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Mar. 21, 2008
Rosetta Stone - The Best Language Program!!!
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I have wanted to buy Rosetta Stone for so long - ever since I saw it at a convention a couple of years ago!

Rosetta Stone has been the #1 foreign language curriculum among homeschoolers for a while -- next week they are unleashing a brand new curriculum, and you can WIN the *all new* Rosetta Stone Homeschool Version 3… FOR FREE!
This is a $219 program (and believe me it's worth every penny!) and the winner gets to pick from any of these 14 languages: Spanish (Spain or Latin America), English (American or British), Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, French, German, Italian, Portuguese, Irish, Hebrew, or Russian.This will also include a headset with microphone, and students will participate in lifelike conversations and actually produce language to advance through the program.
Rosetta Stone still incorporates listening, reading and writing as well, in addition to speaking. Many homeschoolers requested grammar and vocabulary exercises, and with Rosetta Stone Homeschool Version 3, they're included! For parents, the new Parent Administrative Tools are integrated into the program and allow parents to easily enroll students in any of 12 predetermined lesson plans, monitor student progress, and view and print reports.
To win this most excellent program -- in the language of your choice -- copy these (blue) paragraphs and post it in (or as) your next blog post -- then to enter the contest, go to the original contest page HERE: http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/JenIG/501132 and leave a comment with the link showing where you blogged about it. And please make sure the link works to get back to the original contest page when you post it. And good luck! The winner will be picked randomly on March 26, and will be notified thru the link they left to their blog pg. And if you have more than one blog, you can post them and enter those separately for more chances to win. Yay for free stuff!
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Jan. 2, 2008
Project 365 Blog
I probably won't be blogging on here anymore for a while since I've taken up the Project 365 Challenge. The hope is to post at least 1 picture every day for 365 days (or 366 this year!) It's sponsored by my SHS group. (Support for Homeschooling)
The link for mine is:
http://summerz1.blogspot.com
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Dec. 27, 2007
Why Schools Don't Educate
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John Taylor Gatto is an amazingly engaging author. New York State and New York City Teacher of the Year in the early 90’s, Mr. Gatto knows his stuff. A man of deep emotion and passion, he cares for both the teachers and the students and takes aim at institutions and methodologies rather than at people-doing-their-best. Whether or not you agree with him, it is definitely something to think about...
This article is the text of a speech by John Taylor Gatto accepting the New York City Teacher of the Year Award on January 31, 1990.
Why Schools Don't Educate
by John Taylor Gatto
I accept this award on behalf of all the fine teachers I've known over the years who've struggled to make their transactions with children honorable ones, men and women who are never complacent, always questioning, always wrestling to define and redefine endlessly what the word "education" should mean. A Teacher of the Year is not the best teacher around, those people are too quiet to be easily uncovered, but he is a standard-bearer, symbolic of these private people who spend their lives gladly in the service of children. This is their award as well as mine.
We live in a time of great school crisis. Our children rank at the bottom of nineteen industrial nations in reading, writing and arithmetic. At the very bottom. The world's narcotic economy is based upon our own consumption of the commodity, if we didn't buy so many powdered dreams the business would collapse - and schools are an important sales outlet. Our teenage suicide rate is the highest in the world and suicidal kids are rich kids for the most part, not the poor. In Manhattan fifty per cent of all new marriages last less than five years. So something is wrong for sure.
Our school crisis is a reflection of this greater social crisis. We seem to have lost our identity. Children and old people are penned up and locked away from the business of the world to a degree without precedent - nobody talks to them anymore and without children and old people mixing in daily life a community has no future and no past, only a continuous present. In fact, the name "community" hardly applies to the way we interact with each other. We live in networks, not communities, and everyone I know is lonely because of that. In some strange way school is a major actor in this tragedy just as it is a major actor in the widening guilt among social classes. Using school as a sorting mechanism we appear to be on the way to creating a caste system, complete with untouchables who wander through subway trains begging and sleep on the streets.
I've noticed a fascinating phenomenon in my twenty-five years of teaching - that schools and schooling are increasingly irrelevant to the great enterprises of the planet. No one believes anymore that scientists are trained in science classes or politicians in civics classes or poets in English classes. The truth is that schools don't really teach anything except how to obey orders. This is a great mystery to me because thousands of humane, caring people work in schools as teachers and aides and administrators but the abstract logic of the institution overwhelms their individual contributions. Although teachers do care and do work very hard, the institution is psychopathic - it has no conscience. It rings a bell and the young man in the middle of writing a poem must close his notebook and move to different cell where he must memorize that man and monkeys derive from a common ancestor.
