If you are a single, homeschooling parent and you are a part of a church that is supporting you in this, would you share how they do it? What does the local body of believers around you do to help you remain at home training up your children?
If you are a church leader (pastor, elder, deacon) and your church is actively supporting one or more single moms to homeschool their children how do you do it? What are you doing to help them? How does it work?
Several years ago, I shared Defending the Fatherless with our pastor at the time, and one of the things that stood out in my mind was that he thought it was a good idea, but didn't know how it would work and was there some example to follow.
I wonder if more churches aren't doing more to help single moms be keepers at home, because they simply don't know how to and they'd like to have ideas of how it works in churches where it is being done.
Please share here or email me directly.
Blessings, MaggieRaye
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MaggieRaye
Some items only have a few days left in the shop -- so now is the time to buy.
Happy Holidays,
MaggieRaye
Because we receive rental assistance, we have to keep the agency notified of household changes - people moving in or out, income, etc. So when LizBeth turned 18, now legally an adult, I notified them to find out how/if this changes anything. It won't, until our lease is up in July. This is a good news/bad news situation. There are no changes yet -- but . . .
When our lease is up, we will no longer be eligible for a 3 bedroom unit, because the rules only allow 1 bedroom for every 2 adults in the home.
The upside of this is that the kids and I have been talking about moving when our lease is up anyway, now it's not a choice, we'll have to move. There is a freedom in this. At the same time there is also a frustration -- we won't be able to have a three bedroom place.
I'm praying for the Lord to do something really amazing that only He could do. By that point I should have my teaching certificate - I plan to do some tutoring as well as homeschool assessments, so we are working toward something that will generate income. We're praying for a piano for LizBeth, to further her own studies as well as to be able to give lessons to other homeschoolers. She's hoping to start taking Ballet lessons soon, so that she might one day be able to teach that also.
So hold onto your hats, I think the next eight months may be a bit of a wild ride.
Blessings, MaggieRaye
Blessings, MaggieRaye
Any of you that have followed my blog for long have known my on going struggle with whether or not Christians should receive welfare. Specifically, I have struggled with whether or not I should be in the system. There is a myriad of voices around me with opinions. The bottom line is that the only opinion that counts is Gods.
Several months ago, I finally, after much prayer, came to a point of resolve about this. I just realized I never shared it here with all of you.
If I were married to an unbelieving husband, he would be my provider. As long as he was willing to stay and did not ask me to do anything in violation of God’s word, I would be obliged to stay. There would always be the chance that by my words and example of faith, that he might come to Christ.
The Lord spoke to my heart about the fact that I had married the government when I went into the system. It was not His best choice for me, but I lacked faith and was disobedient, unwilling to trust Him totally. Until God closes the door and ends our benefits, I am to remain where I am, for this season. This is God’s provision for my family. He wants me to stop struggling and trying so hard to do it on my own and to simply rest in Him.
In all of this, the Lord has answered my prayer for a full-time ministry from home. In my home state the welfare system requires that you be working, looking for work, going to school or volunteering in order to be eligible for benefits. My state homeschool organization qualifies as an acceptable organization to volunteer for. I can work to support homeschooling, ministering to others, while homeschooling my children. It also has given me the opportunity to go back to school and do the necessary work to complete my teaching certificate, not so much for me to be able to seek full time employment, but so that I can do assessments for homeschooling families. There is a seeming lack of homeschool friendly certified teachers in our state. I hear horror stories every year about teachers that did assessments, but really didn’t understand what they were doing or reviewing. The Lord is opening up an amazing door there for me to have an ongoing ministry to homeschooling families, because who understands it better than someone who is doing it every day.
It is my prayer that this season in our life may be coming to an end. It’s going to require a lot more faith and trust than I have now. It’s also going to require contentment with what the Lord provides. It is going to require caring more about the Lord and His leading than what people around me think of what I’m doing. I can’t do it alone. It will only be by His grace and for His glory that we will succeed.
I should add an end note here, that while we have less financial support than every before in our homeschooling, we are able to do so much more with it. It is the kind of thing that only God could do.
Blessings, MaggieRaye
So many things in my life have changed in the past year. Through it one thing remains constant. I NEED to be at home with my children. Yes, they are older, but this is where the Lord has called me to be.
I'm so sad for those who don't understand, or don't want to understand how important it is for all mothers, but especially single mothers to be at home with their children.
So, watch here, and at Gleaning the Harvest for forthcoming articles.
Blessings, MaggieRaye
We've reached the midterm point and I'm on the down hill side of this one.
I talked to a lady this morning who was so encouraging. She said she felt I was an inspiration to her, because she had a hard time homeschooling as a married mom, and couldn't imagine how hard it must be for me. She recognized that it must truly be the Lord's calling, because no one would do this for the fun of it. This was so refreshing.
We're approaching the holidays and the busyness of all of that. How are things with all of you?
Blessings, MaggieRaye
I'm taking one of the two classes that I have left to become a state certified teacher -- no I'm not giving up and going to work, just trying to add credibility to my business and to be able to be a blessing to homeschoolers by providing annual assessments.
I'm working on growing Patchwork Cottage into a viable business -- so far this year we're doing about 4x better than we did last year -- and in a faultering economy. God is so good. I have 10 sewing students and have sold several quilts.
I'm a regular volunteer for our state homeschool organization -- I seem to be busier than ever before and know I'm doing more than the hours that dhhs requires for us at present. Job security is a good thing.
And Facebook has certainly replaced blogging as a major time stealer in my life. It's so easy to just have it up in the background when I am working on business or school related things....
Oh, and I'm homeschooling.
But hey, you all know I'm home all day, every day, so I must have plenty of free time, right??? Bring on the Soaps, diet Coke and BonBon's....
Gosh, I only wish.
How are you doing?
Blessings, MaggieRaye
If I'm going to do everything I'm suppose to as a homeschooling mom and read all these books -- I'm gonna have to get busy, like yesterday.
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Blessings, MaggieRaye