Schooldaze
Sep. 6, 2007
The Real Deal

Posted in Our Home Schooling Journey

PA = The Principle Approach

NP = Noah Plan Curriculum    

     We're closing in on our third week with the NPand I'm noticing something. What I see on the surface may or may not be the real deal.

     Case in point, my daughter and son sometimes ho-hum their way through Bible class. I'm trying to give it my all and bring out some key points that are just so good...then I see my daughter yawning or my son drifting off into la-la land and my bubble deflates. I feel like I'm letting them down in some way and think the lesson is a horrible failure. Five hours later I heard both of them singing a song that they learned in that same Bible class as they go playing around the house!!! My mouth drops open and I'm dumbfounded.

     Things like this happen ALL THE TIME!!! I guess I should be used to it, but for some reason I am always caught off guard. So, I've explained to my children that they just need to hang in there with Mommy. Even if some parts may not seem all that interesting, it will pay off in the end. Those little moments I'm blessed to catch during the day, encourage me that more is caught then I realize. My hubby says they can't turn their ears off so that'll always be the case. He just reminds me that it's so important to have them hearing the right things so that the right things will come out of them.

     So, I feel a bit looser in my teaching and a bit more relaxed in our day. I do try to touch on all the subjects everyday, but some days (like today) it just doesn't happen. My children got carried away with magnets today and then my daughter wanted to dance with the Swans (she's hooked on watching and dancing with the ballet Swan Lake) so we hardly finished everything, but I just try to go with the flow and remind myself that this is much more than they'd be getting anywhere else. I will say I still feel like I'm more task oriented than heart oriented, which I think is what the PA is all about. God is giving me more little by little, but I do still feel the tug of adhering to the letter instead of the spirit. As I said, God is moving me from this so I'm not really troubled about where I am right now. I know that He who has begun a good work in me will be able to complete it till the day of Jesus Christ. I also know my Jesus, loves His children and won't let me mess them up, so I'm just going along and giving them what I have when He gives it to me to give. The more I press into Him, the more I have to give.

     While I have said all that, I am considering changing a few of my ways. We used to do "school" without having a set format. We used to just flow from one interest of theirs to another. I'm thinking of brining this back into practice. I think by nature I'm a by-the-book kind of learner, but once I get used to it I can let my creativity flow a whole lot easier. Starting out these first few weeks I've been by-the-book, but God is expanding me to go outside the box. I'll be praying more about this....

     Oh yeah, I just have to tell this one more scenario I was blessed to stumble upon. While my children were getting ready for bed, they decided to do an experiment. For the past few days we'd been studying the scientific method and I thought things were going in one ear and out the other. I come upstairs and my daughter tells me they just finished conducting an experiment to answer the problem, will the bubbles in the sink go away when we apply toothpaste? Being the good home school mother I am (I had to fight this SO hard), I ignored the rant that was welling up in my throat and after hearing more details congratulated them on an experiment well handled. Only after they had revelled in the praise did I even say never, ever, ever again use toothpaste in that way. This comes from two children who supposedly were not the least interested in their science class. All I got to say is, thank You, Jesus, for Your Holy Spirit!!!

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Blessings,

Violet

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Sep. 6, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Aligirl


I have done the exact same thing. Trying so hard to go by the book, when I need to let the Holy Spirit lead our homeschool. What is so cool about homeschooling, is the fact that it can change and evolve to fit our children over time. I too have also had moments when the children were excited about an experiment or discovery that I had to really bite my tongue and let them learn from it. Especially when it comes to little bugs and creatures they pick up out of the back yard. It's so hard for me not to yell "yuck! Throw it down!". But instead, I tell them "cool! Let's pull out the microscope!"

It sounds like you are doing an awesome job with your kids! God Bless you and your homeschooling!

Ali


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Sep. 6, 2007 - NP Kindergarten

Posted by Anonymous


Violet -
I've so enjoyed your last few posts because we are at nearly the same spot in the NP Kindergarten Lessons. (Sometimes it can be lonely when no one around is doing the PA.) I liked your dreams from the previous post . . . I would LOVE to be able to send my kids to a PA school. . . . I'm not as patient as I should be with my children and constantly struggle with laziness and other "old nature" problems. You've been an encouragement to me!
Lori


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Sep. 22, 2007 - Nice to meet you

Posted by Anonymous


I just stopped in to meet you. I found your post on Renae's blogger friends list. I'm Hadias and I author proverbswife.blogspot.com. I am a HS mom of four. I like your blog and will come again to visit.


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Sep. 29, 2007 - Hello

Posted by jen4jesus


Everything that you said~ I just kept shaking my head 'yes'!!! You have a wonderful gift from God to say just the right words, so those who have gone through the same thing can really relate!!! Like me. My son is in the third grade and we have been doing PA ~NP, since Kindergarten. This is exactly where I was at. God has changed me and I knew that He would. Each year has been better. Simply because I got away from the law and let grace into our learning! This has made such a difference, especially in my children's hearts (that is key isn't it!) ;) I can still feel that He is refining me. Blogging does help to get thoughts out. I enjoy reading and getting advice from others. Very good site! I love your blog and will be back!


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Nov. 19, 2007 - Hi!

Posted by Anonymous


Just wanted to say hi. I'm from BHC.

Kysha
http://humblemama.blogspot.com


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Nov. 20, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by bbullard


I posted of a similar revelation just today on my blog, so it was interesting to see you write on the same subject of being removed from the schedule a bit in order to watch learning happen. Don't you wonder how hard the Lord must laugh at all of our pomp and circumstance?

Charlotte Mason would call your children's later recall of Bible and science (even with the toothpaste--LOL) masterly inactivity, i.e., what a child's mind will do with learning if you deter from structured experiences and allow them to digest what was poured into them.

I'm glad to read that all is well. And also, happy thanksgiving?


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Nov. 22, 2007 - I've never heard of this curriculum....

Posted by smokeybutter


until today as I was reading my e-mail. We use MFW (My Father's World) curriculum and love they way it ties scripture to world history.

Anyway, just hang in there! The kiddos are getting it ....you just keep giving it so they can soak it in. They will use it when they need it. One way I've found to help me see just what my kids are learning is through notebooking and lapbooking. Sometimes I think they aren't paying the least bit of attention to me, then I'll ask them to make a notebook page about a character we talked about that week and they will tell all sorts of things about that person (some of which I didn't even remember LOL). Some days it may seem hopeless, but it definitely isn't!
Blessings,
Missy

Edited by smokeybutter on Nov. 22, 2007 at 7:38 PM


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Feb. 13, 2008 - Hi Violet!

Posted by Anonymous


I'm Deb from the Principle Approach list. We emailed each other some time ago when both of us were first starting out. How are you doing?

I wanted to you to know I've tagged you. Please, play along if at all possible but there is no problem if you can't. It's an easy one - a book tag.

Read it here: http://aaaletawomanlearn.blogspot.com/2008/02/tagged.html

Blessings,
DJ (Deb)
http://aaaletawomanlearn.blogspot.com/
http://aprincipledheart.blogspot.com/


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