Our form of compulsory schooling is an invention of the state of Massachusetts around 1850. It was resisted - sometimes with guns - by an estimated eighty per cent of the Massachusetts population, the last outpost in Barnstable on Cape Cod not surrendering its children until the 1880's when the area was seized by militia and children marched to school under guard.
Now here is a curious idea to ponder. Senator Ted Kennedy's office released a paper not too long ago claiming that prior to compulsory education the state literacy rate was 98% and after it the figure never again reached above 91% where it stands in 1990. I hope that interests you.
Here is another curiosity to think about. The homeschooling movement has quietly grown to a size where one and a half million young people are being educated entirely by their own parents. Last month the education press reported the amazing news that children schooled at home seem to be five or even ten years ahead of their formally trained peers in their ability to think.
I don't think we'll get rid of schools anytime soon, certainly not in my lifetime, but if we're going to change what is rapidly becoming a disaster of ignorance, we need to realize that the school institution "schools" very well, but it does not "educate" - that's inherent in the design of the thing. It's not the fault of bad teachers or too little money spent, it's just impossible for education and schooling ever to be the same thing.
Schools were designed by Horace Mann and Barnard Sears and Harper of the University of Chicago and Thorndyke of Columbia Teachers College and some other men to be instruments of the scientific management of a mass population. Schools are intended to produce through the application of formulae, formulaic human beings whose behavior can be predicted and controlled.
To a very great extent, schools succeed in doing this. But our society is disintegrating, and in such a society, the only successful people are self-reliant, confident, and individualistic - because the community life which protects the dependent and the weak is dead. The products of schooling are, as I've said, irrelevant. Well-schooled people are irrelevant. They can sell film and razor blades, push paper and talk on the telephones, or sit mindlessly before a flickering computer terminal but as human beings they are useless. Useless to others and useless to themselves.
The daily misery around us is, I think, in large measure caused by the fact that - as Paul Goodman put it thirty years ago - we force children to grow up absurd. Any reform in schooling has to deal with its absurdities.
It is absurd and anti-life to be part of a system that compels you to sit in confinement with people of exactly the same age and social class. That system effectively cuts you off from the immense diversity of life and the synergy of variety, indeed it cuts you off from your own part and future, scaling you to a continuous present much the same way television does.
It is absurd and anti-life to be part of a system that compels you to listen to a stranger reading poetry when you want to learn to construct buildings, or to sit with a stranger discussing the construction of buildings when you want to read poetry.
It is absurd and anti-life to move from cell to cell at the sound of a gong for every day of your natural youth in an institution that allows you no privacy and even follows you into the sanctuary of your home demanding that you do its "homework".
"How will they learn to read?" you say and my answer is "Remember the lessons of Massachusetts." When children are given whole lives instead of age-graded ones in cellblocks they learn to read, write, and do arithmetic with ease if those things make sense in the kind of life that unfolds around them.
But keep in mind that in the United States almost nobody who reads, writes or does arithmetic gets much respect. We are a land of talkers, we pay talkers the most and admire talkers the most, and so our children talk constantly, following the public models of television and schoolteachers. It is very difficult to teach the "basics" anymore because they really aren't basic to the society we've made.
Two institutions at present control our children's lives - television and schooling, in that order. Both of these reduce the real world of wisdom, fortitude, temperance, and justice to a never-ending, non-stopping abstraction. In centuries past the time of a child and adolescent would be occupied in real work, real charity, real adventures, and the realistic search for mentors who might teach what you really wanted to learn. A great deal of time was spent in community pursuits, practicing affection, meeting and studying every level of the community, learning how to make a home, and dozens of other tasks necessary to become a whole man or woman.
But here is the calculus of time the children I teach must deal with:
Out of the 168 hours in each week, my children sleep 56. That leaves them 112 hours a week out of which to fashion a self.
My children watch 55 hours of television a week according to recent reports. That leaves them 57 hours a week in which to grow up.
My children attend school 30 hours a week, use about 6 hours getting ready, going and coming home, and spend an average of 7 hours a week in homework - a total of 45 hours. During that time, they are under constant surveillance, have no private time or private space, and are disciplined if they try to assert individuality in the use of time or space. That leaves 12 hours a week out of which to create a unique consciousness. Of course, my kids eat, and that takes some time - not much, because they've lost the tradition of family dining, but if we allot 3 hours a week to evening meals, we arrive at a net amount of private time for each child of 9 hours.
It's not enough. It's not enough, is it? The richer the kid, or course, the less television he watches but the rich kid's time is just as narrowly proscribed by a somewhat broader catalog of commercial entertainments and his inevitable assignment to a series of private lessons in areas seldom of his actual choice.
