Just posting about life, marriage, parenting, God and well, of course homeschooling. http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/ en-us Homeschool Blogger Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:08:00 -0600 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:08:00 -0600 I'm sorry I don't update much.  I've had many readers over the couse of my blog, but most leave cause I don't post much.  Sorry about that. Well, things are going good here.  I'm getting back to daily bible reading, and I'm actually making it 3 times a day reading.  When I first wake up, during quiet time and before bed.  I'm feeling more encouraged and optimistic daily.  I'm asking the Lord to bring me clear understanding in the areas that have confused me.  I feel peace.  It's wonderful.   My oldest,8,  is wonderful!  She's such a delight to talk to.  She's an amazing artist and comes up with creations daily, whether building it, drawing it or in the kitchen.  She's really into horses and loves to dance.  She just got a kitten.   My oldest son, just turned 6, is very talented in math and has a heart to serve.  He writes me notes that say "Mommy, I love you sooooo much"  with like 80 '0's, I counted one day, lol.  He loves anything orange, as is his hair.    My youngest daughter, 4 next week, is so adorable.  And she says so too: "Mommy, I'm adorable".  It's so cute.  I just want to keep her 3 forever.  Yesterday, DS gave her a tangerine.  She brings it out to me and says "Yuck, I don't like tangerines".  I look and she took a bite out of the peel!  She's so proud to be a 'big girl' now that she night trained.  She's trying to use big words now, but she uses them in the wrong place.  It's often very cute.    My youngest son will be 18 months next week.  He didn't walk til about a month ago.  The others ran by there b-day, so that was quite a change.  Now he's everywhere!  He's just started copying everything you say.  He's favorite word right now is "cookie".  He was completly addicted to breastfeeding, so, for his benefit, we're weaning.  All he would do is cry and try to nurse.  After just 1 day of no milkie til after nap, he was doing much better.  It's been 2 weeks now.  We only nurse when he wakes in the morning, as he's still in my bed and before bed.  Plus all night long.  That needs to go next, maybe even this weekend if DH is on board.  He's alot happier now that he's not preoccupied with a one track mind.   Baby #5 is not on it's way yet, lol.  I'm open to another if the Lord chooses to bless us again.  I've been pregnant twice around 17 months.  With the oldest 2, I was pregnant on thier 4th birthday with a second child after them.  #3 is 4 next week.  You never know what God will do.  But, even if I got PG now, I wouldn't know about it by her b-day.  Im kind of hoping to be PG for Christmas, so I can tell the families cute ways.  For DH's parent's, I was to wrap a present and have it be a picture frame with a piece of paper saying "Insert #10's photo here September 2010".  For mine...something similar.   Maybe a picture of DS wearing a big brother shirt.  I know DH's family will be happy.  They had a reversal after #3, but never concieved.  My SIL has 4 and plans 7.  Big families are welcome there.  My family...not so much.  But I'll be oh so happy as will DH and the kids and that's wat really matters right? I'd love to here how my readers are doing!  Please LMK:)     http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/747546/ Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:08:00 -0600 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/747546/ Outside my window…  is an overcast day, cars rushing past on thier way home   I am thinking…   I need to go tidy up the school room   From the learning rooms… done for the day   I am thankful for…  my family's health   From the kitchen….  We just enjoyed perogies    I am hearing... my son and husband running up the stairs, home from hair cuts   I am wearing … a biege shirt..DH says has a doilly like pattern, long beige skirt with roses   I am reading… The bible, Galations  I am hoping... for another blessing soon I am creating… A new schedule   I am praying…  for God to open my dad's girl friend, who was born deaf.   Around the house…  purging the house of clutter, going through all the storage areas and getting rid of everything             One of my favorite things… hot chocolate made with mint tea.   A few plans for the rest of the week…  do a lesson from 'Canada, my country' and teh activities we never got to. http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/738221/ Thu, 22 Oct 2009 16:08:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/738221/ Well, we finally got our stuff to start AW.  It's a hit!  I'm not going to do RTL for my 3yo, it doesn't meash with AW now that I see it together.  RTL teaches A,B,C, AW teaches letters in order to learn to read.  So she'll be doing AW and saxon K.  McRuffy's is a hit for oldest son, and a flop for DD.  I'm going to buy her FFL and WWE and AAS.  BJU math is good for DS, but we'll be switching to CLE when he finishes 1, around Christmas I predict.  BJU is a flop for DD as well, TT is on it's way.  I'm hoping she does well.  I'm going to miss teaching her math, but I hope it'll reach her better than I was.  DITHOR is going well for DD.  I'm so thankful that I homeschool and I can find what works for my DD, instead of pushing her through stuff that just makes her cry and shut down to learning.  I'm thankful I can accelerate my DS so he's not bored to death like her would be in school.    I used a lot of codes.  Here's a key: AW- Animals and thier world's by Winter Promise (WP) RTL- I'm ready to learn by WP FFL- First Language Lessons WWE- Writing with ease AAS- All about spelling BJU- Bob Jones University CLE- Christian Light Education TT- Teaching TExtbooks DITHOR- Drawn into the heart of reading by Heart of Dakota (HOD) http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/732483/ Thu, 1 Oct 2009 19:57:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/732483/ We're going to be using Winter Promise's Animal's and their worlds (AW). Oldest DD will be using the older stuff with the "Working on my own schedule".  