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May. 16, 2007 - Have you seen Madeleine?

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42884000/jpg/_42884963_maddy203.jpg

Madeleine McCann went missing from her hotel room in Portugal on 3rd May. It is believed she may have been abducted in order to be trafficked for adoption or abuse. Please publicise this photo on your blog or flickr accounts in the hope that someone may recognise her. She has a distinctive right eye flash which may help identify her. The international number for Crimestoppers is +44 1883 731 336 

 

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May. 16, 2007 - Have you seen Madeleine?

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42884000/jpg/_42884963_maddy203.jpg

Madeleine McCann went missing from her hotel room in Portugal on 3rd May. It is believed she may have been abducted in order to be trafficked for adoption or abuse. Please publicise this photo on your blog or flickr accounts in the hope that someone may recognise her. She has a distinctive right eye flash which may help identify her. The international number for Crimestoppers is +44 1883 731 336 

 

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Apr. 14, 2007 - new things for my new toy!

Okay I hve been very delinquent at blogging for FAR TOO LONG!  Must try harder....

I got a new toy today, well, new to me anyway, it's a lightly used second hand Palm Lifedrive and it is very cool.  So I decided to see what cool toys I could install to it and found something very, very cool...
Bible devotional readings from Campus Crusade and a very useful load of stuff to look at over at Olive Tree which has huge shedloads of stuff including some free stuff. 

Also found Sudoku which is reasonably good but I've not quite got the hang of how that one works properly yet (it's different from what I had on my PocketPC) so I just need to find a decent Reader now and I'm all set.  I could use Mobi if it wasn't for the fact that I use Linux on my desktop and Mobi won't work on taht (grump)
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Jan. 10, 2007 - Colossal Clutter Clean up day 1

Looking to the heart

I am by nature a messy critter.  My parents were obsessive about tidiness but somehow it never rubbed off, in fact I wonder if subconsciously I got messy in "rebellion" against them and now it's so ingrained I can't break it so easily.
I am dyslexic and that also adds a dimension to the messies, organisation is not something that many people with dyslexia find easy but that's not a good excuse really is it?  I mean, I can learn "coping strategies" for tidienss the same way I can for other areas taht are affected by my "issues"
but that's not the real issue here is it?  It's my attitude which, to be fair I've been looking at a lot recently, but in God's inimitable way He decided to poke me firmly the way I need to go rather than letting the ruminations fizle out.  You see, Duke and Aprilia are also messy and I have a nasty habit of RESENTING needing to clear their mess and not seeing my own.  Recently though I am slowly starting to wonder something.... I think Duke may also be dyslexic.  He was late talking, very late reading, he's not the most coordinated person in the world, he has no concpet of time or time management, he could not organise a party in a brewery (okay, I've clreaned that prase up out of respect for this being a Christian site!!!!) his handwriting quite frankly is abysmal and he has no concept whatsoever of grammar.... in fact if you were to go down a check list of dyslexic traits the only thing you wouldn't tick is slow reading speed but then he only reads "lightweight" books so maybe that's not even a fair judge.  So, if he's dyslexic then he has just as much of a problem with the whole tidiness issue as I do and has as much RIGHT to being cut slack and given support rather than daggers about it.  Golly, it's taken me 10 years to work through that one!!!!!! 

Thanks Amy!  Now I've shoveled that load of rubbish out of my heart maybe I can start dealing with things as they ARE rather than as I would LIKE them to be!

"Cast your burden on the Lord and He shall sustain you"
Lord I cast this awful burden of anger and resentment away from me and offer up to you my burdens of despair and frustration at the state of my heart and my home.  Sustain me Lord in this task to declutter my life both inside and out.  Lift the weight of my care away from me that I may rise rejoicing in my tasks.  Thank you Lord  Amen.
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Dec. 30, 2006 - thought for the day

Take time to train your children with good habits, by practicing routines together until they can stand on their own. This extra time you take now will pay off later.

from Christian Woman Online Magasine

This is something I NEED to work on.  ROUTINE, ROUTINE ROUTINE!  It should be the backbone of all we do but it's not.  It should be an automatic part of life but it's not.  I know that my dyslexia is part of it, we are known for our shambolic ways aparently! but that's a pot hole in the road to navigate round not a chasm to fall down.

