Valerie is a born and raised Southern California girl. She is married and a stay-at-home mother to three wonderful blessings. Before her calling to homeschool, she wrote for public television, taught kindergarten, and was a live-in Nanny. She is currently Moderator of an International Yahoo GroupJust4homeschoolfamilies, The Heart Of The Matter online magazine; as well as Senior Editor of an monthly newsletter Words Of Encouragement.
At our house, we don't do the tradition school year schedule. In fact, we don't hold to a "normal" school day either. For that matter, we can pretty much end our studies by noon each day. We love it. Having that extra time during the day leaves us with many opportunities to get out and breathe some fresh air... but as you know, toting children around with you during school hours gets a little sticky at times. Many occasions we'll get the traditional question "Why are your kids not in school?" Which leads me to give my reasons for homeschooling. Unfortunately, if you have homeschooled for any time at all, you know all too well how your response can bring raised eyebrows and opinionated comments. However, every once in awhile you'll meet a lady who desperately wants to know more about your life and how homeschooling fits into your home. It is at that point I will open my heart and share...
I want to encourage you to do the same. Even though your passion will be infectious to those seeking the same ideals, just remember one thing... There will always be a hundred people who will agree with your decision to homeschool and a hundred people who will question your decision. But be encouraged... you've been given a gift.
You see, I believe that homeschooling is a calling on your life.For some it may be for a season, for others a lifetime.Yes, homeschooling your child is a personal choice and a sacrifice that should be noticed by everyone you meet (giggle); However, in reality, we are no better than the parent who has entrusted their child to a school facility building. Simply, we have chosen a different education stature for our children, for our own personal reasons. Now, don't think that I don't know that your decision doesn't come without a price. Homeschool mom's know all too well the sacrifice we have to make for our families. We may not drive the newest car or take elaborative vacations every year ~ and we all know that the bottom of our purse change will always go towards manipulative tools for math. Simply, we are rich in unity. Blessed with the opportunity to dwell with our children 24/7. That is our gift for homeschooling. I wouldn't trade it for the world. It's a hard decision and I understand your frustration at times. But I commend you homeschool mom's for making those sacrifices - even the ones that no one notices.
So, be encouraged today as you take that next step in your homeschool journey. Take your calling seriously. Pray for wisdom and strength. You've made a good decision...