The middle two will be using the younger part.  My younger daughter will also be doing "I'm ready to learn".  The baby, well, he's just being a baby  We'll also be using workboxes this year.  Below is everything we'll be using.  Our first day is suppose to be Tuesday.  I don't think our WP stuff will be here by then.  Or at least not enough to start.  We're egar to start though, so we may just kick it off with SL core 1 while we're waiting.  If it doesn't rain though, we'll be going to the "Not Going Back to School Party" at the park with other HSers.  I've never been to a group in this city before, so I'd like to meet them.  There's no official over head.  They just plan field trips, park days and get togethers on a yahoo group.  The other group in town does classes Friday, but I think I'm more up for just doing feild trips.    DH is making us a chalk board.  I'm hoping for a desk too, when finances allow.  I bought a bunch of stuff for our room.  The kids want it to look like school this year.  I'll post pics. I'm not setting up til the night before the first day so I can suprise them.  Anyway, here's everything they'll be using. Oldest Girl Just turned 8 years old, grade 3 AW McRuffy's phonics and handwriting 2 BJU math 3 All about spelling Drawn into the heart of reading level 2/3 Typing Science (deciding between BJU and SL still) Oldest Boy 6 next month, grade 1 AW McRuffy's phonics and handwriting 1 BJU math 1 All about spelling Heart of Dakota emergent readers Science (deciding between BJU and SL still) Younger Girl 4 in Dec. , K4 AW tag along I'm ready to learn SL LA K (loosely) McRuffy's tracing books Kumon workbooks Younger boy 15 months Learning to walk Learning to talk Wodden toys Making everyone giggle Mess making     http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/723630/ Thu, 3 Sep 2009 14:11:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/723630/ Ah, it's that time again!!!  Where children are going back to school!  A certain commercial portrays how excited parents are to be getting rid of thier kids again.  Back to school they go!  A father joyously skips down an isle, dragging his miserable children on a couch.  He just can't wait for them to go!  Sadly, at a family get together last weekend, my cousins were talking about the commercial and agreed, they were happy thier kids were going back.  Actually, I am thrilled kids are going back to school.  I can take my kids out now without all the other PS'd kids there, with thier bad attitudes and making things busy, lol.   Parks will be empty, aside from a few wee ones.  Malls will no longer be over run with half dressed, foul mouthed children.  Ah, it's great.  It's just so sad that society feels so negatively towards children.  Towards thier own flesh and blood, the precious wee ones whom they once rocked lovingly in thier arms, they now can't wait to push out the door.  As I said in another post, the one about not fitting in, it's just hard for me to wrap my head around it.    See, I'm thrilled that my kid's are 'going back to school'.  We ended up taking a break this summer and I throughly miss teaching my kids.  I miss watching them learn math and science.  I miss our projects and story time.  I can't wait to get back to it!  We'll be starting a new curriculum again.  If it ever gets here.  It's 'Animal's and thier world's' and "I'm ready to Learn" by Winter Promise.  I'm so excited!  My kids love animal's especially the oldest.   I'll do another post soon about what all we'll be doing this year.   For me, this is the most wonderful time of the year!  Homeschooling is such a rich and rewarding experience.  I wouldn't give this up for anything.  Watching my children learn, spending all my days with them.  Nurtruing them, guiding them, training them up in the way they should go.  This is exactly what I want to be doing with my life and I'm so thankful the Lord has blessed me with these great kids.  http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/722449/ Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:22:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/722449/ Sometimes I go out with my best friend one Tuesday night a month to a resturant with other moms.  Usually it goes ok.  Most of them are teachers so I even get some tips.  This time, only 2 other moms aside from my BF showed.  Sigh.  It just wasn't that fun tonight.  I'm too different from everyone else.  In a big crowd I can blend in a little more and mostly talk to my friend.  This time I spent 2 hours listening to them talk about how schools are failing the kids.  I can't say anything though, or it would probably look like I was bashing them.  About how ADD meds are so effective, even on one's own child, but it makes him feel awful.  Then it went on to the proper diet of a 10 month old and you should give your baby 20 minutes to self feed and then take the food away, even if s/he is still actively eating.  I got asked what was wrong with me when I said I'd been having trouble sleeping, I stayed up til 2am one night to make sure DH's laundry was clean for work.  Then she laughed at me and told me I was probably one of those wives that get up at 5am to make her Dh's lunch.  I said I do make his lunch, just the night before.  She asked what was wrong with him, he has two arms and hands.  Then they went on to talk about all thier daycare woes.  I'm needing  some like minded moms IRL. http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/716578/ Tue, 11 Aug 2009 21:33:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/716578/ I'm very impatiently waiting to POAS.  I'm not really sure of my O date.  I think it was Friday or Saturday.  I usually start testing at 7 DPO.  I know that's too early, but it gives me something to do.  So I'm about 3-4 DPO right now.  I am going to restrain myself til Sunday.  Then I'll probably test everyday til the next Sunday, lol.  Gotta love dollar store tests! http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/710195/ Tue, 21 Jul 2009 22:52:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/710195/ I posted on this last month.  