Nov. 20, 2007 - Learning not to complain
I'm still reading the book "Calm My Anxious Heart". I keep going back to something in the beginning of the book. It is a list of things that a missionary wife and mom wrote out. This missionary ministered in a place where life was difficult! Hot, humid weather, intermittent water at best, isolation etc. This is what the Lord taught her (as discovered by her daughter in an old diary) and what He has challenged me with:
"Never allow yourself to complain about anything--not even the weather." Ow! That one already got me!!
"Never picture yourself in any other circumstances or someplace else."
"Never compare your lot with another's."
"Never allow yourself to wish this or that had been otherwise."
"Never dwell on tomorrow--remember that (tomorrow) is God's not ours."
Isn't that a great list? It surely challenges this complaining heart of mine. I want to learn the secret of being content in any and every situation, as the apostle Paul did. And here it is: I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me!
A dear friend used to frequently remind me that to "compare ourselves against ourselves is not wise". I have forgotten the reference for that verse, but I sure remember the verse! I have struggled with that, as well as wishing circumstances were different, and dwelling anxiously about my tomorrows.
My ABF (Adult Bible Fellowship) teacher keeps reminding us of the Lord's sovereignty. He is in control and I do not have to be! I can trust my heavenly Father with my family, my life, with everything! Lord, increase my faith and help me to trust You more, and complain much less!
