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Jul. 29, 2006

And a child shall lead them

I am always amazed how God uses my children to convict or confirm something that He has already told me.  It happened again today. 

 

Last weekend I was browsing through one of my favorite books - The Read Aloud Handbook - and I read the section about the effects of television on children and their reading.  For about a month the Holy Spirit had been whispering to me that I had let the tv viewing get out of control (again!).  After reading the section I knew that I really need to reign in the kids time with the tube, and mine as well, and my husband could use some trimming down as well (but that's another matter!).  So I started contemplating the how's and when's and what would be the replacement.  Then the very next week 2 of my favorite Christian radio programs aired programs about going on a TV fast for the month of August.  I knew the Holy Spirit was really talking to me then!  So I kind of decided that while we weren't ready (ok, I'm not ready!) for a full fast, we could definitely establish some set times for no TV.   I mentioned it to my oldest son, who is eight (and a half).   I explained it wasn't as a punishment, but I felt God was telling me that we needed to turn off the tv, and I asked him to pray about it. His reaction was compliant but not enthusiastic.  So I continued to pray that God would give us all strength! 

 

Today, my son said two things that has confirmed that we're going to do a "partial" tv fast.  First he pointed out to me that he had been spending more time drawing and reading and looking for other things to do besides watch tv.  Then as he finished some extra chores around the house to earn money, his comment was ..."you know, it feels good to do some work.  And since we're going on a TV fast, I'll have more time to work and help around the house." 

 

So, that's it!  Starting August 1 we are going to significantly reduce our TV time.  Right now I'm thinking no tv until after dinner.  Later I'll confess how much tv I've been letting my kids watch (maybe), and how things are going!

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Jul. 29, 2006 - I'm right there with ya!

Posted by SugaMama
I have limited our tv time to after dinner on the weekdays and then its not really pure "tv". They are able to watch DVDs from the library. Some are educational some are pure fun. Its only 1 hour per evening after the dinner dishes are put away and it allows me sometime to myself to clean, read or just sit! Now, the computer games are the issue in our house! We need to fast on that!!!
Suga Mama
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Jul. 29, 2006 - Wonderful!!!

Posted by maehsweet
I think that is so great! I am often in the same position...God has used my children to teach me so many lessons!

And believe me...You're not alone with the TV thing. Sometimes it just seems so much easier to give in and get a little time to unwind or to get something done. I have been praying about it too, and I have come to the conclusion that a "fast" is in order for our family. I realized that there are so many more important things to be doing with my children - or have them be doing - than sitting in front of the TV. With the heat index up, it's just been easier to get them to relax. But now I have developed some guidelines for quiet times. I was also reading about giving them purposeful work, so that will come into play too.

It is so wonderful when the Holy Spirit gives us confirmation...Kind of like a "go ahead", if you will, to implement our plans. God is so wonderful to us. I hope that your TV fast will give you much fruit!
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Jul. 31, 2006 - You will love it

Posted by Melanieinoh
You will so love the break from the TV!! My kids act so much kinder to each other when we give up TV. They don't watch much but there are times that it does get to be too much. Excited to hear what kinds of activities you will do together as a family without the TV. Walks, playing games, reading together... there are so many possibilities.
Melanie
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Aug. 1, 2006 - wow

Posted by lyntley
Keep it up. I'm sure you're doing an awesome job!!!
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