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• Mar. 13, 2006 - Prayer for Daughter

We had som very shocking news on Thursday.  My oldest Daughter was diagnoised with Sever Scoliosis.  Her curve is like an S with an extra curve on the top.  I had taken her to our regular doctor about a month ago.  She said she didn't think it was too much to get concerned about but we could see a specialist if we wanted to.  So we went last week.  He examined her and took x-rays.  He came back in the room and I was totally shocked.  I guess I was expecting; "oh lets just monitor it for a while and it's not too bad "(based on what our family dr said)  when he showed me the x-ray and said 46%, then followed that by saying 30% was considered sever I was just devestated. 

Today we will go and they will put her in a body cast, cut it off and that is how they make the brace to fit her.  She will have to wear the brace until she stops growing then she will more than likely have to have back surgery. 

This is just breaking my heart.  She will have to wear it for 20 hours a day.  There will be so much she will not be able to do.  She is 12 and going thru so many changes right now.  Someone said to me (my sister who just doesn't get live outside her own relem) said well atleast she does not have cancer which will kill her.  I remember being 12 and everything that you and your body are going thru.  To add this.  I know God has a plan for everything and I am just trying to focus on the big picture but, I know we will all need lots of prayer over the next few weeks as she gets her brace and gets accustom to this new way of life.

Sarah

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• Mar. 13, 2006 - I'm so sorry...

Posted by SupComTabz
this is a very hard thing to deal with. If I remember correctly most of what I learned about it was from the "Babysitter's Club" one of the characters in the series has/had it... or her sister did (she has a twin). Abby was her name... That sounds like a lot to go through for a 12 year old. I'll keep her in my prayers.
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• Mar. 14, 2006 - I will pray for you and your family

Posted by GodWillMakeaWay
Hi Sarah, I am so sorry to hear about this shocking new information. I can certainly feel your pain, I don't think there's much worse then knowing your child is/will/ or has suffered. I will keep praying for you. I also wanted to make a suggestion (maybe I am out of place here if so I'm sorry). Have you considered seeing a chiropractor? I am not that knowledgable about your daughters condition, but as soon as read your entry I wondered if chiropractic treatment could help. I did a quick search and found it might be worth some time looking into it. We go to a Christian Chiropractor and it has helped my husband's back tremendously. The first experience we had with CP treatment, my husband was on the livingroom floor and could not move because of pain. God miraculously brought a man to our door, through some circumstances. The guy gave John a 5 minute treatment and he was up on his feet moving freely and with very little traces of pain. I just wanted to suggest it because our Chiropractor told us the 90% of back surgeries are not need. IF seeing a chiropractor would save your daughter the discomfort of the brace and surgery, I thought it would be woth mentioning. Again, I hope I haven't offended you by suggesting this. I just truly care about your situation. God bless you.
Tracy
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• Mar. 14, 2006 - Oh Sarah....

Posted by FaithfulGrace
I have tears in my eyes. I'm so sorry.
I'll be praying for your Riley throughout the next months.
Praise the Lord she is homeschooled. You will bring comfort and direction to her through this transition.

Keeping you and Riley in my thoughts and prayers,
Linda
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• Mar. 17, 2006 - I also have scoliosis

Posted by MaxwellAcademy
I was diagnosed with scoliosis in 7th grade, got my back brace between 8th and 9th which was the start of high school. My parents let me go to school without my brace as long as I wore it constantly at home. If we had been homeschooling, I'm sure I would have worn it all the time, it was actually very comfortable, just a little sweaty in the summertime. Invest in some lightweight T's, that will help with the comfort, just make sure they are snug. If they wrinkly up under the brace she will itch. Also, never label her as disabled. If she feels comfortable doing cartwheels, let her. Never tell her she can't do something because of her back, that was the best thing my mom did. She never stopped me from doing anything like that. I took kids for piggy-bag rides, etc. Feel free to write back if I can give you any advice. I also had three relatively easy pregancies and births, so she can live a full, productive life.
~Dianna
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• Mar. 17, 2006 - Praying

Posted by
praying for your little girl. I'm glad you caught it before she got any older!

I saw you over on kleo's blog. You mentioned Biggest Loser. My sis bought me the book and dvd, and my hubby and I hope to start working out and eating right on Monday. I'll let you know how it goes. I wouldn't spend money on the book, its mostly just a "scrapbook" of the show. It does have the eating plan, which isn't really complicated. I'll share it if you want.

Edited by MotherJoy on Mar. 17, 2006 at 10:26 AM
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• Mar. 17, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by kleo30
Sarah, I just read your post about your daughter. I'll be praying for her! When she has surgery, will it be to put a rod in her spine? My Aunt had that surgery and so did my babysitter!

Anyway, I headed over to comment on your comments lol:) I love the "hit the reset button and start over" comment! Oh yeah, I'll be using that! Usually, if I mess up, I think of all the other stuff I want to eat that is not good for me to eat, eat it all in that day since "I already messed up." How stupid is that???

Doug laughed at your comment that I'm busy. I feel like I can't do much since struggling with fibromyalgia. I used to do 4x the stuff I do now, and it really frustrates me :) Oh well, I'll take your comment that I'm busy and be glad :) I was busy today and not lazy LOL.....

Have a great Friday :)
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• Mar. 18, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MSAcademy
Hi, just popped in on your blog and read about your dear daughter. How sad! It truly must break your heart to see all that your daughter will have to go through. I will pray for her today and will add you to my friend list so that I can read about any updates you may add. Blessings! ~Kim~
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• Mar. 18, 2006 - I am praying...

Posted by mattzach4
Hi Sarah ~
I found your blog through Kim's and I was so saddened that the first post I read was for your daughter. Please know that I am adding her and your whole family to my prayer list.
God bless ~
Suzanne
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• Apr. 4, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by WalkInFaith
This is in my prayers!
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