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<title>Hey there</title>
<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;Hello, I know I haven't written in a while.&amp;nbsp; It has just been so busy around here.&amp;nbsp; We are expecting this baby&amp;nbsp;at 35&amp;nbsp;weeks. &amp;nbsp;All of our children were.&amp;nbsp; So that means that on Monday we will start the 10 week countdown.&amp;nbsp; Of course there is always the chance that he will wait a bit longer before he comes out, ya never know.&amp;nbsp; Lots and lots to do!!!&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;Things are going well, I am having a bit of trouble with my varicose veins but other that that all is well.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;School is going well too.&amp;nbsp; The boys are enjoying it.&amp;nbsp; I feel we need some more structure than what we have now.&amp;nbsp; But since the oldest is only in first grade I&amp;nbsp; have some time to figure it all out.&amp;nbsp; I am trying hard not to stress too much.&amp;nbsp; With the Holidays coming there will be plenty of stress as it is.&amp;nbsp; Well I have more work to so I will have go for now. &lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 17 Nov 2006 10:41:00 -0600</pubDate>
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<title>Mothers to be read this</title>
<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;Every mom wants the best for her newborn.&amp;nbsp; I don't know if I am just new to this or if it just hasn't gotten around.&amp;nbsp; But &lt;FONT color=#33cc00&gt;&lt;A href=&quot;http://www.johnleemd.net/articles/sids.html&quot;&gt;THIS IS NEWS&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT color=#33cc00&gt; &lt;/FONT&gt;that should be spread around.&amp;nbsp; Send it to everyone and link it to your blog.&amp;nbsp; The fact that civilized countries won't make this knowledge public for fear of lawsuits appalls me! &lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Sat,  4 Nov 2006 09:39:00 -0600</pubDate>
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<title>Old</title>
<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;I feel so old.&amp;nbsp; I know all of you out there in blog land are laughing at me right now.&amp;nbsp; I am only 24 years old and I feel way older than that.&amp;nbsp; I spent the morning cleaning out very small office and I ache everywhere already.&amp;nbsp; The day is barely half over.&amp;nbsp; I am just having a tough time with this pregnancy.&amp;nbsp; The simplest of tasks wipes me out completly.&amp;nbsp; Which makes it very hard for a nesting mother to get anything done!&amp;nbsp; My DH is going to run away screaming if his honey do list gets any longer! He has a basement and garage to clean and organize.&amp;nbsp; He has turned part of the basement into a studio for his art so everything that is his got stuffed down there in order to empty out the soon to be baby's room, and the office.&amp;nbsp; He has a 1962 Ford Econoline that needs to get stored in the garage.&amp;nbsp; The&amp;nbsp;yard needs mowing and winterizing.&amp;nbsp; Windows need to be installed in out attic bedroom. And so on.&amp;nbsp; And I am incapable of helping with any of that.&amp;nbsp; I simply can't do it. Then of course is all the daily home chores that need to be done, three kids to raise and school, and prepare for baby.&amp;nbsp; Somewhere rest needs to be fit in but it doesn't work.&amp;nbsp; I have been feeling rather depressed about all of this lately.&amp;nbsp; I don't like feeling like I can't do it all.&amp;nbsp; I have been trying to find wys the kids can help and make life a bit easier, but I guess I just don't know what to give them to do.&amp;nbsp; They are only 3, 4 and 6.&amp;nbsp; Ok now that I have complained all about me....&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;C is loving being included in school.&amp;nbsp; He would sit and do workbook pages forever if I let him.&amp;nbsp; He is doing great at getting the letter sounds down.&amp;nbsp; I can't wait for him to start reading on his own.&amp;nbsp; It feels so good to know that you taught him to do that.&amp;nbsp; Once he can do that he can read about anything he wants to.&amp;nbsp; I love that.&amp;nbsp; D went straight for dinosaur books. I wonder what C will go for.&amp;nbsp; D is doing very good as well.&amp;nbsp; He is beginning to memorize his addition and subtraction facts.&amp;nbsp; Its slow going but since it is just us here there is really no rush.&amp;nbsp; He does pretty good with spelling except with word that don't follow the &quot;rule.&quot;&amp;nbsp; Words like read, he will spell it rede becouse an e at the end makes it a long e sound.&amp;nbsp; That sort of thing he mixes up alot.&amp;nbsp; He'll get it though. I'm not worried.&amp;nbsp; (Yet).&amp;nbsp; We have been using our new Learning System discs.&amp;nbsp; He likes them.&amp;nbsp; I really wish they were seperated by grade though.&amp;nbsp; For example, we did part of a lesson on the human body, and he picked up alot of what was in the video but I would say it was a bit in depth for a first grader.&amp;nbsp; I guess I would think that you would start the basics in first grade, and get more and more in depth as you go along.&amp;nbsp; Anyway he liked it so&amp;nbsp;I guess we can just do it again later on and he will pick up more each time he does it.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;In all things are going well around here.&amp;nbsp; Things are slowly getting done and hopefully they will get done in time.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri,  3 Nov 2006 13:42:00 -0600</pubDate>
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<title>Check this out!!!!  Important!!</title>