And these things are oddly enough just a more cosmetic way to create dependent human beings, unable to fill their own hours, unable to initiate lines of meaning to give substance and pleasure to their existence. It's a national disease, this dependency and aimlessness, and I think schooling and television and lessons - the entire Chautauqua idea - has a lot to do with it.
Think of the things that are killing us as a nation - narcotic drugs, brainless competition, recreational sex, the pornography of violence, gambling, alcohol, and the worst pornography of all - lives devoted to buying things, accumulation as a philosophy - all of them are addictions of dependent personalities, and that is what our brand of schooling must inevitably produce.
I want to tell you what the effect is on children of taking all their time from them - time they need to grow up - and forcing them to spend it on abstractions. You need to hear this, because no reform that doesn't attack these specific pathologies will be anything more than a facade.
1. The children I teach are indifferent to the adult world. This defies the experience of thousands of years. A close study of what big people were up to was always the most exciting occupation of youth, but nobody wants to grow up these days and who can blame them? Toys are us.
2. The children I teach have almost no curiosity and what they do have is transitory; they cannot concentrate for very long, even on things they choose to do. Can you see a connection between the bells ringing again and again to change classes and this phenomenon of evanescent attention?
3. The children I teach have a poor sense of the future, of how tomorrow is inextricably linked to today. As I said before, they have a continuous present, the exact moment they are at is the boundary of their consciousness.
4. The children I teach are ahistorical, they have no sense of how past has predestined their own present, limiting their choices, shaping their values and lives.
5. The children I teach are cruel to each other, they lack compassion for misfortune, they laugh at weakness, and they have contempt for people whose need for help shows too plainly.
6. The children I teach are uneasy with intimacy or candor. My guess is that they are like many adopted people I've known in this respect - they cannot deal with genuine intimacy because of a lifelong habit of preserving a secret inner self inside a larger outer personality made up of artificial bits and pieces of behavior borrowed from television or acquired to manipulate teachers. Because they are not who they represent themselves to be the disguise wears thin in the presence of intimacy so intimate relationships have to be avoided.
7. The children I teach are materialistic, following the lead of schoolteachers who materialistically "grade" everything - and television mentors who offer everything in the world for free.
8. The children I teach are dependent, passive, and timid in the presence of new challenges. This is frequently masked by surface bravado, or by anger or aggressiveness but underneath is a vacuum without fortitude.
I could name a few other conditions that school reform would have to tackle if our national decline is to be arrested, but by now you will have grasped my thesis, whether you agree with it or not. Either schools have caused these pathologies, or television, or both. It's a simple matter [of] arithmetic, between schooling and television all the time the children have is eaten away. That's what has destroyed the American family, it is no longer a factor in the education of its own children. Television and schooling, in those things the fault must lie.
What can be done? First we need a ferocious national debate that doesn't quit, day after day, year after year. We need to scream and argue about this school thing until it is fixed or broken beyond repair, one or the other. If we can fix it, fine; if we cannot, then the success of homeschooling shows a different road to take that has great promise. Pouring the money we now pour into family education might kill two birds with one stone, repairing families as it repairs children.
Genuine reform is possible but it shouldn't cost anything. We need to rethink the fundamental premises of schooling and decide what it is we want all children to learn and why. For 140 years this nation has tried to impose objectives downward from the lofty command center made up of "experts", a central elite of social engineers. It hasn't worked. It won't work. And it is a gross betrayal of the democratic promise that once made this nation a noble experiment. The Russian attempt to create Plato's republic in Eastern Europe has exploded before [our] eyes, our own attempt to impose the same sort of central orthodoxy using the schools as an instrument is also coming apart at the seams, albeit more slowly and painfully. It doesn't work because its fundamental premises are mechanical, anti-human, and hostile to family life. Lives can be controlled by machine education but they will always fight back with weapons of social pathology - drugs, violence, self-destruction, indifference, and the symptoms I see in the children I teach.
It's high time we looked backwards to regain an educational philosophy that works. One I like particularly well has been a favorite of the ruling classes of Europe for thousands of years. I use as much of it as I can manage in my own teaching, as much, that is, as I can get away with given the present institution of compulsory schooling. I think it works just as well for poor children as for rich ones.
At the core of this elite system of education is the belief that self-knowledge is the only basis of true knowledge. Everywhere in this system, at every age, you will find arrangements to place the child alone in an unguided setting with a problem to solve. Sometimes the problem is fraught with great risks, such as the problem of galloping a horse or making it jump, but that, of course, is a problem successfully solved by thousands of elite children before the age of ten. Can you imagine anyone who had mastered such a challenge ever lacking confidence in his ability to do anything? Sometimes the problem is the problem of mastering solitude, as Thoreau did at Walden Pond, or Einstein did in the Swiss customs house.
