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• Jan. 3, 2008 - Choosing God’s Game Plan for the New Year

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I was raised in a home where my dad watched every football game, basketball game, and baseball game known to man. I used to do football picks with my dad and brother and I would win! I understand the games basically, I’ve played them a little…I managed to letter in basketball…only because I attended a small Christian high school and I was one of the tallest girls on the team. Anyway, since marrying my husband, I have found a new life. Instead of watching sports on the weekends, we enjoy old movies. We don’t usually care about modern made movies, but we heard so much about "Facing the Giants" last year, I decided I’d go ahead and buy that someday…when I could find it on sale.

Finally purchasing it on sale, we watched it last night. Quite frankly, I was disappointed at first. It was about a losing football team at a Christian high school that was more interested in winning at all costs. I grew up with this type of mentality. I am usually gripped by worldly sports movies more…I guess because I expect them to be worldly. I did not want to watch a Christian high school being worldly. But I was soon to discover that that was the point! Coach finally got it…God’s game plan that works for football as well as in life. This, I now understand, was what everyone was talking about when the movie first came out.

I wish I had a notepad and pencil while watching the movie, because of the incredible comments my kids made. When coach faced a mountain of discouragement, he turned to the Bible. That startled all of us (of course, we are used to the worldly movies) and 14yod commented, "Good, he didn’t turn to alcohol." Hmmmmm, in how many other movies does the despairing victim turn to alcohol?

Then when coach gave the team the new game plan, we were all excited and 12yos commented something profound, which rang something along the lines of…that is the only way anyone can deal with any problem. It works for all people, for all times, for all purposes.

We shared the same favorite characters…"Joking Duo" and the guy dd dubbed…"Lollipop Man". ;)

Then when we heard the title of the movie in the dialouge at the end of the movie, the kids and I all got excited…that’s how we learned to write with Institute for Excellence in Writing. Truly, this story was well written…in my opinion, something that is seriously lacking in Hollywood today. That is one reason why we watch old-fashioned movies as the norm. I seem to recall this being discussed in Christian circles when the movie first came out.

Then we watched all the special features. This is something I look for when I buy DVDs. I love all that additional information and so do the kids. DH might go along for the ride on this, but he usually finds them fun and interesting too. I had forgotten that this movie was the dream of a church in Georgia to use as a ministry outreach. Coach’s new game plan from God, was the same philosophy of this church in producing this movie…facing the giants of modern liberal media. And like the shepherd boy David who faced his giant, God proved Himself powerful!

This is a great movie to watch at any time. But perhaps in the time of year most known for goal setting, watching this story reminds us of God’s game plan for our lives. No goal is attainable without God’s game plan. And when we face our own giants, we need to remember we serve a big God.

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• Jan. 2, 2008 - New Year's Resolution

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To me the New Year is a fresh start. Time to put all the clutter from holiday decor and festivities away.  Time to dust all those hidden areas.  Time to make everything fresh and clean like the snow I see in pictures.  It's also a reflective time for me. Where have I been? Where does God want me to go?  What does He want me to work on in my life?

Like everyone, I have the usual goals for the new year...if I were to break them down, I think they would go under the goal of better organizing.  I have some good habits in hand, but at this stage of my homeschooling career...I'm swamped!  I thought children would become less maintenance as they grew up!  I don't think so!  A case in point...a few weeks ago my son came to me and said his flonase nasal spray was empty.  The refills had expired, and the script was so old it should have been refilled last spring.  Hmmmmm, what in the world happened?  I used to be so on top of the meds.  When he was a baby, I had to keep a calorie journal, SI journal, and keep track of 10+ asthma meds and inhalers, along with all of his medical appointments.  I was really on top of things.  What happened?

Now to call in the hospital for one of the docs to write a new script for a med is no easy task at our base...where they have made things so "efficient" I pull my hair out every time I have to deal with their inefficiency.  A few months before I had to call in a refill for myself and I was told on the voice mail they would only accept messages between 9am-4pm on business days, and they had 72 business hours to get back to us.  Then we have to wait even longer for the nurse to get the paperwork to the doc and wait around a few days for the doc to get around to signing it.  Sigh. What to do when your son really needs his allergy med...just call it in and wait and trust God and hope He grants mercy on not being more organized. 

A few days later the nurse called and asked when was he last seen?  The day before Thanksgiving.  Why the wait on the med?  Because I'm not as organized now that my children are 12 and 14 and have assumed independence.  When they were little and I was in complete control...I was organized.  The nurse laughed and said..."Honey, it won't get any better once they grow up and leave the house...it will get worse!"  Yikes! 

