Reforming Motherhood

Aug. 22, 2006 - More than mediocre

The following is written by Dr. R.C. Sproul Jr. and was published in the September 2006 copy of Tabletalk magazine.

 

It has been said that any given job can be done with two of three qualities.  It can be done quickly and cheaply, but not well.  It can be done quickly and well, but not cheaply.  It can be done cheaply and well, but not quickly.  We have, as a culture, chosen quickly and cheaply.  And having chosen thus, we find ourselves diminished, for we find that we like it that way.  We find that we are not merely willing to accept mediocrity, but that we crave it. 

The Bible offers a different call.  We are to do our work “as unto the Lord.”  We should be known by the world around us as the most diligent of laborers and craftsmen.

 

When I die, I know those who know me will not be saying the following things (if they are being truthful),

“She was the most loving person of all.”

“She was the best cook!”

“She was the best homemaker I’ve ever seen.”

“She was the most creative… the most organized…. the most patient…”

Or any of the other qualities I would love to be Christ-like in.  But I do hope it can be unanimously said, “she was always striving.”  I never want to settle for mediocre.  I do not want to sit back and say “oh, well” while my heart is still beating.  I want to instead do my work “as unto the Lord,” which means it will always need improvement this side of heaven. 

 

My motive should never be to earn anything, but instead my striving should be out of an overflow of gratitude because of all that I’ve received --thou I deserve nothing.  Gratitude because I know from what I have been saved.  I know how things would/could be if I did not have the Lord to do all things unto. 

 

This is the cry of my heart as a reforming mama.  I want to look at all I do, say and produce and evaluate it against God’s Word.  Never settling, but always changing what needs to be changed, moving only closer to what God’s Word has called me.

 

Today, I need to look at my discipline, my example, and my attitudes with the kids.  (I had a hard day with these things yesterday)  What does God’s Word say?  Where am I falling short?  What needs to be improved?  I plan to lay my shortcomings at the feet of my Lord.  Asking for help and wisdom (thankful that He promises to give it).  Asking the God of all creation to make my work more than mediocre for His glory. 

~Amy

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Aug. 22, 2006 - What a great post!

Posted by reformingmama
I don't ever want to settle for mediocre, either.
...And I'm praying for your day with the boys.
Love you, friend...
~Stacy

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Aug. 22, 2006 - Will be praying for you throughout the day....

Posted by kevmem
Sounds like a little bit of frustration. What more could I say to you? You know where to go and WHOM to seek already. Isn't it wonderful to know that He is not only pleased when you seek Him, but He is ready and willing and able to handle all those things that seem too big to handle to our mortal eyes! I am in the same boat with you, my friend. We all are! Isn't it funny how just when you think things are going running so smoothly, you hit a detour and you don't like where it is leading you....yet you have to go that way, because it is the BEST way to go.

Your family is precious to this family. Call us if there is some way we can help you out.....that offer is real and good for ANYTIME you need it!
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Aug. 22, 2006 - You make good points.

Posted by Mike
I often find that I share your views. We should get married!!!
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Aug. 23, 2006 - thanks for the prayers

Posted by reformingmama
It's funny because I did not know I was coming accross frustrated. But the truth is that I was. So thankyou thoughtful and insightful friends for praying.
And thank you Mike for liking me so much. I would marry you all over again too!
~Amy
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