Beware! You are about to enter the head of teenage girl!!!

Hello all and thoughts

Hello to all those reading this!!!!! Sorry I haven't written in forever, but I am here to correct this situation! Beware! Complete BLAH of thoughts are going to come out in this post!

Something that has been on my mind lately......

Item number one - guys should dress and act like guys

Explanation - At my youth and around the town in which I live, there are alot of guys that just don't really dress like guys! No offense to you guys who wear them, but I think skinny jeans on a guy are just kinda silly! This may be a little bold, but in them, ya'll have no secrets, they are really....um....distracting to us girls, and just not very....flattering (for lack of a better word). In my personal opinion, guys should wear loose fitting jeans and shorts. Not so loose fitting that all the world can see your underwear hanging out but loose enough that all world doesn't know how big around your calves and thighs are just by looking at your pants!! And guys, I don't care how "submissive" you are, but you are going to end up trying to show off. Skinny jeans are very restictive...I know this from personal experience! I gave away my only pair because I hated how I couldn't do anything in them!
    All I am saying here is that guys - WEAR GUYS CLOTHING!!!!!!!!!! Don't buy GIRLS pants just so you can show off just how skinny your calves are! Please, wear looser pants....we don't wanna see that! Another thing is that guys should just act like guys! Be masculine - that's a GOOD thing! Girls "like-like" (I can't believe that I am 17 and still say "like-like") guys that are masculine. Just be a guy! I may post the lyrics to one of my favorite songs on here....the song is "I'm Still a Guy" by Brad Paisley. It's a really good song - I love it! :) But it just seems that alot of guys are just not masculine. And, I must admit that we girls are never satisfied....sorry to break it to you guys but a girl likes her guy to be masculine but not too masculine. Being masculine kinda shows us that you are not afraid to get in a fight BUT it has to be for the right reason! We don't want our guys flairing up at everything for goodness sakes, but we like to know that our guy is tough, can get the job done, and is a "Real Man" hahaha! Plus, I am breaking the secret "girls' code at the moment I think, but sometimes, girls play the "damsel in distress" because we like to be saved by our guy or just a guy. If our car breaks down, we may know exactly what is wrong with it and know exactly how to fix it, but if the guy we like is in the car with us, we're not gonna do a thing to let on that we know what to do....that's ya'll's job! :D That is the way we think.....we know that you guys like to be in charge. I don't care how tight your jeans are....if the girl you like is "in distress" *fanfare* you become that perfect Knight in Shining Armor or at least try your hardest to be! :) And girls really like that! :) BUT we aren't going to want to play the "damsel in distress" if we think that you are "masculine enough" to fix it. Being masculine is a very good thing! :) hehe!

Item # two: Girls - leave something up to the imagination!!!!

Explanation: Alot of the girls I see, Christian girls as well, wear immodest clothing that leave nothing to the...er...imagination. Sorry, being blunt again, but some of these shirts some girls wear, I can see straight down their shirts!! I get distracted by their mini-skirts and low-cut shirts - I can't imagine how distracting that must be to guys! Another thing, is that girls should leave something up to a boy's imagination! I know that may sound weird and makes you think "They shouldn't be imagining anything!!!!" But better they imagine it instead of you just showing everything to them!! Girls are always "complaining" about how "guys are such pigs because all they think about it girls' butts and chests" and it bugs some of my girlfriends to no end! It bugs me to no end when a girl walks by in her tiny skirt, itty-bitty, low-cut tanktop and then complains about guys looking at her butt and not recognizing her for an actual person!! Sorry, but THEY CAN'T HELP IT!!!!! Just as girls can't really help it when on the big screen in a movie theater, a buff guy is "showing off his muscles" we can't help but like what we see and we look!! Don't try and deny it, you girls who are reading this post! Admit it! :) That is the way God made us and guys! If you don't want guys "oogling" after you, DON'T SHOW THEM SOMETHING TO OOGLE AT!!!! Wear some longer shorts so that your butt isn't hanging out, cover the cleavage . If there is an "oh so cute" top that you just HAVE to get but it's a bit low cut, get a cami to go with it! Cover 'em up!

Ok - that is my "speal" for now! Post thought...don't be scared....I want to hear ya'll's thoughts on this!!!!

Kate