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May. 31, 2006

Good Old Fashioned Road Trip, But With 5 Boys.........

Once we were on the road to the campout I felt so pleased with myself, and the joy factor in the suburban, from the boys, was brimming over the top. I felt quite accomplished to have packed for 6 of us. Well, the boys were a huge help, and we made a list of all that we needed.Then the boys strategically gathered all the things that were on the list.

Now we have gone to many many campouts, but since this was the first one we were going to without the expert packer, things were a little askew in the vehicle. You see Den has it down to a science on how everything fits. The boys, on the other hand, had a different perspective, which was if you could shove, squeeze or pack it in then we were good to go. I allowed them to be in charge of this, with the small advice that biggest and heaviest items should go in first. Ohhhh.... I should have said more.

By the time I grabbed Roman, diaper bag, my purse and headed out to the vehicle I could scarcely find room for the baby. Luckily, the baby seat remains in the vehicle at all times or I am sure we would have had to strap him to the luggage rack on top.

Surprisingly, three of the 5 boys were all the way in the back row. I was a little bewildered by this, considering they had to strattle, hurdle, and climb over everything in the second row only to have to nose dive into the backseat. However, I had the inclination that none of them wanted to sit next to the baby, to have to be responsible for binky flinging recovery. You see, Roman has learned a new trick, which is you put in my pacifier, I pull it out, throw it, and you find it. He loves this game, but the playmate is less than thrilled. So, needless to say, Roman's side passengers were sleeping bags, pillows, diaper bag, and honestly I don't know what else. I do believe there was a crockpot rolling about in the second row as well though.

We had to stop at Wal-Mart to get a few lingering items, so in order for everyone to pile out of the third row, there was a lot of grunting and groaning involved, and when the door came bursting open so did some other belongings onto the paved ground below. This is when I made it clear that things were going to be moved towards the back, and a living being would actually be sitting beside the baby.

Once we got back on the road, with some sense of rhyme and reason to the seating arrangement, we turned up the tunes and off we went down the highway. Now I am a with-it mom, or I like to think so, but some music from my boys repetoire just doesnt suit me, but on this occasion I decided to pull out all the stops. We cranked up some music that got the suburban a rocking and rolling down the highway. The boys were singing at the top of their lungs, and I would smile and act like I knew the next line right along with me. It was at this time that I shot a look into my rearview mirror, to which I could see Abram had a serious look on his face, and he was trying to get my attention. So I turned down the music, to the others boys impatience, and said, "Hang on boys. Abram, what do you need honey?"

He said, "Mom, It's okay if you bump into Jesus right?"

With a puzzled look on my face I respond with, "What?"

Again, he says, " Isn't it okay to bump into Jesus? I mean God won't be mad right?"

The boys and I give each other a little sideway glance, and I say, "Ummm yeah, I guess so."

He says, "Well God can't be mad, because HE made him invisible."

I chuckle heartily and I say, " That's right baby, I wouldn't worry about it."

Isaiah laughs contagiously now and says, "That Abram!"

I give him a huge smile and say, "Okay now let's be quiet and just listen to some music okay?"

He agrees. So we crank up the music again, and I glance back in my rearview mirror and Mr. Serious is now able to relax and enjoy the music with the rest of us. There is nothing like a good old fashioned road trip with just me and my boys.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. (Titus 2:3-5)

 

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May. 31, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by momto3blessings
Too funny! If I asked the boys to pack the van im sure it would be chaos. Cute of Abram. These little kids have the funniest thoughts sometimes.
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Jun. 1, 2006 - Faith like a child

Posted by KK30514
I'm so amazed when my son says things such as that. It makes my heart jump, twirl, and do loops! I read so many blogs here and see so many happy...huge families! I wish so badly that I had 5 boys! What amazing fun and great times! God has blessed you so much! I pray and pray that my husband will come around to desiring more than just our one son. He's been the pure angel of my life and I wish sooo badly for more blessings (and the means to support them).

I'm so proud of you for your composure and Godliness in your travel, it takes a lot to overcome and act as you did. There are 5 angels that learned a very unspoken lesson on this trip. You can teach without saying a word.

