• Apr. 8, 2006 - ~A Late Bloomer?~

I "officially" began schooling my 6 year old son this year. I experienced a bit of a dilemma in deciding what grade to "label" him when we began the year. He had turned six in Aug. but, had I enrolled him in public school, I knew I would have put him in Kindergarten. Should I call him a Kindergartener or a First Grader?

 

I'd worked with him a little bit the prior year at teaching him letters and sounds and quickly realized that it was going to be a frustrating experience for both of us if I continued. So....I let it go. Therefore, there was no way he could be considered a First Grader since he couldn't even name the letters of the alphabet! In fact, I'm sure the school would have declared him unready for Kindergarten! And, frankly, I'd have to agree since the poor kiddos have all-day, five-day-a-week Kindergarten here. My guy needs WAY more play time than that!

 

So, we began the year excitedly working through the Get Ready, Get Set, and Go For the Code books. Wow! My son was OBVIOUSLY ready now! He whipped through them and was quite proud of himself. In fact, he did so well that I skipped the Saxon Phonics (very intensive and time consuming) program I'd used with my daughter and said, "Hmmm...I bet you could read a book now."

 

Oh my! Was he excited!? Each day we read through the big Dick and Jane book. In under five weeks, he'd completed his K phonics work and was reading Dick and Jane. I then announced that I was moving him up to First Grade! Yippee!

 

I bought Explode The Code 1, 2 and 3. He just finished book three last week. I also started him on Pathway Readers. He read the First Grade Pre-Primer with ease and is two chapters from finishing the second (and last) of their First Grade books.

 

This child, that wouldn't "technically" have qualified as ready for Kindergarten this year and didn't even know his ABC's, will be well into a Second Grade reading program by the time we break for summer. He's loving reading and is quite confident in his skills.

 

However, had I pushed him last year, before he was ready, or had I sent him to public school, I fear his view of himself would be quite different. I believe he would have struggled, failed, struggled, failed until he decided he was incapable or "less" than the other students.

 

As it is, just yesterday he declared some activity, "soooo easy".

 

"Oh, you're just a Brainiac!" I say.

 

He and his sister break into a fit of giggles.

 

I love homeschooling!

 

 

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• Apr. 8, 2006 - Great Job Mom!

Posted by jaminacema
Isn't it awesome that we don't have to fit our kids into some little box! What a great and encouraging story, thanks for sharing!
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• Apr. 8, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by sherrydhoneycutt
That is just so great! My daughter turned 6 in February and we are still struggling with the reading thing. She can "read" her Bob books and works at her phonics - but she isn't enjoying reading. I'm one of the biggest bibliophiles in the world (ok, I exaggerate) and for my daughter not to be crazy about books, well, it saddens me!

Anyway -- your post was very uplifting. I know it will come with time. Hopefully VERY soon!

Sherry
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• Apr. 9, 2006 - Encouraging Story

Posted by writmm
That was an encouraging story! DS knew his letters when he was about 2 1/2, but didn't start reading until he was almost 6. But when he did, he was reading within weeks and now, 3 years later, he continues to love to read. DD took much longer to learn her letters and still occasionally gets them mixed up. She turned 6 yesterday and in the last week and a half, it is finally coming together for her and she is reading all the time! Thank God for Homeschooling! Where our children can learn on their own time schedule!
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• Apr. 9, 2006 - Been there, still there

Posted by cricket313
My son will turn 6 next month. He started kindergarten in the fall but I've not been too hard on him. My goal was numbers, letters, and sounds. He's done that and more. My daughter has a September birthday, so at church and stuff I put her with the 1st graders, but she's doing 2nd grade work. She's gets frustrated when she tells ps friends she's 2nd grade and they don't believe it. My 4 yo is interested in learning to read, so we are just starting on his letters. (When he wants.) I just posted about this on my blog a couple of weeks ago about how all three of my kids are different.

But thank goodness we can move as slow or fast as we need too.
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• Apr. 9, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Juliestew
what a great story. so cute. thanks for the encouragement. i love reading blogs like yours tonight. You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!1
julie
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• Apr. 9, 2006 - Wild...

Posted by Kg
Love it when our kids "just don't fit the mold"! So glad you and the little guy have seen so much success this year!
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• Apr. 9, 2006 - Yay for Your Little Reader!

Posted by JacqueDixonSoulRestES
Well, in my house he wouldn't be a first grader OR a kindergartener; he'd be my 6-year-old. Yeah, I get sick of hearing, "What grade are you in?". We don't do grades, so they can be themselves... sounds like your ds is doing a pretty good job of proving that himself! No holds barred for this little boy! YAY! for him!
I found that out when 3dd12 decided she didn't want to read when she was 8. So, I let her go for the year in reading... she picked up the Little House books the following year, and has read The Hobbit 2x and is on her 2nd go-round with the Lord of the Rings Trilogy. She has also finished reading other series.
Boy, am I glad I can let her learn at her own pace, instead of shoving her into a box to fit the mold of 100s of thousands of other peoples' children!!
Many Blessings and teachable Moments to you!
AND - thanks for stopping by Seeking Rest regularly; I enjoy your comments!
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