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Friday, March 30, 2007

Taming the Tongue

"Taming the tongue is a tough, troubling, tiring task to tackle triumphantly!"  Try saying that ten times fast :).  Okay...let's take it seriously now.  How many times have you wished you didn't say what you just said?  Oops...we can't take our words back!  Words can heal, help, or hurt.

 

"We all stumble in many ways.  If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check.  When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal.  Or take ships as an example.  Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go.  Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts.  Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.  The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body.  It corrupts the whole person, set the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.  All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man, but no man can tame the tongue.  It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison." James 3:2-8  It is so important to constantly guard our tongue.

 

"When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who hold his tongue is wise."  Proverbs 10:19

"He who guards his lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin." Proverbs 13:3

"The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly." Proverbs 15:2

"The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit." Proverbs 15:4

"Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones."  Proverbs 16:24

"He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity."  Proverbs 21:23


"One of the first things which a physician says to his patient is, 'Let me see your tongue.'  A spiritual advisor might do the same."  N. Adams

"When anger spreads through the breast, guard your tongue from barking idly." Sappho

"Sometimes you can make a more effective statement by holding your tongue." anonymous

"Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment."  Benjamin Franklin

"When I want to speak...let me think first:

 -Is it true?

 -Is it kind?

 -Is it necessary?

If not, let it be left unsaid."  Babcock

 

Tired of tongue troubles?  Have you heard of a tool called, "Tongue Tamer"?  A censor microchip implanted in our tongue that zaps the tongue everytime it utters bad words, mean words, untrue words, inappropriate words, any words that are not pleasing God and automatically disables the tongue for a period of time until the tongue is ready to behave :).  A deluxe version even comes with a decibel control so yelling and screaming become instantly mute, except in emergency/ life & death  situations.  If you have, please let me know.  Oh...I wish I could invent that.  Just imagine....  While you wait for that tool, perhaps you would like to try my "g.r.e.a.t." tip :)! 

Our speech should be: Gentle and gracious

                            Respectful

                            Encouraging

                            Appropriate

                            Truthful

Have a "g.r.e.a.t." talk today !

                                           "May the words of my mouth and

                                            the meditation of my heart

                                            be pleasing in Your sight,

                                            O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer."

                                                                                     Psalm 19:14


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Saturday, March 31, 2007 - Thank you!

Posted by MiryClay
One, for welcoming me to blog-world. Two, for reminding me of having GREAT words to say. I loved this entry. So many times I insert my foot into my mouth. It's funny you mentioned the bit in the horses mouth b/c that is the whole reason that I chose the template design that I chose for my blog. I thought of that verse! I look forward to reading more of your blog. Thanks again for the warm welcome.

Lori (Miry Clay)
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Saturday, March 31, 2007 - P.S.

Posted by MiryClay
I added you as a friend. I also wanted to let you know I was able to get a couple of pictures of our house up on my blog.
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Sunday, April 1, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by moreofhim
Yes, the tongue can be so wicked! There are so many times I want to just "schlurp" back those words I just blurted out! I love your hint - GREAT - what a wonderful way to remember to speak kindly. God bless you!
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Monday, April 2, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by mycrazylife
Hi!

Thank you for the comment on my blog! I do not have an identicle twin that lives in Oregon, however, most of my extended family lives there. Although none of them look like me.

I loved your post on taming the tongue. That is a message I should read everyday. It is a battle for sure, but a very important one!

Blessings,
Hallie
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