I now have over 100 swagbucks.  I'm saving up   I'm always searching anyway, and you probably are too.  So why not use me as your referal and we can both win? http://swagbucks.com/refer/Mumkins http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/709717/ Mon, 20 Jul 2009 14:20:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/709717/ Feminisim.  I loath feminisim.  I believe kids have become so messed up because mommy wasn't home after school to take care of them, protect them and keep them out of trouble.  Out of guilt or foolishness, these children were given too much freedom and spoiled to much.  They grew up with a sense of entitlment.  And then they had babies.  And produced much of the same.  But not too many babies.  Too big of family interferes with how much time one has to thierself and how lavishly they can spend thier money.  I once had someone tell me thier daughter was only having one or two kids so she could pay for thier college.  Since when did children automatically become entilled to a fully funded post secondary degree?  Maybe kids would spend less time partying and out in bars if they had a part time job to pay for thier school.  Feminisim.  I think it's responsible for the rise in divorce too.  Women no longer accepting thier husbands as head in the family, honoring and respecting him.  Instead, they want to be incharge and they want to be the breadwinners.  No man's gonna tell them what to do.  Stay home and raise babies, keep a nice welcoming home and have a hot meal ready for thier man-  Forget  that!  And why raise babies?  Have thier 1.4 kids, shipping off to daycare and pursue thier 'real'l life.  The life that they spend thier freshest and most qumulative waking hours at.  Where they can feel rewarded with cash instead of hugs and kisses.  I like the song Free by Serene and Pearl "Cause I'm a woman, I'm not a man, I long to be just who I am.   Wanna show some feminine charm, hold my babies in my arms and be free".  I couldn't imagine working for some boss all day, picking up my kids from day care or school, throwing together a quick meal, homework at night before they run off to see thier friends and then they are in bed.  I couldn't imagine not being with my kids all day.  They are mine and I'm not giving them to government to raise by day, and to be influenced by other government raised children at night.  Kids always want to run of to play with friends.  That's where the real relationships are as that's whom they spend all thier time with by day, so naturally, they want to by night.  When my kids get together with friends, it's a family thing.  I bring all my kids, or they bring theirs.  I talk with the mom.  I also  blame feminisim for why it's so difficult for women to stay home financially. We've become a society that caters to two income families.  The lust of the eyes and flesh have it.  We see all we want, all we can have.  For those who have no issues with it, that's great.  But for a mom who just wants to be home with her kids, it's heart breaking.  Feminisim.  You might as well just hang up a sign that says "It's all about me, my wants, my desires and my goals".  I still think staying home is more easily attainable than most think.  What if you didn't have to live in such a large home?  Have that 2nd car?  Sattelite TV?  Starbucks every morning?  All the things you do cause you have to have a special woredrobe, nails, wordrobe, hair and meals out?  I know, sometimes, for some, there really isn't any other way.  I'm not saying every situation is going to be just fine on one income.  I'm just saying, if we truly value being home with our kids, we can do with a lot less than we think.  It's all about where your priorties are.  A good book to read is 'The Way Home' by Mary Pride.  I encourage all woman to read it. However, I have totally lost what I came here to blog about.  I was just googling to see what was being said on the news as I heard Fox was at the door of the poor family I blogged about last month that lost thier baby during an attempted homebirth.  Well, I stumbled across a blog called 'No Longer Qivering".  It states "There's no U in qivering".  It's all about how she 'escaped' the quiverful and patriarhical minset.  And, sadly, how she even walked away from the Lord and doesn't believe in the bible.  It was written by men in a patriahical society (never mind it was God inspired).  It no longer applies today, in our society.  I read some of the comments, applauding her for 'escaping'.  About how others have escaped and found goddess worship.  Ugh.  You wanna know something?  I was wiccan.  I worshiped a goddess.  Maiden, mother, crone.  An harm ye none, do what ye will.  That kind of stuff.  When I became pregnant with my first, I remember studying up how to dedicate her to the goddess.  Near the end, I looked at my belly, seen the little foot stick out like a golf ball and slide to the other side.  I realized that this world had to be made by an all powerful God who could create life out 2 tiny things not even visible to the naked eye and create a tiny perfect human being.  Thank you Jesus for resucing me, for opening my eyes to see all that you have done for me.  So if you get a chance, please pray for this woman That she comes back to the Lord with her 6 children.  I'm not too cure what her husband is up to now.  But she divorced him and is now a single mom. http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/708925/ Fri, 17 Jul 2009 16:49:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/708925/ We took the kids to the beach on the weekend.  We had a lot of fun.  After you got out about 4 feet it was really sandy for as far as we ventured  to go.  Me and DH each took turns playing in the water with each kid and we went out as a family for a bit.  The kids played in the sand with the big bucket of pails and showels we brought.  Only our oldest had been to a beach before and she was only 10-11 months old.  It was really fun fr our whole family. http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/708889/ Fri, 17 Jul 2009 14:57:00 -0500 http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/mumkins/708889/