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• Thursday, October 11, 2007 - Audience Question

"I thought in my heart, 'Come now, I will test you with pleasure to find out what is good.' But that also proved to be meaningless."
    - Ecclesiastes 2:1

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Oh wow guys, I am sooo far behind on this. I've been really busy. I'm sorry!!! So today is going to be the Audience Question. And by the way, I may alter the schedule a little sometime within the next couple of days.

Last week I asked...
" If one of your friends talked to you in the same way you often talk to yourself, would you still be friends with them? Explain."

I got a lot of really good feedback from you all, here were some of your responses...

"Maybe yes, maybe no. On one hand, I'd kinda like a friend that wouldn't beat around the bush with my faults. On the other hand, I wouldn't want someone insulting . . . but since I'm me, I can't insult myself anyway . . . am I making any sense?"
    - 1percentmilk

"That's a tough one. Like, I'd really want someone to be honest with me, but do I want them to be *that* honest? LOL. Actually, I think sometimes it's hard for us to see our own faults, so maybe it wouldn't be that different. I guess in the long run, even though there may be times when it hurt, I'd rather someone know me *that* well that they COULD see those things and be comfortable calling them out."
    - Earthling

"I know you won't believe this. ;-D But actually, I do talk to my closest friends just the way I talk in my head. We're always blurting out random, insane things and starting pointless conversations about them. Seriously, we can spend 30 minutes either debating the spelling of the word "encomium" or pondering Locke's philosophies and how they compare in the television show LOST. Really, when you're close to someone, you can discuss just about anything and they'll understand and accept it.
So uh, the short answer to your question? Yes, I would still be friends, because I tell them the crazy stuff in my head all the time!"
    - SugarCone

"....Second, to answer your question yes. I am a person that can be my harshest critic at the most craziest times but then I take those faults and reassess myself and try to make myself a better person. So I would absolutely be friends with someone that talked to me the way I talk to myself because that person could get me to realize true things about myself."
   
- taytay

Next Week's Question:
Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all? Why or why not?

Also, as an update about the contest. Because of my tardiness, you now have until Sunday the 14th to get those stories in. So two extra days, woohoo!
   
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• Friday, October 12, 2007 - Hey

Posted by dixiebeauty
Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all? I think it's better if you've loved and lost 'cuz love is the best thing anybody could ever give. It hurts in the long run but I know it's better 'cuz if you've never loved them, you missed out on getting to bond with that person before you lost him or her. That's just the way I feel about it. : )
Have a wonderfully blessed day and weekend!

lots of hugs,
Jordan Lee
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• Friday, October 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by 1percentmilk
That is a tough one. . . I would love to love someone very much, but it would hurt just as much as it had been good loving the person if I lost the person. On the other hand, with the no loving, no pain, its losing the love but witholding the pain. I don't know which I would perfer. I just hope I can affect whoever I meet in a good way.

Thanks for the extra time! I forgot about writing that story! I hope I can get it done in two days . . . =P

Lydia
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• Friday, October 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by karatechick1
It is better to have loved and lost than to live with that loser for the rest of your life. Ooops...not the question. Anyway, I've seen what divorce can do, and what 50 years of marriage can do. It really depends on the situation.

~Faith~
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• Friday, October 12, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by hebullard
That's a hard question.
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• Saturday, October 13, 2007 - ~ Hello! ~

Posted by SincerelyAmanda
Nice to meet you on HSB, Sarah! You're on Priceless Purity, aren't you?

Hope to hear from you soon!

MAY GOD BLESS,

~Amanda~
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• Saturday, October 13, 2007 - Hey,

Posted by dixiefiddler
Wow! I think I missed a few entries. I hate it when i don't know what's going on. lol.

Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?~ If you are talking about a friendship and not a romatic reationship, I would say yes. It is better to have had that close friendship than nothing. God made love. So it must be pretty good. And if God is love then I'd of rather of had loved someone. Ok. not making sence am I? lol.

I really like everyone else's answers.

Have a blessed day.
Sarah
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• Saturday, October 13, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by soccrchicksta
I think it is better to not have loved at all, because then you know what the thing is, and can't stop thinking about it once you lose it! I have definitely learned this with all the animals I had that had to be taken away because they were aggresive. But, then again, it might be better to love and lose, because then you would have memories of that person/thing. lol I think it really just depends on the situation, really!
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• Sunday, October 14, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CaptainPippinGates
I think...there is no love without pain. I really would love to have someone to love, and I know that I will probably end up hurting at least once or twice before finding my soul mate. I won't find the perfect guy right away, and I know that. But I think it is better to have loved and lost, then not to love at all. Love is an amazing thing. It is something to treasure and cherish for as long as you have it. It's nice to know someone loves you for who you are, appreciates you, cares for you...talks to you on the phone and embraces you in friendship and love. But if you were to never have loved at all, you wouldn't know what you were missing out on.

That's just what I think. =]
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• Sunday, October 14, 2007 - hey

Posted by haffgrim
Strange question Hmm ... i Dunno Really!! So I'm your 500th friend? Awsomeness Well Il ike your blog and thanks for adding me!! : )
Your friend,
Haffgrim.
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• Monday, October 15, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by haffgrim
7 entries 80 coments and 500 friends Nice! When I had seven entries I probably had 10 comments!
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• Monday, October 15, 2007 - Hi!

Posted by nikisnotebook
I noticed I was on your friends list! That is a good question and here is my answer. I think it is better to have loved and lost. The pain of losing someone you love is worth the memories that you will have forever. People always die, but memories don't. The pleasure of loving, outweighs the pain of lose. However, that is just my opinion.
Niki
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• Monday, October 15, 2007 - More on the subject...

Posted by nikisnotebook
Also, if you have never loved, your life would be sad. Picture life without any of the people you love, or life if you didn't love anyone. Your life would be dull and lonely.
Niki
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• Tuesday, October 16, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by kittyqueen
Hi, Im Kitty , thanks for adding me. I was checking this out and I thought I would answer. In a friendship I think it is better to have loved and lost, but in a romantic relationship before marrige, I think that it is better to have never loved. I know this from personal experience, you don't want to live with that sadness, it hurts to much, I wish that I had never loved romantically. I can't believe you already have this many friends!!! You seem really awesome!
Luv,
Miss Kitty
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• Tuesday, October 16, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Earthling
It's by far better to have love and lost than not love at all, IMO. It's really not easy at all, but it's better. It's kind of hard to explain, though. I think it's something if you've gone through it, you know how it feels. It's painful, and it's tough, and sometimes it doesn't feel worth it. But in the long run, I think most people (or at least myself) wouldn't give the love back for anything, even if it was for a short time.
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