One of my former students, Roland Legiardi-Lura, though both his parents were dead and he had no inheritance, took a bicycle across the United States alone when he was hardly out of boyhood. Is it any wonder then that in manhood when he decided to make a film about Nicaragua, although he had no money and no prior experience with film-making, that it was an international award-winner - even though his regular work was as a carpenter.
Right now we are taking all the time from our children that they need to develop self-knowledge. That has to stop. We have to invent school experiences that give a lot of that time back, we need to trust children from a very early age with independent study, perhaps arranged in school but which takes place away from the institutional setting. We need to invent curriculum where each kid has a chance to develop private uniqueness and self-reliance.
A short time ago I took seventy dollars and sent a twelve-year-old girl from my class with her non-English speaking mother on a bus down the New Jersey coast to take the police chief of Sea Bright to lunch and apologize for polluting [his] beach with a discarded Gatorade bottle. In exchange for this public apology I had arranged with the police chief for the girl to have a one-day apprenticeship in a small town police procedures. A few days later, two more of my twelve-year-old kids traveled alone to West First Street from Harlem where they began an apprenticeship with a newspaper editor, next week three of my kids will find themselves in the middle of the Jersey swamps at 6 A.M., studying the mind of a trucking company president as he dispatches 18-wheelers to Dallas, Chicago, and Los Angeles.
Are these "special" children in a "special" program? Well, in one sense, yes, but nobody knows about this program but the kids and myself. They're just nice kids from Central Harlem, bright and alert, but so badly schooled when they came to me that most of them can't add or subtract with any fluency. And not a single one knew the population of New York City or how far it is from New York to California.
Does that worry me? Of course, but I am confident that as they gain self-knowledge they'll also become self-teachers - and only self-teaching has any lasting value.
We've got to give kids independent time right away because that is the key to self-knowledge, and we must re-involve them with the real world as fast as possible so that the independent time can be spent on something other than more abstraction. This is an emergency, it requires drastic action to correct - our children are dying like flies in schooling, good schooling or bad schooling, it's all the same. Irrelevant.
What else does a restructured school system need? It needs to stop being a parasite on the working community. Of all the pages in the human ledger, only our tortured entry has warehoused children and asked nothing of them in service to the general good. For a while I think we need to make community service a required part of schooling. Besides the experience in acting unselfishly that will teach, it is the quickest way to give young children real responsibility in the mainstream of life.
For five years I ran a guerilla program where I had every kid, rich and poor, smart and dipsy, give 320 hours a year of hard community service. Dozens of those kids came back to me years later, grown up, and told me that one experience of helping someone else changed their lives. It taught them to see in new ways, to rethink goals and values. It happened when they were thirteen, in my Lab School program - only made possible because my rich school district was in chaos. When "stability" returned the Lab was closed. It was too successful with a wildly mixed group of kids, at too small of a cost, to be allowed to continue. We made the expensive elite programs look bad.
There is no shortage of real problems in the city. Kids can be asked to help solve them in exchange for the respect and attention of the total adult world. Good for kids, good for all the rest of us. That's curriculum that teaches Justice, one of the four cardinal virtues in every system of elite education. What's sauce for the rich and powerful is surely sauce for the rest of us - what is more, the idea is absolutely free as are all other genuine reform ideas in education. Extra money and extra people put into this sick institution will only make it sicker.
Independent study, community service, adventures in experience, large doses of privacy and solitude, a thousand different apprenticeships, the one day variety or longer - these are all powerful, cheap and effective ways to start a real reform of schooling. But no large-scale reform is ever going to work to repair our damaged children and our damaged society until we force the idea of "school" open - to include family as the main engine of education. The Swedes realized that in 1976 when they effectively abandoned the system of adopting unwanted children and instead spent national time and treasure on reinforcing the original family so that children born to Swedes were wanted. They didn't succeed completely but they did succeed in reducing the number of unwanted Swedish children from 6000 in l976 to 15 in 1986. So it can be done. The Swedes just got tired of paying for the social wreckage caused by children not raised by their natural parents so they did something about it. We can, too.
