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Just learning to be who I am..but still trying to find out who that is.
Love my kids, of which I have 6
Some are now homeschooled, and some are not.
Working, going to school, and trying to be there for everyone and everything.
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the other side
I know that adoptees are not the only ones who suffer. I also read alot of birthmother blogs..I love one in particular. Sadly, her daughter wants nothing to do with her.
Here are her words. Talking about reunion and loss.
"I accepted years ago it will never get easier, it will never get better. I accept that it just is. While many will tout healing and recovery. I have accepted I have to live with this pain the rest of my life. It is a chornic illiness that I deal with. it comes and goes in waves and I have made accomodations in my life for it."
Its sad all around!! She is sad, and hurt. Her daughter is sad and very hurt and angry..her children are hurt that they have a sister that wants nothing to do with them..
it sucks all around. |
Posted: 10:30 PM, Jun. 16, 2009 |
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| Hi- Its your friend from grade school, Irene. Well, you're right, it sucks-- sort of. I'm not adopted, but I haven't had such a rosy life either. I haven't met anyone who has. Life is all a matter of perspective. Its what you want it to be. I have found that sometimes we get so used to being hurt in our lives, due to no fault of our own, that we actually feel uncomfortable and restless when we are not hurting. What's worse is that we start making choices that bring about that hurting feeling, because its what we are most familiar with. And, what's weird is that it becomes excrutiatingly painful to decide not to hurt. (To get something you never had, ==i.e. live pain free=you have to do something you never did =sometimes just changing our attitude=) We believe that if a relationship is important, then it will cause hurt and if we are not hurting, then the relationship is not important. But, this is not true. Look at the Bible and all the people Jesus healed. I guarantee that those people had other issues in their lives, other needs as well. But, Jesus didn't stick around to work through them all. That didn't make them any less important to Him, only that He did what He could do, and then He moved on. |
Posted by Anonymous at 9:04 AM, Jun. 17, 2009 |
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hey irene
I know what you mean. I guess this post is alittle off since its a continuation of another myspace post dealing with just adoption issues. I just wanted to say that adoptees are not the only ones who suffer in the world of adoption. Parents, brothers and sisters etc.
I know that none of us have rosy lives. because we don't. and thats so we can learn to deal with problems and learn to lean on God and Faith. I know that. I know that every person have hurt or loss or pain..we all do..
This post was just dealing with adoption issues..one of many that people suffer with.
There are so many other pains in the world..
but again, the suffering we having is nothing compared to what Jesus did for US!!!!
And that should give us all comfort. |
Posted by Anonymous at 10:31 AM, Jun. 17, 2009 |
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