And on the subject of routine, it's 10 mins past her bedtime and even if she is playing on StudyDog (the FREE version.... would love the pay to play version complete with toys but we don't have the £££ and anyway I'm still not sure how good a deal it really is) so I think it's time to try to file her for the night under "d" for duvet naturally ;-)
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Dec. 20, 2006 - randome links I want to re-visit soon (but it's late!)

Christmas links a-go-go

lots of freebie type links

really must get my bookmarks sorted out... wouldn't be surprised if I've got half of the links from those already stowed away somewhere.....
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Dec. 20, 2006 - your challenge (should you wish to accept it...)

is to install TenGo FREE onto your hand held PC thing if you are lucky enough to have one then join the Challenge.... I'm hoping it will make a difference to my ability to take notes at meetings/lectures as dyslexia really slows a gal down at times!
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Nov. 20, 2006 - at the library again!

and I've just found this site.... and of course, I can't download everything I want from it as I only have 1 floppy disk with me so I'm bookmarking it here for the next time (when I will bring Duke's data stick thingie and save the lot!!)

 

Like the look of the language materials and, as we are nominally Montessori via Charlotte Mason with a side order of Sonlight they will come in very useful

 

Internet at home will be back to life by Christmas but unlikely to be sooner than that   so Duke is hunting through is "may be useful one day" cupboard to see if we still have anything as "primative" as a dial up modem to give us limited (if somehwat costly) net access at home.... 5p/minute during the day or 1p after 6pm makes for expensive browsing when you are as much as an adict as the members of our little family!!!!  and we can't answer the phone if we use dial up (sigh... yes, I know it's hardly life threatening but oh you wouldn't believe that if you heard Duke and Aprilia mooning over it!!)

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Nov. 16, 2006 - oddly cut adrift

my ISP has ceased trading leaving me with no broadband and not able to access a "mac code" in order to migrate swiftly and smoothly to another ISP.  I now need to wait something like 3 or 4 weeks for the line to be "released" by the phone compnay before I can take up with any other ISP.

 

At the same time my 2 best friends have gone on holiday for 2 weeks so not only is it a challenge to keep up with my net friends, my real ones are off limits too.

 

Ho hum!  Life goes on....  We ar currently at the library making use of the free hour of net access we are allowed there.  Actually it's sort of nice really as Aprilia is sat on the next PC to me enjoying a bit of Cebeebies and Starfall whislt I try to catch up on mail and so on.

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Nov. 11, 2006 - PLEASE WEAR A POPPY


"Please wear a poppy," the lady said
  And held one forth, but I shook my head.
  Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there,
  And her face was old and lined with care;
  But beneath the scars the years had made
  There remained a smile that refused to fade.

  A boy came whistling down the street,
  Bouncing along on care-free feet.
  His smile was full of joy and fun,
  "Lady," said he, "may I have one?"
  When she'd pinned it on he turned to say,
  "Why do we wear a poppy today?"

  The lady smiled in her wistful way
  And answered, "This is Remembrance Day,
  And the poppy there is the symbol for
  The gallant men who died in war.
  And because they did, you and I are free -
  That's why we wear a poppy, you see."

  "I had a boy about your size,
  With golden hair and big blue eyes.
  He loved to play and jump and shout,
  Free as a bird he would race about.
  As the years went by he learned and grew
  and became a man - as you will, too."

  "He was fine and strong, with a boyish smile,
  But he'd seemed with us such a little while
  When war broke out and he went away.
  I still remember his face that day
  When he smiled at me and said, Goodbye,
  I'll be back soon, Mom, so please don't cry."

  "But the war went on and he had to stay,
  And all I could do was wait and pray.
  His letters told of the awful fight,
  (I can see it still in my dreams at night),
  With the tanks and guns and cruel barbed wire,
  And the mines and bullets, the bombs and fire."

  "Till at last, at last, the war was won -
  And that's why we wear a poppy son."
  The small boy turned as if to go,
  Then said, "Thanks, lady, I'm glad to know.
  That sure did sound like an awful fight,
  But your son - did he come back all right?"

  A tear rolled down each faded check;
  She shook her head, but didn't speak.
  I slunk away in a sort of shame,
  And if you were me you'd have done the same;
  For our thanks, in giving, if oft delayed,
  Thought our freedom was bought - and thousands paid!