Family is the main engine of education. If we use schooling to break children away from parents - and make no mistake, that has been the central function of schools since John Cotton announced it as the purpose of the Bay Colony schools in 1650 and Horace Mann announced it as the purpose of Massachusetts schools in 1850 - we're going to continue to have the horror show we have right now. The curriculum of family is at the heart of any good life, we've gotten away from that curriculum, time to return to it. The way to sanity in education is for our schools to take the lead in releasing the stranglehold of institutions on family life, to promote during school time confluences of parent and child that will strengthen family bonds. That was my real purpose in sending the girl and her mother down the Jersey coast to meet the police chief. I have many ideas to make a family curriculum and my guess is that a lot of you will have many ideas, too, once you begin to think about it. Our greatest problem in getting the kind of grass-roots thinking going that could reform schooling is that we have large vested interests pre-emptying all the air time and profiting from schooling just exactly as it is despite rhetoric to the contrary. We have to demand that new voices and new ideas get a hearing, my ideas and yours. We've all had a bellyful of authorized voices mediated by television and the press - a decade long free-for-all debate is what is called for now, not any more "expert" opinions. Experts in education have never been right, their "solutions" are expensive, self-serving, and always involve further centralization. Enough. Time for a return to Democracy, Individuality, and family. I've said my piece. Thank you.
© John Taylor Gatto. All rights reserved.
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Dec. 14, 2007
Audiobooks

Since we've been making the 2+ hr. trek to co-op every week, I decided to try an audiobook. I must say that I had quite an aversion to them in the past - writing them off as the lazy person's method of reading. The first one we listened to was Bridge to Terabithia since we had just seen the movie. It was enjoyable. Anne of Green Gables, The Complete Edgar Allen Poe, and various others followed. However, it wasn't until we heard Jim Dale's rendition of Around the World in 80 Days that we were hooked! It was absolutely captivating! His voices were so convincing that you could close your eyes and imagine that you were sailing along for the ride. (not recommended if you're the one in the drivers seat ...) Of course, the excitement of the book lends itself well to the dramatic audio reenactment, but the characterizations were exquisite! I HIGHLY recommend this one!
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Dec. 11, 2007
Where did you learn that?
One of the things that I find amazing about homeschooling is how often my kids amaze me! You'd think that if you are the teacher, you'd know everything that they know. This just isn't the case. For example, Rachael and I were at the mall last Sunday. We strolled into the antique store and were perusing the various items when I saw a cool old flag. "Look! It only has 48 stars!" As all homeschoolers know, EVERY moment is a teaching moment, so I asked Rachael if she knew which states weren't represented. With a look of exasperation, she says, "Mom! The flag was made prior to 1959 when Alaska & Hawaii were inducted." Now, I KNOW that I'venever taught her that ... She said that she'd known that for years and had read it somewhere. This came only a day after a disagreement with her dad about cow stomachs ... (she was right in that instance, as well!)
It isn't just Rachael, but Nick, too. His Christmas wishlist for Santa? He wants:
1. a big screen tv (He's definitely his Daddy's boy!)
2. a horse
3. a yacht
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Dec. 10, 2007
YUCK!!!
Okay, this post is not for the faint of heart ...
As I was in the kitchen this morning cleaning up the dishes that had accumulated over the weekend, I heard Rachael yell to put some pants on Nick. Knowing that he HAD pants on a few minutes before, I had that sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. OH NO!!!! Giving him the benefit of doubt, I calmly asked him if he needed to go potty. "I already did!" was the response as he held up his arm which was COVERED in poop from the tips of his fingers to his elbow! Gasping, I asked him if he had gotten it anywhere else (dumb question!) His response ... "On sissy's wall!" As I was carrying him to the bathroom and preparing him for the bathtub, Rachael went to scope out the damage. Her shriek gave me the confirmation that I was hoping to avoid. After his bath, I gathered up every anti-bacterial cleaner I could find. There was poop smeared ALL over the bedroom wall, Rachael's bed, sheets, door frame, a towel laying on her floor, and a trail into the hallway. Pointing to the towel, he informed me in the sweetest, most angelic little voice, "I'm sorry Mommy, I tried to clean it up." In the midst of the most disgusting job of being a mom, I just wanted to grab him up and kiss him! God sure knew what he was doing when he made them so adorable! I can't wait until I never have to worry about cleaning poop off the wall again, and yet, I pray that I'll keep that sweet little boy young forever! |
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Jun. 2, 2007
Lots of Prayer Requests!
| Jeff & I will be celebrating our 13 year anniversary on Monday, June 4th. Since he has training up in Chicago, we decided to turn the trip into a mini-vacation for just the two of us. I am soooo excited! This is the first time since Nick was born that we're taking a trip without the kids. (We went on a cruise to celebrate our 10 year anniversary when I was pregnant w/ Nick) The kids are staying w/ Jeff's parents for 3 nights and my parents for 2 nights. Rachael is looking forward to it, but I'm just sick at the thought of leaving Nick for 5 days. He's never been away from me for more than a few hours at a time. I keep playing out these horrible scenarios in my head that he's going to wake up in the middle of the night or think I've abandoned him! It didn't help matters any that he actually escaped out of the house yesterday morning! I saw the front door was ajar and as I opened the door, a young women was walking him back. Apparently, he was going to "check the mail!" Anyway, please pray for joy and safety for the kids, peace of mind for Nick & me, and that God will use our "alone" time to stregthen our already amazing marriage even more! |
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May. 5, 2007
Jews, Gentiles, & Virgins?!?!?!