So now you know...one thing I need to organize is our massive medicine closet in our little storage of a house...

I like the idea a Sunday School teacher presented years ago...a balanced look at New Year's Resolutions.  He prayed about one specific goal in different areas:  social, mental, spiritual and physical. 

While contemplating various areas in my life, I got something interesting in my e-mail box.  Has anyone seen the Christmas movie, "The Christmas Box" with Richard Thomas (John Boy) and Maureen O'Hara?  It was based on a book written by Richard Paul Evans as a Christmas gift for his daughters.  Family and friends read it and told him to get it published.  This book is part of a trilogy.  We have the sequel, Timepiece, which is really the prequel.  I also have both books, which are super easy reads.  I never did get the third book.  His other books sound wonderful.  About the only books I pay full price for are curriculum books I just can't get at bargain prices...since we use tons of books.  But I've been meaning to purchase his other books...to read in all my free time.  (What's that?)  

Well, anyway, here's a copy of the latest newsletter I got from him.

Dear Reader, 2006 was my year of pain. 2007 was my year of growth. 2008 will be my year of gratitude. I've decided to keep a gratitude journal, reminding myself every day of the blessings of my life. I am grateful to my Heavenly Father for all He has given me, even the painful experiences that allow me to stretch (ugh) and grow. I invite you to join me in keeping a gratitude journal this year, to kill our personal demons of entitlement and to truly develop a spirit of gratitude so that we may more fully love God and all His children and receive the gifts He has for us. I'd also love to hear from you, how your journal and new attitude has affected your life.

Hmmmm, sounds like a wonderful idea.  I think I'll close with a quote he had on his newsletter..."There are none so impoverished as those who do not acknowledge the abundance of their lives."

www.richardpaulevans.com

 

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• Jan. 1, 2008 - New Year's Eve

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Every New Year's Eve we have snack and game night.  Whoever wins the game gets to write their name in the box lid next to the year.  Now that we have accumulated so many games, the kids and I want to sqeeze in as many as possible.  DH however couldn't stand the idea of playing games all day and all night.  The kids and I think it's fun.  Besides I still had this cold and didn't feel like being too active so I got caught up on some blog reading in the morning while dh washed the vehicles.  Finally, after lunch, I told the kids we could play games and to invite their dad.  I guess he just could't resist.  ;)

Our first game was chosen by dd.  Surprisingly, she chose "Hail to the Chief."  I thought she'd choose one of her favorites, one of our many geography games.  I bought this game for ds a few years ago, knowing he had a goal to one day be president, to restore traditional values to our country.  At one point, a question about Teddy Roosevelt came up.  DH ran and got his book on TR to reference some information.  Now dh is not into books.  This book is a tome!  My brother, who is a history buff, found out dh was a fan of TR.  So 8 years ago, he bought this book for him.  We all laughed when we saw it, because dh just doesn't enjoy reading books.  But this book he truely enjoys.  He simply has not had time to devour it.  He's had USAF work, college, house remodels...and tons of pages to read.  But he has faithfully plunkered through and is nearing the end.  There might be a few hundred pages left!  LOL  

The object of this game is to answer questions about presidents, while accumulating enough delegate votes to be the party candidate.  After that we can go through the states, accumulating necessary electoral votes to win the race.  Once we have enough votes, it is a race to the White House.  The first one who has enough votes and moves across the board and uses the exact number of dots on the dice to land in the White House is the President.  Second place is VP.  DS usually wins this game.  This year we have new winners!  DH became President and I became VP!  What a team!

The winner picks the next game.  So dh picked Wheel of Fortune.  I forgot to take a picture of this game...which I won, while playing Vanna White and turning letters.

I knew this might be the only winning game for me...so I picked my favorite, Scrabble.  DH detests this game...and he won!  Not only that, I played all the large words, yet he won with small words using rare letters on double letter and triple word spaces.  We like to play to the end anyway, trying to use up our letters.  Only 2 were left, "j" and "g".  Can you find a space for them?

Then we played Colonial Williamsburg.  I bought this when we visited a few years ago and it's a favorite with the kids.  The game brings back lots of fond memories and reviews lots of great history.  Again, dh won this game.

By now, it was time for dinner.  We usually have more of our Christmas snacks.  

Cheese, meat and crackers...and shrimp...

Cheese sticks...tamales...

Sweets...

I could not believe dh's plate of food he had arranged.  It was just too much.  Well, actually I could believe it. This is what I've been trying to tell y'all in these last few months.  He's the one who likes everything just so.  He would just love it if I made all these foods I pictured above look show stopping gorgeous.  If I did that I would not have a life.  Dh wants me to have a life; he expects me to whip these out beautfully in nanoo seconds.  Here is his perfect, formal, perfectly arranged, New York Citified Metropolitan plate...

