desired results. In the first attempt the ladder was too short, but after extending it a bit more, my son was able to pry her from her perch.  Needless to say, now when the kids walk the dogs, she is to be put in the house.

You may wonder why I decided to share this bit of comedy in our lives.  While the events of the evening were unfolding, I saw an image of how our walk in life can be compared to the incident.  Sometimes we are like that cat, thinking everything is normal as we go about our daily lives.  Then all of a sudden, a big dog enters in and chases us up a tree, leaving us nowhere to go and helpless.  The things that would usually bring us down from our perches have no affect. Outsiders offer advice and help, but they fall short of what we need. Then the Father extends the ladder of  His Word, and it almost reaches us, but we fall short of understanding.  Finally, after trying again, His wisdom reaches our hearts and we are rescued and brought safely to the grounding of His plan.  Sometimes, like that crazy cat, something in our lives shakes us up to keep us closer to Him and in the safety of His direction.

 Psalm 16:10-11

For thou wilt not leave my soul in hell; neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see corruption. Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.

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Thursday, November 29, 2007 - Blogger Friend Award

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My blogger friend Laurie at Teacups in My Garden has honored me with The Blogger Friend Forever Award.  I so appreciate this kind recognition of the friendship that we have established through our blogs.  I would like to pass this on. 

Drum roll please….

I pass this on to Kellianne at Hilltop Academy who gives me a never-ending supply of warmth and encouragement through her comments and her blog.

Next, for sharing all her life experiences, poetic talent and simply awesome hospitality I’d like to show my appreciation to Ann Marie at Song of the Sagebrush.

I’d also like to recognize my new friend Heidi at Reviews by Heidi  for all her kind words and positive input.  I respect her opinions and she lifts my spirits with her visits and her blog.

Finally, I want to give due recognition to Stacy at By God’s Grace.  She has been such a blessing in my blogging life with her sweet comments and honest postings on her blog.

Some of the bloggers who I would have loved to give this award to have already been blessed by other friends.  I want to add my acknowledgment of how valuable their friendships are to me.  This community of homeschool families has been such a source of encouragement, motivation, and support. 

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Thursday, August 30, 2007 - On Resting 2

Yesterday I wrote about my revelation about resting.  My friend Lori at Kuriosity by K asked if I had any suggestions as to how to keep the Lord’s Day as the Lord’s Day.  This provoked me to seek out some answers.  As I was searching Scripture for insight, I came across many commentaries that seemed to address the issue of working on the Sabbath.  Instead of posting the full commentaries here from Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary on the Bible you can read The Commandments of the First Table , He Justifies His Disciples for Plucking Corn on the Sabbath , Jesus heals a man with a withered hand on the sabbath , The disciples pluck corn on the Sabbath , Jesus defends his disciples for plucking corn on the Sabbath day, The infirm woman strengthened  and so many others, if you wish. 

  

My understanding of these is this.  For six days we are to tend to our worldly business and desires but one day is for the sole purpose of honor to Him.  On those days we should refrain from the tasks that take away from our enjoyment of God’s mercy. It includes those things that make that day a burden of activity not essential to the health and well being of those we look after and ourselves.  Heavy-duty chores and those tasks that cause us stress and frustration should be saved for the other 6 days, but those things necessary to maintain order and peace within the household are permissible.  Anything that allows us to receive His blessings is in agreement with keeping this day hallowed.   Things that permit us to bring Him His due honor and glory are acceptable.  It is my belief that besides strengthening our faith and understanding of His Word, we need to use this day to strengthen our relationships with others. Spending time in fellowship with friends and family can bring us closer to Him and His design for our life.  Having learned this, I have purposed in my heart to take one day a week for the sole purpose of resting in Him, spending time to strengthen my relationships, taking some ‘do nothing’ time to appreciate all of His creations, and focusing on getting closer to Him.  I’m not saying that I will not be doing those things that are necessary for the smooth running of my household, like cooking and picking up, but the bill paying and heavy duty chores will have to wait for the other 6 days. 

Joshua 24:15

And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

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Tuesday, August 14, 2007 - Light at the End of the Tunnel

At church on Sunday we had a couple of guest speakers who both gave insight into worlds I can only imagine through their words.  The first was a mother of an autistic boy.  Her description of autism was that it is like being in a long dark tunnel with a tiny light at the end.  She is trying to help her son reach the light. She stands strong in the knowledge that God has great plans for her son.  Her desire is that he will someday reach the light and be a testimony to God's awesome power. She was seeking support through prayers that God will equip her and those that interact with her son to be able to lead him to the Light. 

The second speaker was a man who used to be a Shiite Muslim from Iran.  He told the congregation that his life before accepting Jesus was like that of the autistic boy.  He felt that he, too, was in a tunnel trying to reach the light.  He told of how he worked hard to please Allah, but was always left feeling empty and alone. As his testimony went on, he explained how God intervened in his life many times and how He made it possible for him to come to America.  He confirmed my thoughts about why other countries view us the way they do. The only references to America that they have are what they see on TV, just like our views are molded by what we are shown. He said that he believed our religious beliefs where like those portrayed in The Godfather, where no matter what we did, we would go to church, confess our crimes, be ‘forgiven’ and then go out and do it again. How sad to be viewed that way!  A Christian family befriended him and explained salvation and Jesus to him.  He had trouble understanding how, even though they hardly knew him, they loved him and showed him love.  He never felt that kind of love before.  After going to church a few times, the Spirit touched his heart and he accepted Christ.  He had reached the light. 

Although both speakers are on different paths, their stories are not so different than so many others.  We have all been in the darkness and because someone loved us, whether they knew us or not, we were led into the light.  Our greatest desire should be that the Light shine through us in everything that we do, from our most mundane chores to our greatest aspirations.  Our testimonies speak loudest through our actions.  We shine brightest in what we do, illuminating the path towards the one true Light.  Shadows of darkness cannot survive in the Light.

John 8:12-  Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.

1 Peter 2:9-  But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light;

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