I was reminded today of an event that happened late last year. I realized that since I hadn't written it down, I'd surely forget it again, and this was just too funny to forget! So here goes ...
After taking Rachael to the Nativity movie, we were discussing Jewish traditions and the fact that Jesus was a Jew. Rachael asked "why" he was a Jew, and I explained that he came from the lineage of King David and that his family was Jewish. After several minutes of silence, she said, "but Mary wasn't Jewish, was she?" I replied that she was. Several more seconds of silence ... "but Mom, I thought she was a Virgin, not a Jew ..."
I love the sweet innocence! She's growing up too soon. Lord, help me savor these wonderful days with my children before they're gone forever ... |
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May. 1, 2007
Academic Fair

Rachael participated in the HEARTH Academic Fair last Friday evening. After weeks of trying to decide what to present, she finally chose Atoms & Molecules. She had studied Chemistry in our co-op and learned so much. The mom who teaches science in our co-op is a former high school science teacher who decided to homeschool her own children. She is an AWESOME teacher!
Rachael had initially thought about doing a presentation on Frank Lloyd Wright. She's always been fascinated with architecture and has talked about possibly pursuing that as a career. Unfortunately, Mr. Wright's personal life was not as clean as his architecture. She did learn a lot about his building style and appreciated certain design elements that he used. Being a math-minded child, she loved the geometric shapes found in nature that he was so fond of using.
All in all, the academic fair was great! We were able to visit with other homeschool friends outside our co-op that we don't get to see too often. You really get to see the individual personalities brought out in each project. The creativity was amazing! |
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Apr. 23, 2007
Lauren Ashley McCain
As I read the note below, I was filled with so many emotions. My heart grieves for Lauren's family and friends, but there's also something else ...
How reassuring would it be to KNOW that you will see your child again in heaven?
So many teenagers leave their parents' home and begin to question their faith? I was at a homeschooling convention over the weekend where this was being discussed. It is SO important that your child knows WHAT they believe, and WHY they believe it before they are thrown to the wolves (so to speak) at our college campuses. What an amazing job Mr. & Mrs. McCain did in raising their daughter to be so strong in her faith. I pray that I will be able to instill that kind of strength in my own children ...
Lauren Ashley McCain, a 20-year-old homeschool graduate and the daughter of Dave and Sherry McCain of Hampton, was lost to us this week. Lauren, a freshman at Virginia Tech, was majoring in International Studies.
I've read Lauren's blog, I've read her obituary. I've read what others have had to say about her online. I've read the thoughts and prayers of her family and friends--their pleas on Monday--while there was hope--for her to call home. Two years ago at the HEAV commencement, I called her name and watched as she received her high school diploma from her parents.
One thing is clear: Lauren loved the Lord Jesus. Her life was a testimony to Him.
She wrote in her blog: "The purpose and love of my life is Jesus Christ. I don't have to argue religion, philosophy, or historical evidence because I KNOW Him. He is just as real, if not more so, as my 'earthly' father."
In her graduation biography she proclaimed, "God is my passion ... I want to glorify Christ and encourage others to do the same."
In His love,
Anne Miller
HEAV President
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Apr. 18, 2007
Virginia Tech Massacre
Whenever there's a tragedy such as the Virginia Tech Massacre, I drive my family crazy watching the coverage on Fox News. This time, it hit me exceptionally hard. I have a cousin who's an engineering professor at VT. Fortunately, he was in the next building and remained safe. I mourn not only for all the teachers and students, but also for our world. There were so many brilliant minds that were destroyed in a single instant of rage. As a parent of a son with cerebral palsy, one particular story that tears me up is that of Dr. Kevin Granata. He was one of the top 5 bio-mechanical engineers in the world, he was researching cerebral palsy, he was a husband & father with three children, and he was only 45 years old. You look at the story of Liviu Librescu, a Haulocaust survivor who died a hero at 76 years of age. Could you imagine what amazing things could have been done by the other victims had they lived into their 70s or 80s? I have to keep reminding myself that God is supreme, and He is in control. I pray that this event will serve to remind us all that life is precious, and we need to cherish every moment. There may not be time to wait until tomorrow to do what needs to be done, or to say what needs to be said ...
