Oct. 24, 2007 - Still the same
Posted in Challenges

Thanks for the encouragement after my last post.  I wish I could say things have gotten better, but I feel like I'm spinning my wheels.  We leave for Florida in a month and we'll be gone three weeks.  I want to stay on track until then so that we can just relax while we're there.  I know I'll be able to count some of what we do there as school time (EPCOT for example), but I don't want to have to think about work while we're on vacation.

Right now, I have one week's worth of lessons planned out.  I tried to implement the first of these on Monday and met with nothing but grumbling and complaining.  My children obviously do not understand how lucky they are to be at home instead of sitting in a classroom eight hours a day.  The whole trip to Florida would be off if they were in school.  Instead, they whined about listening to a six-minute presentation online.  Six minutes!  Oh, the horror, the cruelty!  Give me a break.

I can't even get them out of bed in the morning anymore, let alone get them to do any extra work, and by extra I mean anything except math and language arts.  I'm so tired of yelling and being ignored and being treated like the bad guy for wanting them to learn something.

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Oct. 24, 2007 - Untitled Comment
Posted by jab300
I sure hope you have a fun trip. We are in NW Florida, close to Alabama. It takes us about 6-7 hours to get to the Tampa/Orlando area. Epcot certainly has wonderful educational opportunities...we love the new "ride" and theme of The Living Seas area. I think they are renovating Spaceship Earth, but I'm not sure if they are keeping the ride open or not. Anyway, have safe travel and loads of fun. Julie
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Oct. 24, 2007 - Untitled Comment
Posted by sharity
I think we all go through these rough patches at one time or another. I pray you'll have wisdom and patience to get you through it.

Blessings!
Sharity
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Oct. 24, 2007 - I want to encourage you.
Posted by BStrouse
Take the time to enjoy your trip. Don't worry about school. Your children learn even when you don't think they are. While you are on your trip, ask lots of questions to see if what they are seeing and doing is being taken in. Point out all the stuff you are doing. Turn ordering your dinner into a math project. Sneak in stuff as you go. That is what unschoolers do. You can be an unschooler for 3 weeks. When you get back. Maybe all you need to do this school year is concentrate on Math and Language Arts! If someone one showes an interest in something else jump on it. But don't sweat the small stuff. They will learn even when you don't think they will.

My son, Biggun, was very hard to work w/ when he had to actually do, write, anything. If he could listen to me read he was fine. We started using www.time4learning.com this year. I highly recommend you look into it. It is great for boys who are active and like computer/video games.

(if you decide that it will work for you and sign up please let them know strouse academy, bstrouse, sent you. they have a great referral program.)

I will be praying for peace in your life, that you may be able to enjoy your vacation. :o) (((HUGS)))
B.
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Nov. 1, 2007 - I'm there with you, sister
Posted by gmisch
I too have many boys, five to be precise. There were definitely days that I just wanted to throw in the towel. Ask my kids and they will tell you that there still are some of those days!

I have been using History pockets lately, and the kids love them! I would just take history, science, literature, etc. and do them all together as a group. Maybe even do a unit study that incorporates them. Something that makes them not even realize that they are "learning."

I hope this helps you. Chin up, and remember that they will model you. Don't let them yell at you or disobey. That is the first thing you need to cure. Focus on that first, then work on academics.

Oh, and can you possibly take the kids that are not playing computer into a different room or put headphones on and turn the monitor so they can't see it, so your other son can still have his time?

It will get better, as long as you are consistent. Don't let them get the better of you.

Grace
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Homeschooling four boys is always a challenge! This is our sixth year and I still haven't figured it out.

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