I did the same blog here and in our local paper blog.  Wow you should here what they had to say to me.  Yep, I was neive etc.  I am blaming the women. blah blah blah.  Actually, I wasn't blaming but I was not letting her off the hook either!  The world says if we don't like it get rid of it.  Forget commitment!  Forget you choose this person!  Forget that at one point you thought this person was great enough to spend a ton of money on for a wedding!  Forget that this person was the other parent of your child...  I like how some men (and women) are good enough to have sex with and make a baby but not good enough to marry! (sounding harsh and judgemental.. I know a lot happens before we become saved by our Lord)  But it is a choice regardless! One that effects everyone... you, the partner (actually I don't consider them a partner.. not really there is not contract, no real commitment) the child, your family..(you think it doesn't.. try being the aunt of a child whose parents are at war for custody and your not on the mothers side...) Well.. Praise the Lord he can do all things through those willing to turn to him and even in this situation of single parent hood.. something great can come (by the way.. if someone finds them in this situation.. pregnant not married.. it would still be better they choose adoption or single parenthood or killing the baby)

Have a great day

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