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Apr. 10, 2007
Traditions
Mark 7:6-8
He replied, "Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written:
" 'These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.
They worship me in vain; their teachings are but rules taught by men.
You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to the traditions of men. "
As I've been reflecting on what I learned at the Cincinnati covention (see last posting), I've been noticing parallels between my journey of parenting and my journey of faith.
I was raised Catholic, went to Catholic school for part of my childhood, and was really unaware that any other religion existed until I, myself, reached the "logic stage". As I got older, my mom left the faith, stopped attending church, and eventually became an atheist. For me, there was never a point when I didn't believe that God existed, but I also didn't live my life according to His purposes. When it came time to marry, Jeff & I went to the Catholic pre-marital classes and had a Catholic wedding despite his reservations. It was my love of tradition that kept me a Catholic despite my own doctrinal differences that I had with the church. It wasn't until I realized that Jesus, himself, constantly broke from tradition that I was able to take the step of faith and leave the church. I realized that if I truly trusted in Him and Him alone, that I could step out of my comfort zone and begin my journey of seeking His will. This was the best move that I've ever made concerning my own faith walk. I realize that there are probably many Catholics who understand salvation and have a great relationship with Christ, but for me, it took that step of faith to really open my eyes and give me a longing to live according to His purposes.
The same love of tradition is also a hindrance to my walk as a parent. I often find myself asking my children to do things just because it's tradition - not because it's how God wants me to train them. I pray daily that God will show me His will for raising the children whom He has entrusted to me, yet find myself mindlessly sticking to tradition instead of really evaluating the true purpose of my actions. My "mean mom" days, and "because I told you so" responses need to be replaced with a lesson on God centered focus. I still need to expect discipline, obedience, and respect, but realize that it should be done with Him in mind, not my own selfish motives or need for tradition.... |
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Mar. 25, 2007
I met her!!!!
If there was one book that I believe is a "must-have" for homeschoolers (besides the Bible, a dictionary, and an atlas), it would be The Well-Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer. I have read that book cover-to-cover several times, and still refer back to it often. When I found out that the author was going to be in Cincinnati for a homeschool convention, I decided that I HAD to go listen to her speak. I had expected to get a lot of good educational information. I hadn't expected to leave with a renewed enthusiasm for not only homeschooling, but parenting in general!
My 10 year old has never been openly defiant. With the exception of some sibling rivalry and the normal sinful human nature, she is, in general, a well behaved child. Lately, however, we have been experiencing some tension. She has begun to question EVERYTHING! "Why do I have to ...(fill in the blank!)" Now, I tend to have a lot of patience with my two year old - I realize that he is still in the "training phase" of learning his boundaries. I thought that I was over that with Rachael! However, after listening to Susan Wise Bauer, she explained that the questioning phase (or logic stage as she calls it) is a normal and positive step. She explained that before this time, Rachael was accepting what I said as truth without thinking through whether or not it made sense. The problem with that, is that she was also accepting whatever ANYBODY ELSE said as well. (Boy, am I glad that Jeff & I have been the ones responsible for her education!) She said to use this time to teach her to discern truth from fallacy. I'm sure none of this information is new to "seasoned" moms, but for me, it was a real eye-opener! What a great time to start a true, inductive Bible study! |
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Feb. 27, 2007
Rachael's 1st piano recital
Rachael had her very first piano recital on Feb. 16th. She's only taken lessons for a few months. She played "French Cathedrals" & "Ode to Joy." I was so proud of her! She tends to be somewhat introverted (like her Dad!) I thought she was going to have terrible stage fright, but she didn't! It probably helped that the other performers were all her homeschool friends. Thomas, Ross, Gracie, Josh, & Ali all performed for their first times also. They all did wonderfully! Here is a snippet of Rachael's 2nd song, "Ode to Joy" ...
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Feb. 2, 2007
My baby girl is 10!
| I can't believe that my baby girl is 10 already! Where did the time go? In preparation for a class reunion planning meeting, I was going through a box of old pictures. Pictures from when we lived in California (where Rachael was born), Michigan, and our home in Southern Indiana. It seems like a lifetime ago when we brought her home from the hospital. Jeff and I looked soooo young! I remember all of the infertility issues we had and about how those issues changed me as a person. Before that time, I always assumed that I would continue to work and she would be in daycare. Yes, I'd miss her, but hey, I DESERVED the American Dream of a large house and extravagant vacations! Wow ... if you would have told me 15 years ago that I'd be a homeschool mom, I'd have thought you were CRAZY! It's amazing to me how God uses all of the events, both good and bad, in a person's life to shape who they will become. I have so much joy in my life right now! It's like all of the bad experiences in my life have worked together to show me what's truly important in life. And for that, I am eternally grateful! |
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Jan. 11, 2007
It's been too long!