<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;I stumbled across&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href=&quot;http://kerflop.com/2006/11/02/chemical-burn/&quot;&gt;THIS&lt;/A&gt; from another blog.&amp;nbsp; It is so important to get this information out.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri,  3 Nov 2006 13:40:00 -0600</pubDate>
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<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif&quot;&gt;I know its seems to been a while once again since I have last posted.&amp;nbsp; I guess I just don't know what to write about.&amp;nbsp; Writing never was my strong suit.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif&quot;&gt;So lets see.&amp;nbsp; Well I am feeling pretty good.&amp;nbsp; The aches and pains are worse this pregnancy than before.&amp;nbsp; My varicose veins hurt more than they did before.&amp;nbsp; My hips are the worst though.&amp;nbsp; The pain there almost brings me to tears somedays.&amp;nbsp; heat usually helps when it gets bad so I do have some relief.&amp;nbsp; I find that I haev really no appitite.&amp;nbsp; There is nothing that sounds good to eat.&amp;nbsp; I must admit I have been indulging my chocolate craving.&amp;nbsp; Reeses fast break is my weapon of choice, but anything equaly soft will work.&amp;nbsp; Lol.&amp;nbsp; We know that this babe is a boy but coming up with a name seems next to imopssible.&amp;nbsp; We like names that are unique but not unheard of.&amp;nbsp; We definatly do not want anything popular.&amp;nbsp; Aidan was my first choice but then we discovered how popular it has become so we nixed that idea.&amp;nbsp; Dh didn't mind he wasn't too thrilled with it.&amp;nbsp; Right now we are thinking maybe Korbin or Kolten.&amp;nbsp; What do you think?&amp;nbsp; Have any other ideas?&amp;nbsp; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif&quot;&gt;So with school I have found a really cool program.&amp;nbsp; I know it is not new I am probably just&amp;nbsp;new&amp;nbsp;to&amp;nbsp;it.&amp;nbsp; It is &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A href=&quot;http://www.thelearningsystem.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif&quot;&gt;The Learning System&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;.&amp;nbsp; It is really neat.&amp;nbsp; I bought the one for first through fifth grade.&amp;nbsp; I love the content but i wish it was divide more by grade so you would know what is more age appropriate.&amp;nbsp; D has yet to use it, but I have been playing around with it.&amp;nbsp; Getting a feel for it so I know where to start with him and stuff like that.&amp;nbsp; He is anxious to try it though.&amp;nbsp; I am impressed so far.&amp;nbsp; For $40 you can't beat it.&amp;nbsp; All the core subjects for 4 years.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif&quot;&gt;We have been so busy around the house trying to get things cleaned and rearranged to make room for babe.&amp;nbsp; I am so overwhelmed.&amp;nbsp; This is one those times I wish I could hire extra help.&amp;nbsp; But I can't, so I guess I better suck it up and get crackin...&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2006 12:52:00 -0500</pubDate>
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<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;Its been a while since I posted hasn't it?&amp;nbsp; Things have been insane around here lately.&amp;nbsp; Between doctors appointments, and family, and ER visits, and work commitments its been nuts!&amp;nbsp; Things have settled a bit now so I can gather my thoughts.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;In recent weeks, we have had M to the ER because he dislocated his elbow (known as nursemaids elbow.)&amp;nbsp; Every thing is fine with him now.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;M and C have both been to the doctor for their 3 and 4 year checkups.&amp;nbsp; Everything is wonderful there.&amp;nbsp; We have come up with a better plan of managing M's asthma.&amp;nbsp; Their height and weight are right where they should be.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;I had an episode with bleeding.&amp;nbsp; It was only one night and only lasted a few minutes but it scared the heck out of me.&amp;nbsp; I have never had any bleeding at all with my first 3 pregnancies so I was worried.&amp;nbsp; So I saw my midwife and had another ultrasound. Everything seems to be well now so no more concern.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;DH has been really busy at work lately lots of events going on.&amp;nbsp; He has been working overtime and coming home beat!&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;Oh and lets see, last night&amp;nbsp;I threw out a whole pan if lasagna &amp;nbsp;because I somehow screwed it all up.&amp;nbsp; It was one of those recipes where you don't have to cook the noodles beforehand.&amp;nbsp; Well lets just say they didn't cook while baking either.&amp;nbsp; It was strange to me because I have made this exact recipe before and it turned out ok.&amp;nbsp; checked and rechecked and&amp;nbsp;I didn't do anything wrong so&amp;nbsp;I am not sure what happened.&amp;nbsp; Needless to say I won't be making that one again.&amp;nbsp; As much as I like to make things simpler I will definatly make it the old fashioned way next time! &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;School is...going.&amp;nbsp; I am still not very happy with things but it&amp;nbsp;will get better I am sure.&amp;nbsp; I am very interested in the idea of unschooling because I feel that my kids learn well this way, but I live in NY and the regulations are nuts here.&amp;nbsp; They will have to do standardized testing and I am not sure I can trust that they will know the things they should.&amp;nbsp; Things like math facts and grammer and that kind of stuff. Oh well It will work itself out one way or the other.&amp;nbsp; All I know is that there is&amp;nbsp;no other choice for us.&amp;nbsp; Just read the newspaper and you will see why I just will not send my kids to school! What is it 4 or 5 incidents in the last 2 weeks...I don't think so!&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;Ok I guess this is long enough now.&amp;nbsp; I will be back soon.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 13 Oct 2006 14:54:00 -0500</pubDate>
