Well after much prayer and a year on the waiting list, we finally got Jarek's evaluations done at the Easter Seals Rehabilitation Center. We now have an "official" diagnosis and a plan of action.
Sensory Processing Disorder and ADHD combined type. We have started occupational therapy to help with some of the sensory issues, and after another appointment with the family doctor we have a prescription for adderall. We have not started the prescription yet, but plan on doing that today.
I have really had to pray about the ADHD prescription. I have read sooooo much about parents not wanting to "drug" their children. And I respect any parent who makes that decision. But I expect the same for those of us who choose to use the medication.
I believe I used to feel guilty about medication because I had the notion that it was for MY benefit. I felt like I was asking for ADHD medication because I was going insane and needed help. And that made me feel like a bad parent.
But I have come to understand that this medication is for my child's benefit. He can use the medication to help him gain control of his actions, to be able to concentrate and LEARN.
So we will try this and see what happens. If God tells us to do something different in the future, we will be open to His leading.
Aug. 30, 2008 - That is hard.
My boys both have Aspergers, ADHD and the little one also has Tourettes. It was really hard to make the decision to medicate, but it has been so helpful for both boys.
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I used to feel the same way about meds, but I got to the point where I realized we were doing Spaz no favors by keeping him off it. Unfortunately, I think we waited too long. He is currently not on meds as he hated the "crash" (which happened w/several diff types) and he is old enough to refuse to take it. I have read that adderall is a much better med than ritalin & concerta, and was told by the Dr that it would not be as likely to cause a crash. It did, but I really think that part of it w/Spaz was that he already had his mind made up that he wasn't going to like any ADHD med. (Note- I still want to try straterra & the new vyvanse, but am trying to talk him into it.) So you are wise to start Jarek early-- and that is coming from a former anti-med mom who has learned by experience! I have come to realize that yes, maybe no meds is the ideal, but sometimes you have to put aside ideals and do what works, for the sake of your kid (and your sanity). I mean, how much do we live up to our ideals in other areas? So why be idealistic about that?
Glad you finally got a diagnosos and can start *doing* something. Blessings to you as you travel that road!
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