  And so when we see a poppy worn,
  Let us reflect on the burden borne,
  By those who gave their very all
  When asked to answer their country's call
  That we at home in peace might live.
  Then wear a poppy! Remember - and give!

  by Don Crawford

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Oct. 27, 2006 - Dominos, Bingo and Snap

well, it's a novel way of teaching rote learning tasks but it's working!  Enchanted Learning have a whole raft of different dominos (numbers, shapes, colours etc) Jan Brett has some flash card type things for number bonds that I made into snap cards and School Bell do some really good number and Dolch word flash cards and bingo sets.  All in all it's less stress than workbooks, less boring than reciting endlessly and, all being free resources ready to print from the net, muych less cost to me!

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Oct. 19, 2006 - big Brother is alive and residing in the European Court of "human rights"

Forwarded from a UK based home education (home schooling) list

A Brussels Journal (http://www.brusselsjournal.com/node/1389) has
announced that on 11 September, the European Court of Human Rights ruled to uphold the Nazi ban on homeschooling. You can find it on the court's website at www.echr.coe.int/ehcr - click on Case Law then on List of Recent Decisions,and find Konrad & others v Germany.

Here's the gist of what the reports say, together with what I've learned from a few other sources:

Although home education has been illegal in Germany ever since Hitler banned it in 1938, Fritz and Marianna Konrad have recently sought to challenge the law in the EU court of Human Rights. The European court decided to support an earlier German verdict which stated that homeschooling ran
counter to 'the general interest of society' since it could lead 'the emergence of parallel societies based on SEPARATE PHILOSOPHICAL CONVICTIONS.' In
order to prevent families raising their children with philosophical convictions separate to that of the state, the EU has said the right to education 'by its very nature calls for regulation by the State.'

The Konrad's complaint, which was originally filed with the EU court in 2003, appealed to Article 2 of Protocol No. 1 of the European Convention on
Human Rights. The article states that,

"No person shall be denied the right to education. In the exercise of any functions which it assumes in relation to education and to teaching, the State shall respect the right of parents to ensure such education and teaching is in conformity with their own religious and philosophical convictions."

Mr. and Mrs. Konrad argued that Germany's compulsory school attendance conflicted with this statute, in so far as the education being given to
their children was not in conformity to their own religious and philosophical convictions.

The EU did not uphold the parents' complaint. To summarise their ruling:

(A) The freedoms guaranteed to parents in Article 2 of Protocol No. 1 of the European Convention on Human Rights cannot be carried out to the extent that it denies a person the right to education.

(my comment... okay, so you aren't allowed to keep your daughter ignorant cos all she's good for is marrying off to good advantage and giving you grandbabies once she's big enough and if she got an education she may get "ideas above her station." I can live with that...)

(B) The definition of 'right to education' necessarily excludes home-schooling.

(because....?)

(C) Therefore, by definition, every person that is home-educated is not educated.

(nope, sorry, my poor, school educated brain isn't following this one....)

(D)Therefore, the freedoms guaranteed to parents in Article 2 of Protocol No. 1 of the European Convention on Human Rights to not apply to
home-schoolers.

(so we don't have the same rights as a family with, for example, a child sent to a "faith school" who *can* chose which social values and religion code is taught then?)

To support the idea that home-education is not education, the court made a curious distinction between 'knowledge' and 'education':

'Not only the acquisition of knowledge, but also the integration into and first experience with society are important goals in primary school
education. . those objectives cannot be equally met by home education even if it allowed children to acquire the same standard of knowledge as
provided for by primary school education.'

(by which I assume this eminent body thinks that we totally isolate our children from the world, never allowing them to mix with "normal" people - people who conform to the philosophies and values of the State - and of course, putting 30 children under the control of 1 or maybe 2 authority figures is an excellent way to introduce them to society.... becuase of course, they will all grow up to be good little obedient, unthinking worker bees under the authority of Those-Who-Know-Better whereas our poor, un-educated mites won't understand that you just get on with whatever you are told and don't dare ask questions

And whilst I'm feeling bolshy what's this "even if it allowed
children to acquire the same standard of knowledge as provided for by primary school education." I love the way they subtly suggest that it's probably not as good without saying so, "even if" hey? I suspect that I am providing a much wider foundation for my child's education to be built on than any State school in this country, in fact, I don't suspect, I KNOW!)