I loved the part about the baby! What true statements... I can just see the little thoughts going on as they are loading the van.... "Hey... who's gonna sit by the baby?" "Not me, you do it." "No, let's make Abram do it." "Nahhh... I got it.... check this out.... we load all of the stuff in so tight that he has to sit by the sleeping bags." "YEAH... you're so smart." "hehehehe". Until WISE mom figures this one out and makes other arrangements. "Ahhhhh, well there's always the trip home!"

Kimberly
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Jun. 1, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Sounds like you had fun in the midst of a rough time :). I've been reading your blog for some time and have really enjoyed getting to know you and your family. I just wanted to ask for your prayers this week... I'm in the process of writting all my final papers (35+ pages together) for college and am feeling quite ill. So if you think of it pray both for health and dilegence for me! And thanks for sharing your thoughts on life with such joy!

<>< Julie (www.xanga.com/julesinpink)
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Jun. 1, 2006 - Heehee!

Posted by friends4tea
Trina, you have quite a sense of humor! You've got great story telling abilities. I love reading your funnies. So sorry your trip wasn't what it was suppossed to be. I must say, I really dislike camping. Why leave the wonderful comforts of your home to a place of doom in the woods? I think it's a boy thing. Good for you for sticking it out!

So glad you're back!!!
~Leah
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Jun. 1, 2006 - I LOVE comments..hehehe

Posted by trinaleah
Cheryl: Yeah, I think I will leave the packing to the expert next time....lol

Kiimberly: Well I believe in the power of prayer, so you keep that up and you will have your own van load of children, lickety split! ((((Hugs))) Thanks for stopping by, I would love to get to know you better, so come back again.

Julie: I wil drop everything and say a prayer for you. It sounds overwhelming. ((hugs))
I tried your site address and it didnt work for me or I would have popped by. Just know I will be thinking of you today though.

Leah: 5 boys is a kick, so I laugh alot! I like to camp, but I'm sure that the Lord kept that in mind when he decided to bless me with a house full of testosterone! LOL
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Jun. 1, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by TheStonePile
Sounds like a wonderful time! I can't wait to hear more. :)
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Jun. 1, 2006 - Awww

Posted by Anonymous
You are so blessed! I'm glad you got to spend time with all of your boys (including your husband, lol)

Hugs,
Dawn
http://ablondeandherblog.blogspot.com
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Jun. 1, 2006 - Isn't it funny what they come up with!

Posted by ThreeLittleLadies
I really got a kick out of the pacifier story and Abram's comment! Did you ask him why he was so worried about that?! What a hoot!
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Jun. 1, 2006 - So sweet!

Posted by kindredspiritMom
Your boys sound great! I love the "bumping into Jesus" question. Sounds like you may have a theologian on your hands! My kids used to try to get the other to sit "with Jesus" at the restaurant so they could be the one to sit with Mom. I overheard Rachel tell Ally she would get a jewel in her crown if she sat with Jesus...I love how they're all beginning to process everything we're teaching them about the Lord. It is a bit confusing for literal kids to grasp :) Have a great week-end!
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Jun. 1, 2006 - boys...boys...boys...

Posted by steffany
I can't even imagine what a road trip is like with FIVE boys! I'm an only child so I never had to share the backset or the music with anyone. I feel like I kinda missed out...lol. And I can just see your delightful baby tossing that pacifier out and seeing who will go and pick it up for him. :)
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Jun. 1, 2006 - I love your posts!

Posted by Veronica
I can only imagine if I left the kids in charge what would actually get packed and what wouldn't. Oh and I know all about not wanting to sit next to the baby. Colin is now 4 and they still do it. I applaud you for going through this without your husband at your side!! You made memories! Good memories or bad memories you will still have them to look back on when you are older. And the boys will also have them to share as they grow.

Take Care,
Vickie
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Jun. 2, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Kims life
Yes Trina you did and the boys did a wonderful job. I get so much joy reading my blogger mum's. Love to read about all the different things you do. Your boys are so gorgous
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Ohhh...what 5 boys can get you into! Join me on my daily journey with my beloved sons, and on being the Godly wife and mother that I am trying to be! I was married at 17 to my first true love when he was 18. I know it sounds crazy, but we had both of our parents blessings. I had my first son at 18, well almost 19. I am 35, and will be married a whopping 18 years in June. I was homeschooled as a teenager in the 1980's, and I homeschool my boys as well. We live on 20 acres, and we allow the boys to roam and just be boys! Life is good and we are HAPPY!

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