 

This is my simple, down to earth, country, low carb, "let me have a life" plate...(yes, he knows I'm sharing this info ;) 

Now you know why I go ballistic when he starts another remodel during the holiday season.  He likes me to have the house looking like plate #1 while he keeps hauling in his tools and materials and making it look more like plate #2.  Okay, don't get me started on this...

While eating his perfectly arranged food, dh had to watch a movie.  We pulled out a favorite, "Bachelor Mother".  This was made in the 40's I think, starring Ginger Rogers and David Niven.  She is a single lady who works in David Niven's department store, selling miniature Donald Ducks.  She loses her job.  A guy on the floor talks her into joining him in a dance contest (it's fun to watch her dance even without Fred Astaire) While walking down the street, she sees a lady leaving a baby on the steps of the foundling home.  She rushes over and picks up the baby and takes him in...but the foundling home people think she is the mother. They go to her boss, David Niven, to discuss how to help this poor unwed mother.  Niven gives her back her job and gives her a pay raise.  Niven, meanwhile, is a bachelor, out every night with a different gal, home late...and his father is desperately trying to settle him down.  In the end, the baby ends up with a wonderful mother and father...and it is funny to watch the baby's expressions while watching Rogers and Niven banter back and forth.  

After that, we played Life.  This is not my favorite game, because there is no logic.  I would never make some of the choices forced upon me by the roll of the dice.  Once again, dh won this game.

By now it is 10pm and we are all getting sleepy.  But we let the kids stay up...the fireworks are going off outside so sleep is impossible.  Might as well stay up and play games.  To help us stay awake, dh chose Jenga. 

I know there is a physics lesson built into this game...I'm just not up to speed on the subject.  But this tower is built with layers of rectangular blocks, 3 to each level lying perpendicular to each other.  You try to push out one and put it on top.  Hmmmm, this is hard to describe...maybe I can show you.

Here is ds pulling out one which he needs to place on top...

Here's another one getting pushed out...

Taking out another one...oh did I mention this thing gets wobbly!  The loser is the one who makes it topple!

Here I am trying to be ever so careful...

You have to imagine this thing getting wobbly...it can blow any minute now...

Uh oh...it's looking a lot like the Leaning Tower of Pisa...

Uh oh...that's the end of that tower.  We played 4 rounds, so each of us could start.  The difference in our technique was interesting.  DH and dd are very global; ds and I are sequential.  DD and I are very careful, usually going for the middle of the 3 pieces in the layer, to keep the foundation sturdy.  The guys are more gutsy and prefer to go after the outside pieces, making the tower more precariously prone to fall.  The kids and dh can be completely reckless.  Yes, even dd.  There are times she just goes for it and doesn't try to be careful...but it usually holds together.  I, however, am ever so gentle and careful.  So who won...I did!  I was the only one who never let it fall.

So I picked the final game, my new favorite.  I bought it for ds this Christmas.  Blokus.  It's gotten played a lot since Christmas, mostly without me. DH and ds have been taking turns winning the game. The day after Christmas I was so out of it I just laid on the couch with the cat and dozed and watched tv while they played.  I must admit I was jealous, but I simply didn't feel good.  When I finally got a chance to play, I kept losing, but it was so addictive, I had to try.  Then dh and ds got into blocking each other and that diverted ds's attention from getting me...and I was easily winning.  Tonight however, dh won the game.  

This year was highly unusual for dh to win so many games.  The last two years it's been mostly ds winning with a game apiece for the rest of us.   

By then it was time for the New Year.  I usually buy blowers and pop confetti between Christmas and New Years.  But where have I been all this time?  Here at home feeling yucky!  I didn't even think about it until dinner!  Oh well. 

Happy New Year Everyone!

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Gardens thrill my soul. My senses awaken, my soul is refreshed, my mood calms down...and if given time for quiet ponder, I've enjoyed the sound of buzzing bees while collecting pollen, the delightful croak of shy Mr. Toad, the exuberant flutter a hummingbird near my face thanking me for scrumptious flowers, and the gentle touch of the butterfly who settles on my shoulder. I've been known to walk into the house with my hair showered in lavender crepe myrtle blossoms and my clothes covered in blue plumbago blooms. Picture a rustic wrought iron bistro set with floral cushions and gingham pillows under a crepe myrtle dripping in blooms. I've set out some tea. Come and sit with me while I catch you up on the latest of the happenings in my family. Welcome to my garden.




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