I've been neglecting my blogging duties lately. We've been incredibly busy the past month or so, and I'm still trying to recuperate from a nasty illness that struck on Christmas Eve of all days! Other than that, we had a great Christmas. Nick's only request for Santa was for a monkey (of all things!) Fortunately, my mother-in-law bought him a FurReal monkey, which he loved. My mom bought Rachael the metal detector that she had been begging for. Ever since she saw a documentary about modern day treasure hunters, she's been convinced that she's going to find the next archaelogical find of the century, or at least make her first million!
I also finished up an ad campaign that I had been working on for a local lawyer. I was less than pleased with the final results, but he liked it... I guess that's what counts since he's paying the bill! The next project is a website overhaul. Wish me luck!
We started school again on Monday after having taken off nearly a month. We got a lot accomplished, but co-op doesn't start again until Jan. 31st. I think Rachael is going into withdrawal. We generally see our co-op friends at least 2-3 times a week on average, but over the holidays, it's been scarce.
We did get a lot of work done on our house over the holidays ... that was a huge plus. (Background: We currently rent a townhouse, but still own our previous house about 2 hours south of here that we're fixing up to sell.) We have A LOT of painting to do, and need to figure out what to do with the hardwood floors which are in pretty bad shape...
Well, I'll try to be more diligent in my blogging from now on, but for now ... |
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Dec. 11, 2006
PRAISE GOD ... HE'S WALKING!!!!
Praise God, from Whom all blessings flow;
Praise Him, all creatures here below;
Praise Him above, ye heavenly host;
Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.
My son, Nicholas, who has cerebral palsy, just learned to walk yesterday - right in the middle of a Target store! After so many heartbreaking months, it almost seems like a dream! The people at Target probably thought I was crazy as I stood bawling in the middle of the aisle looking at my two an a half year old son walking towards me!

He finally got his DAFO's (leg braces) last Thursday, and within 3 days, was walking. He still can't manuever without them, but just being independently mobile is a miracle! He calls his braces his "Veggie Tale boots." (They have Veggie Tale characters on them). We had to buy new shoes that were 2 sizes larger to fit over the braces. Fortunately, we found some Spiderman shoes that fit perfectly. When he was just taking his first steps, he said, "YOU CAN DO IT SPIDERMAN!!!!!" 
I still remember before he was diagnosed, we just assumed that he'd start walking at around a year like our daughter did. He had started therapy at about 9 months old because of developmental delays (he couldn't sit unassisted) that we thought were just due to his prematurity. His physical therapist said that he should only need therapy for about 3 months or so. The three months turned into over two years. Even after we changed therapists, it seems that every prediction for improvement was unfulfilled. Every time we went into the nursery at church, babies who were so much younger than him were up walking around, and he was still crawling. The saddest times were when someone would ask him how he was doing and his response would be, "I can't walk." I knew in my heart that he wanted nothing more than to be able to run and play with his friends. I'm eternally grateful that given some time, he'll be able to do just that!
I will praise you, O LORD, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonders. - Psalm 9:1 |
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Nov. 8, 2006
Election Results
I feel sick. I worked all day yesterday (election day), first at the Republican HQ, then at the Justice Building counting absentee ballots. Sitting in the room awaiting being sworn in, they asked everyone's party affiliation since each team was supposed to include 1 R & 1 D. Out of 33 people, there were 30 Dems and 3 Republicans. Many Christians talk about being conservative. Where's the action behind the words?
I was nearly in tears watching the election results last night. I just don't understand how any Christian can look at the social issues (especially abortion & gay marriage) and see the direction that our country is headed, and still vote Democrat. As this has been stewing in my mind all day, I realize that I'm not upset with the passionate Democrats. At least they're standing up for what they believe in (albeit wrong), at least they're DOING something! I'm mad as fire at the apathetic Republicans who didn't get out and vote! I heard, "Well, it was raining, so we didn't go." and "Well, it's not a Presidential election, so it's no big deal." The ignorance just infuriates me! Click HERE to meet the person who will now be our Speaker of the House. She definitely does NOT represent my idea of a positive change for our country! God Bless America ... we need it now more than ever. |
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Nov. 3, 2006
Daddy & Daughter
Isn't there just something inherently beautiful about seeing a little girl with her dad?

My parents were divorced when I was four and I had a very distant relationship with my dad. So much so, that when he died when I was 13, it didn't impact me like one would assume that losing a parent would. I really didn't dwell on it much until my wedding time and then again when I had my own children. I thank God every day for giving me such a wonderful husband and father for my children! |
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