so this has sorta been on my mind and just so's ya'll know, this entry in mainly for girls but if you guys want to read it, go right ahead. I want to see what ya'll say.

So I have a few guy friends who are very well-mannered and gentlemanly-like....most of the time. hehe The weird thing is that, since our culture is so screwy, when a guy opens the door for us girls, or when they give up their seat for you when there aren't alot of chairs in the place, that they 'like' us! Its just something kinda stupid and such that some of us girls think. Sorta stupid because its either some of us think that if you don't pay attention to us at all, you like us, but then if you guys pay attention to us by acting nice then you like us then too! STUPID!!

Girls - when a guy gives up his seat, opens the door, talks politely to you and is being just plain polite, IT DOES NOT MEAN HE LIKES YOU IN THAT WAY! He is a nice guy, being gentlemanly! Also means that he's probably got great parents! :)

It just sorta bugs me when I'm talking to me girlfriends and one of them says "i think *fill in blank*  likes me!" I say "Why do you think that?" they say, "Because he keeps opening the door for me and stuff."

"What?!"

"He's been opening the door, pulling a chair up for me and so on..."

I just sit there kinda like....ooo-kay! this is weird!

hehehe!

ok, so I will leave ya'll to these thoughts! comment! I want to know what ya'll think!!!!!!!

kate