Dr. Allan Carlson, president of the World Congress of Families said,

'The ban [on homeschooling in Germany] was instituted by the Nazis and it's a device worthy of the Nazis.'

Mr. Carlson was particularly concerned that 'German courts ruled that it was in the children's best interests to be indoctrinated in the
prevailing social order - in other words, to be imbued with what the state considers the correct social values.'
'Hitler himself said that only the state had the right to direct children's education so that youth would be taught the ideology of National Socialism'
Mr. Carlson continued. 'How ironic that a Europe which prides itself on tolerance and diversity has embraced an instrument for social control devised by the Nazis.'

It has just pointed out to me in an email that it is chilling how they subtly change the wording "in the interests of public safety, for the protection of public order, health or morals" to "in the public interest" which could be used to justify just about anything in the noble cause of religious persecution. They also assume as fact that children are unable to develop as citizens without the state's constant help.

More worryingly, it has been pointed out, it shows that if our own government (in the UK) should
turn hostile to home education (which is quite possible given its increasing profile and the antipathy in some quarters towards religious
'fundamentalism') then we can expect no help from Europe.


Further comments

I'm very, very concerned about this. Not just that our right to educate our children in a way we see fit can be brushed aside by the very people who are supposed to DEFEND our human rights but in the way these same people think that it is not just okay but essential that the State can be allowed to ensure that our children are taught exactly what moral standards and values it choses. I'm sure I remember something like that in Orwell's book 1984 you know, along with control of who makes babies, who does what job and, oh yes, what you think about everything.

I'd emegrate somewhere outside the EU but alas, I have an accident prone child and just for now our health service is free....

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Oct. 14, 2006 - Quotation from the inaugural speach of Nelson Mandela

  • Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate
  • Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
  • It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
  • We ask ourselves: who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
  • Actually, who are you not to be?
  • You are a child of God.
  • Your playing small doesn't serve the world.
  • There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that
  • other people won't feel insecure around you.
  • We are all meant to shine as children do.
  • We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
  • It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone!
  • And as we let our light shine, we
  • unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
  • As we are liberated from our own fear,
  • our presence automatically liberates others!
If Aprilia learns this then i will have done everything I ever need to do....

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Oct. 11, 2006 - relaxed home education

or is it too lazy to fight about it education?  Either way, most of our education recently has been of the spontaneous variety.  Puzzle books are done roughly 2 or 3 times a week, handwriting even less.  Stories, however, are still a firm 6 or 7 days a week!  Twice a day sometimes!  So she's learning.  She's learning about life "in the big woods" of Wisconsin with Laura Ingells Wilder and loving it.  She's learning about the Home Front from casual conversations with Grandpa who grew up in Stockport in the war and from little books and images I've collected on the subject.  She's learning about map reading from our rather lovely collection of wall maps - one of the world, one of Europe and one of Great Britain.  She's laerning that Mummy doesn't always have the answer but will usually try to find it.

She's not learning much about words and numbers and you know what?  I'm not unduely worried!

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Sep. 30, 2006 - week 2? or is it 3?

Think it's 3...

We aren't manageing full weeks here for 1 reason or another but we are still marching on.

Currently I am reading the Little House in the Big Wood and The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe for her fiction books and we are still grinding through the Usbourne encycleopedia (must do some abreviations in the side bar so I dont' need to keep typing those out!!!)  We do enjoy the "literary aproach" and it seems to waltz us through so much general knowlege that I feel she's getting at least as much of an education, if not more, than some more formal aproaches.

Lots of subtraction has been done using base 10 blocks - I did intend to do it with C Rods as I thought it would give a much better visual but she's much happier with counting out cubes and hey, she's only 5 and isn't the whole point of home ed that you can go with the flow and do things differently :lol:

Reading is plodding on slowly.  She can easily read CVC words and some 4 letter words but is totally lacking in confidence.  That's my gal though, she'll wait until she can do it perfectly then spring it on me :roll:

Handwriting this week has been tied in with our Bible memory verse of Hebrew 13:8 and a jolly little song based round the verse.  Not sure about her but I can remember it now!!!  She can certainly sing the song which is close enough for me.

