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• Oct. 30, 2007 - You Don't Have to Read This But If You Do Don't Tell Me To Change It

 People are interesting to observe and an excellent place to observe them is on a blog.  Especially a blog that can be rather controversial.  I post regularly over at Home Where They Belong where, as you can imagine, there are readers who don't agree with anything that is posted there.  It completely fascinates me that they keep returning to argue about how homeschooled children are sheltered, can't make their own decisions, and are being brainwashed.  There are days when I think brainwashing might be a heap easier then training, but I really don't want children that follow for the sake of following.  If that's what I wanted I'd put them in public school. 

Anyway, back to the point at hand which is, why do people feel the need to tell others how to run their blog, or business, or life, or club by marching into their territory and demanding that they change? 

Let me clarify my question because if I don't I know I'll get all kinds of comments saying that Home Where They Belong tells people how to educate their children.  Some even say that we are forcing our beliefs onto them. Yes, HWTB does tell people how they should be educating their children, (at home) but it does it from the HWTB blog.  It's ridiculous to say that we are forcing  our beliefs onto others.  They came to HWTB, HWTB didn't go to them.   

In the last 50-60 years or so there have been clubs that were for men only and then women come along, got all kinds of mad about it and demanded that they be allowed to enter.  The government sided with the women and men are forced to change their ways to be more acceptable to the women.  I don't get it.  Why did they want to be a part of the mens club if the club can't be what it was?  Go start your own club that includes everyone, there's room enough in this country for both clubs.  Why can't there be men only clubs? 

I subscribe to several different publications.  Some use only the KJV of the Bible, some don't.  In both cases people write in and tell the publishers how they should use the other version of the Bible.  If the readers don't like it that's fine but they don't have to subscribe.  When you subscribe to something you are paying to read the views and ideas that publisher has to offer.  Why tell the publisher how they should promote their views?  They didn't force their way into your home and demand that you read them. 

Here too is how Christians as a whole are given a bad name from those who are against Christianity.  Those "Christians" go marching into other people's lives and demand that others live by their rules.  Yes, their rules.  God doesn't demand that we live by His laws.  He gives us a choice.  It is an offer, an invitation.  You can accept it or not, it's up to you. 

Today certain organizations are taking over public schools in order to infiltrate their views into people's homes.  Which by the way has always been the purpose of public schools.  Parents who put their children into the public school system are inviting these organizations to visit them.  Maybe not literally but it is an invitation all the same.  If your child is in public school then you have subscribed to the views and opinions of the school.  You have joined the club.  If you decide that the school is no longer something you want to be a member of then back out and quit trying to change the public school system.  It isn't worth changing.  

I don't know why people do these sorts of things but control is probably a part of it.  It's certainly something to contemplate further.  If you have any ideas let me know.  

(This blog uses only the KJV Bible, discusses homeschooling and is available for subscription to only those who know how to read. If you don't like it go start your own group with your own version of moral publication, talk about some other form of education and allow non-readers to subscribe.  Oh wait, you already have, it's called public education.) 




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• Oct. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Amen!
Susan
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• Oct. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by skdenfeld
So sassy now that you have got yourself a new template and all!

Kathi
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• Oct. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Tiany
AMEN!!! I with you 100% I have been pretty lucky that these folks are not bothering me i my little bloggy home :-)

You as is TOS are greatly appreciated for your straightforwardness and your willingness to share the truth!!!
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• Oct. 30, 2007 - Hey...

Posted by TeamBettendorf
my blog resembles your commentary. it is an odd thing to observe, is it not?
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• Oct. 31, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by SteveWalden
I thought I smelled smoke today. Yow! Don't mess with the carrier lady. She can launch you if she wants to.

Seriously, I really do get it. My post about "And Tango Makes Three" still gets some people in a huff. People are in it for control and meeker bloggers have been intimidated. I've realized that the times I go looking to beat someone else up are the times that I feel weak and vulnerable. Perhaps it's so with these people too.

HWTB is a troll magnet, unfortunately. Gena, yourself, and others (even me, back in the day) post controversial thoughts and ideas. The good news is that trolls only get away with what you let them get away with. If you decide to cut off debate, it's your blog, not theirs. You can tell the difference (usually) between the serious questions and the specious ones. I typically pray about the questionable ones. If I don't get a nod from Him, they don't get any nod from me. After all, Who are we in this for?

Rest in the vine, Sager. His yoke is easy and His burden light. Let God direct your steps and receive His peace for you today.

A brother in Christ,

Steve
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• Oct. 31, 2007 - Comment

Posted by Robyn
You go girl!!! I got your blog from another blog. I watched the video. People dont realize we have to be a voice for our children. I have HSed 20 yrs and 7 kids later Im still HSing. If some of these HS parents would read Hillary Clinton's book, "It takes a village", you do not want your children in public school. We need to pray for the right president to take office that is God fearing and for HSing not to be banned.
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• Oct. 31, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by humpty
Don't let 'em ruffle you. That's why I like HSB, because most of us are like-minded.
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• Nov. 6, 2007 - SO VERY TRUE!

Posted by peppermintpatti
Go TIA! How eye-opening! Thanks for the reminder that as "Christians," we are called to a personal relationship with God... not a community one!! LOL I recently read a line in a book (The Church Case Scenerio) that said something to the effect that we are so consumed with someone offending us, but when was the last time we were comsumed with whether we had offended God! I think that alot of this bickering and ranting is offensive to God Himself! While we can encourage others, share testimony of how God is working in our lives, mentor and share with those who choose to listen, getting in someone's face rarely brings a humbled and yielded response! LOL "A gentle answer turns away wrath." ( I think that is the KJV?!?! :) )
Anyway, thanks again for the reminder!
Patti

P.S. LOVE the new look of your blog!
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About my Avatar: Tia Turtle is a character in a new book by Gena Suarez, "And Then Mama Said...It Takes Time to Learn to Read." Kevin Collier is the illustrator and he made me my special avatar, because yes, Tia Turtle is named after Me! (Okay, so I'm bragging. Leave me a correctional comment in love.)














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