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So continue at your own risk. 8P
This is about my husband's sister. I love them all equally, yet they don't see it that way. Well, one doesn't. She insists that I have an attitude with her. We don't talk on the phone but have exchanged emails. My question is: how can an attitude show through an email? I don't do THIS when I type. I write the regualr way I type, inserting these annoying faces :) every now and then. As well as adding "LOL" when it deems to do so. If I had an attitude, I think I would know about it. Don't ya think? ~shrug~
I was talking to Karli this afternoon and she mentioned that Jen and her were talking about me yesterday. Not that I care about them talking about me. Jen went into this big thing about me giving her an attitude and not liking her. I don't have any bad feelings towards her. I know what she's like, that's all there is to it. But EVERYONE knows what she's like, so whatever. ~again with the shrug thing~ Anyways, I'm at a standstill. Should I call her and comfront her? I mean I have no ill feelings towards her. She is a Christian as well, but a new one and I'm trying to decide if I do talk to her, how blunt do I be? Would she get her tail feathers ruffled if I just came out and said "hey, I don't have any problems with you. Get over it" ? Okay, okay, I wouldn't say the last part. But that's part of how I feel right now. I don't want this to be some silent drama. I mean she got upset because I brought clothes to Jersey for her--knowing she would be there a few weeks after we left--instead of sending them to her house in Virginia. (I'm in Indian, mind ya. AND I happened to grab the clothes for her just like I grabbed stuff for my other siblings who were also in Jersey for a visit. My sister lives in Texas, but she flew out to Jersey and I handed her a bag for her kids. Anne didn't get offended by me no shipping them. She thought it was an inovative way to save shipping charges for a box.) Yeah, yeah, back to Jen. What am I going to do with her? Honestly, I wasn't thinking about shipping charges, I was thinking as I walked through the boys room, "oh, I can bring this to Mom's since Jen will be there in a week."
So I am putting this out in cyberspace now. What should I do? I want to call her, but how do I say it without sounding like I have an "attitude?" =)
Thanks! I feel much better now that I wrote this. |
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