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<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;&lt;FONT face=&quot;Tahoma, sans-serif&quot;&gt;Today school didn't go too well.&amp;nbsp; D was very easily distracted and made the most insane mistakes on his math.&amp;nbsp; Not little oops added wrong mistake, but big totally not paying attention mistakes.&amp;nbsp; He is moody this afternoon.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; C wanted to come in and do some Starfall on the computer and D said he wanted to watch him I said ok but instantly it was him messing around so I told him to to go play instead.&amp;nbsp; So of course he started crying and yelling I'm mad and so on.&amp;nbsp; I went and calmly explained to him that &quot;C is in there trying to learn, and he can't do that if you won't sit quiet.&amp;nbsp; I told you once to stop and you didn't so I had to tell you to leave him alone.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Then C went out and tried to play with him and he just sat there crying and fighting about a toy.&amp;nbsp; I just don't know. &amp;nbsp;I guess I just don't know how to handle a six and a half year old boy.&amp;nbsp; I feel like I am always reprimanding him, and I hate that, but he just doesn't listen sometimes.&amp;nbsp; He can be very rude and mouthy.&amp;nbsp; I am just so frustrated about it.&amp;nbsp; I love my son to pieces but sometimes I feel like we just aren't building the right kind of relationship.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2006 13:48:00 -0500</pubDate>
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<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;Things with school have been going pretty good.&amp;nbsp; We start our time reading a selection from Ambleside Online year one. Then D does his math and then vocab and spelling.&amp;nbsp; While he does that I do some workbook pages with C because he loves to &quot;do school&quot;.&amp;nbsp; D has been doing really good with his math addition and subtraction facts.&amp;nbsp; He makes me so proud.&amp;nbsp; Spelling seems to come fairly easy to him too.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Oh and C has been writing his name all by himself!&amp;nbsp; I had no idea he could do that.&amp;nbsp; I knew he could spell it, but write it, no clue.&amp;nbsp; I didn't know 4 year olds that are still being taught all the letter of the alphebet could do that!&amp;nbsp; I am so proud!&amp;nbsp; Did I mention that already?&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;I figured out that&amp;nbsp;I just wanted to be able to group us into one method of homeschool, thinking it would make it easier somehow.&amp;nbsp; I have come to realize that we are not completly Charlotte Mason although I do love her ideas. I just feel a bit more is needed than just expecting them to get all they need from literature.&amp;nbsp; We are not unschoolers, although our system is very relaxed.&amp;nbsp; But never too much so.&amp;nbsp; I trust that they get lots of &quot;education&quot; through real life and lots of play.&amp;nbsp; We are not textbook homeschoolers, mostly because I think that trying that rigid of a curriculum would burn out my kids very quickly.&amp;nbsp; Although I feel that some things are best taught that way.&amp;nbsp; So I guess you would say we are ecclectic.&amp;nbsp; A little bit of it all.&amp;nbsp; I am glad to have discovered this.&amp;nbsp; It seems to take some stress off.&amp;nbsp; Does that seem silly?&amp;nbsp; I guess I feel like it will all be ok one way or the other in the end.&amp;nbsp; The thought of highschool and preparing for college still petrifies me but&amp;nbsp;I still have a long way before then.&amp;nbsp; It will all work out, thats all I need to think right now.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 28 Sep 2006 10:31:00 -0500</pubDate>
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<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;Ultrasound today showed its a boy.&amp;nbsp; That makes four boys.&amp;nbsp; &lt;IMG src=&quot;http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/images/smilies/babyboy.gif&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; No pink for me.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 25 Sep 2006 15:31:00 -0500</pubDate>
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<description>&lt;P style=&quot;MARGIN: 0px&quot;&gt;Today is just one of the zero energy days.&amp;nbsp; This past week I have had tons of energy and got lots done. Not today.&amp;nbsp; I guess I used up whatever I had and I am done for a day or two.&amp;nbsp; I don't feel like doing anything except curling up and watching a good movie.&amp;nbsp; Which of course I can't do.&amp;nbsp; So&amp;nbsp;I am walking around trying to accomplish something.&amp;nbsp;Its&amp;nbsp;not working, so thats why I'm sitting here again.&amp;nbsp; Ok here I go again.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 11:16:00 -0500</pubDate>
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