Reforming Motherhood

May. 18, 2006 - The book I’m loving right now

 

I am almost to the end of Family Friendly Farming by Joel Salatin.  I cannot recommend this book enough!  By the title one would assume that the only families that can benefit from this book are those planning to farm, but this is not the case at all.  Farming is Salatin’s passion, but the concepts he writes about can easily be applied to many family contexts. 

 

The style of this farmers writing is so enjoyable to read.  Salatin is very intelligent and writes well, but he is a man that sweats and works hard everyday… so he is very down to earth.  As I have worked my way through this book, I have daily quoted Salatin’s stories and thoughts to Mike my husband. 

 

My favorite concept that Salatin thoroughly covers is that of work.  Salatin has a love for work that was passed down to him by his father and he has a well thought out model of how to instill a love for work in our kids.  To give you an example of one of his ideas that I have immediately implemented in our family is that of keeping work task oriented. 

 

Salatin writes, “One of the surest ways to destroy initiative is to teach our kids to punch the time clock.  Just as punching the clock in industry creates workers by and large who nonchalantly say: ‘I’m just putting in my time,’ so time oriented jobs around the home and farm destroy initiative.”  (Page 88)

 

What Salatin is suggesting is that instead of instructing your kids to weed for an hour, we should show them which row we want them to weed and how well we expect it to be done.  Then tell them what reward they can have after and what time both the job and the reward will be completed.  This allows the child to find ways to work harder and smarter.  They may find a way that makes a task more efficient than you.  As Salatin puts it:

 

“If the recreation has an open start time based on task completion, then it operates to maximum benefit.  ‘When you get done you can play until 2 p.m.’ allows the child to kick in the free time based on his own efficiency.  Children learn quickly to speed up the work in order to maximize the play time.”  (Page 91)

 

 

I borrowed the copy I am reading from our library, but feel that this book is one I want on my shelf.  I will be purchasing it right away.  I want everyone I know to read it.  It’s that good!

~Amy

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May. 18, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Michelle
I will be checking into this book for sure!! Chad and I are both self-employed...and we are big advocates of this type of "work theory"...we believe that the hourly/salary mentality can be a real problem. My father ran his own business and when I first started working in "the shop" I was paid by production (of correctly done items), not by the hour. It is good for work ethic...and I am anxious to explore new ways to use it around our house for chores, etc, too! Great suggestion!
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May. 18, 2006 - Great!

Posted by Dana
I have this reserved at the library also. So glad to hear it is a good read.
Dana
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May. 18, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by reformingmama
Amy-
I put a copy on hold at the library today. Hmm... seems the library only has one copy, and it's checked out. Could that be the one you have??? :)
Excited to read it. Thanks for the review!
Stacy
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May. 18, 2006 - Michelle, Dana and Stacy

Posted by reformingmama
I love hearing about work ethic Michelle! It is a character trait so lost in our society. I know I am so lazy compared with women generations ago and I like to work a lot more than most women my age. Its sad! And not what God intended. At the end of a productive day with the family, I always feel so satisfied and content. I love going to bed tired and sore and proud.
Dana and Stacy and Michelle, please be sure to tell me your thoughts on the book, I will enjoy hearing others' perspectives!
Happy reading, Amy
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