The Home Front lapbook is nearly done and on Monday we are going to visit the air-raid shelter museum near us.  It's where my dad went during the raids and his father was a Red Cross VAD worker down there so it's family history and national history combined.  I'm hoping to get enough photos etc to fill the final bit of her book, I hate having blank spaces!!

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Sep. 25, 2006 - as a favour to a friend....

 would you all mosey on down to here and take a look at her book.  If you click on preview you get to read the first few chapters (which are short) so you get a flavour of the book.  It is a "happy ever after" kinda thing with the hero saving the (Fairy) world despite being Downs but it's not a bad read.  Aprilia had a sneak preview of it last year adn really enjoyed it.

There, commercial break over....

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Sep. 16, 2006 - week 1

well, week 1 of the new school year is done.  The highlights were a day in the forest wtih our books, the "lowlights" being that she's just not wanting to get back into the puzzlebook and reading routine.

Monday (or maybe even tomorrow) I'm going to introduce the idea of a memory verse, actually there will be a small degree of cheating going on as it will be a sing-along-a-memory-verse so probably not word for word acurate to the Bible but close enough for Truth and a 5 year old!  I'm using Ishmael's 52 Scripture song CD which we have had hanging round for YEARS and am also thinking of using the week's verse as copywork for our handwriting practice as SL's handwriting seems so pointless (write your name 3 times a day, then your address.....) but I don't want to fork out £££ on a "Christian handwriting scheme" when I have a Bible and a printer!!!!  Actually the first week's song is a sumary of what makes up the Bible (how many books, how many years it spans etc) which is a bit long for copy work so she's getting a "stay of execution" on that one ;-) but we'll sing it each day anyway for a "warm up" to the real thing!!!

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Sep. 6, 2006 - who would have thought it?

Well, okay, probably most of you already KNOW this but I didn't.....

Sitting at a table for your meal is really very civilised and makes a lovely family coming together sort of pause in the day!  No Duke absently shoveling food in with his head stuck in a book, no Aprilia absently shoveling food in whilst glued to the TV, no spilt drinks on the floor.  Hey, they even looking like they may have noticed what was in front of them!!!

I've just bought our first ever dining table and chairs, plus a special chair for Aprilia so she can reach the table better!   Okay, not that easy on the eye but functional, within my limited budget and wipe clean.  I'm saving up for nicer chairs to match Aprilia's once we can work out where to keep them between meals (small kitchen!)

Actually what struck me most was that we all sat there for a while afterwards and Aprilia sat longer still munching an apple chatting to me (yes, through a mouthful of apple, one good habit at a time!!!) whilst I stacked the dishwasher and sorted the washing making my "chores" fly by so much more pleasantly.

So, that's it, from now on we are a TV dinner free zone!  and a TV breakfast free zone!  and Aprilia has her first official "household job" in setting out the table before each meal. 

I'm feeling very happy in a muffin-y sort of way ;-)

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Sep. 2, 2006 - it doesn't seem so long ago

I'm sure it was only 5 minutes ago I was blogging our end of year report but summer is almost over and already the new school year comes a creeping up on me!  Next week we are officially "getting ready to start again" and the week after I want to sally forth into the year.

I've got more than enough resources for the academic side of things, PE all planned out and just need to get some music books for our violins.  So that's the expensive side of the year covered!  Next week DH is setting up dd with an internet connection and a firewall that will let VERY SELECT sites through only!  This will give her something useful to play with whilst we are having our "down time" from each other each day (we need it!!!)  I just need now to work out how it will all fit together.

I'm thinking of a day something like this...

Get up, wash, dress.
Whilst I make breakfast dd sets table
EAt and clear table
Chores
Stories and drinks
Puzzle books and reading
PE
Music or crafts now or after lunch
Lunch
Down time
???? maybe projects or cooking or something?
Daddy home!

Looks like an awful lot but she is one of those "high needs" critters who need attention and lots of it otherwise she gets into all sorts of srcapes.

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Aug. 8, 2006 - singin the blues

got that non-specific blues thing going on here.  No idea why but i really wish it would go away.  Off camping with friends at the weekend and hoping that might blow the cobwebs away a bit.

really need to get a grip

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