Jul. 23, 2008
School Year Preparations

It's that time of year again at our house -- when Mama makes plans for our year as Daddy oversees the direction for the upcoming year.  I love his help -- he lets me know what is really important in his eyes, saving me much time and sanity. 

Last Wednesday, my dear friend took the kids for me so I could have a planning day in a quiet, quaint town near us.  I was thinking how rare it is that I ever have day to myself -- I love being a mommy, but how glad I am my friend offered to take the kids for me.

My morning did get away from me, but in a glorious way -- I had two "divine appointments."  The first was an unexpected phone call from our friend who did the Creation Camp -- the woman who had blessed the camp with the pontoon frame from the raft was leaving town and wanted to see pictures.  My camera was the main camera used at camp, so I met Brent at a coffee shop and downloaded the boat pictures onto a CD for him.

Next, I went to a park that looks out over the waterway, and read from 1 Timothy.  I felt God nudging me to talk to the person who I could hear on a bench behind me.  So I turned around and said, "Isn't it a beautiful day out?"  That started a chat, and he asked me what I was reading, which lead to a talk about churches, a relationship with the Lord, his past experiences in churches, and more.  Finally, as our conversation wound-down and we said our good-byes, I was able to give him an invite card to our church.

I went to lunch at a Thai resteraunt in town and then headed over to the library to do some planning.  I am tutoring again this year for Classical Conversations in their Foundations Program, so I planned my first 12 weeks of classes in the areas of history and science.  My friend said she wants to give me another planning day, which will help me with my other planning (our own homeschool, the rest of Foundations, and a Pressentials class I will be teaching at Classical Conversations).

I finished my day with a chocolate-peanut butter shake from a dairy bar in town and then met my friend at the chiropracter both of our families go to so we could get adjustments.  What a blessing my friend is, and our children had a great day together.  (Playing on their slip&slide, seeing their friends' great-grandmother, and exploring their backyard.)

Jul. 17, 2008
Creation Camp

Last week, the kids and I attended a week-long Creation Camp at OneLife, a ministry our friends have.  It was a joy to spend all week with them, helping them with the camp.  We got to know them even more, which was such a blessing.  I worked at a camp in college and realized once again how much I love camp life.  The fellowship with the staff is so uplifting and seeing everyone pour into the kids encouraged all of us and gave us strength (His strength!) all week. 

Our friend, Brent, who ran the camp, did Nature Study and did a fabulous job.  He was able to find a King Snake prior to camp starting and gave it a home that week so the kids could see her up close and personal.  We were surprised to come into the barn one morning (where we had worship and nature study) to see 4 eggs in the corner of her terarium.  Later in the week, Brent let all the kids hold it (all who wanted to -- all the girls did, including our Darling Daughter who had no qualms about it).

King snakes are named so, as they eat other snakes, especially the poisonous kinds like cottonmouths, rattlers, etc -- they are immune to their venoms!  Some people think that the snake from Aaron's staff was a king snake, since it devoured the Eygtian magician's snakes in Pharoah's court. (Genesis 7:8-13)

Kids enjoyed worshipping and singing, and all become very close-knit during the 5-days.  Darling Daughter is the 2nd from the left and Little Man is belting it out 2nd from the right.

I had the priviledge of doing the Bible teaching.  During that time, we focused on the 6 days of creation, dinosaurs, and Noah's Ark.  Our family has learned a lot about those things over the last year, so it was great fun to pass on God's truth to the kids.  Answers in Genesis has wonderful studies that I used as visuals for the kids and we talked about each day in depth the first 2 days.  It was neat to see how the first 3 days God created the "spaces" (Heavens/Earth, Sky/Water, Land/Water into Seas), and Days 4-6 He filled them (Sun/Moon/Stars, Birds/Sea Creatures, Livestock/Creeping Things/Beasts of the Field/Man).

Darling Daughter sat next to me as I reviewed with the girls the days and the items we drew in each section.  We went over this for several days and every kid now has a solid understanding of what was made when, and how a little how evolution cannot be correct, as it has birds evolving after dinosaurs, etc.

On Wednesday, we read from Job 40-41 and discussed how although the word "dinosaur" is not in the bible (since it was invented until the 1800's, while the KJV was traslated in the 1600's), the words "dragon, behemoth, and leviathan" are.  We read each verse and the children drew pictures from what was described.  I also shared with them some facts from "The Great Dinosaur Mystery and the Bible."  They were really surprised that dragons were indeed real, not a myth as they've been lead to believe, and that they were seen up to the 1500's.  The boys also thought it was very neat that the royal family in China had them to pull their chariots.

Thursday and Friday, we discussed Noah's ark.  We talked about what a cubit was and although some references say a cubit is 18.5", while the Babylonian cubit was 24".  Using the both cubits, we measured off in feet.  Seeing it on the land, it was amazing how large it was!  I shared with them some information from http://www.worldwideflood.com/.  I also showed them the hydroplate theory video; I also highly recommend the free download videos from www.dr.dino.com.  (Our family watched the series from netflex.)

 The last day, we went out on a raft trip on a tidal creek that is on the Camp's property.  We saw alligators, herons, ibises, barn swallows, red-tailed hawks, and more.  The kids helped the rowers by adding a "feet-powered motor."

 Our friends' daughter, who is about 9 months younger than Little Man, enjoyed having her friends spend the whole week at her house, as we slept in their spare bedroom.  The kids climbed their fabulous cherry tree in the front yard, challenged each other to races to the barn, snuck tomatoes to snack on from the garden, and just enjoyed being together.

Jun. 20, 2008
S&T Fri -- Darling Daughter's Riding Lessons

Our daughter has loved horses for years, and it isn't just a young girl's passing fancy.  She's read books on horses.  Watched moives about horses.  Asked for a unit study on horses.  Made her brother play horse games.  Dreamed of horses.   

She's wanted riding lessons, but we wanted to make sure she was old enough and that we could also find the right trainer for her.

So when she made "Memory Master" this spring with our Classical Conversations group, her father and I decided to reward her by fulfilling her dream.  We've found an wonderful woman near us who has the perfect riding program for our daughter.  She teaches all ages, uses the CHA program, and also runs a riding program for disabled children.  DD has to groom the horse, put on its tack, and study worksheets each week to take tests (written and physical) to pass up through the levels.  So far, she has loved it! 

The only thing she needs to work on making sure the horse knows that she as the rider is the boss.  DD is a soft-spoken, gentle soul and her riding instructor has to keep encouraging her to speak louder to the horse and be a little more firm.  This experience has been so very good for our little girl, in so many ways...

 Learning to groom.

Working on balance and other basics with fun and games.

 

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Jun. 20, 2008
Home-Schoolers Threaten Our Cultural Comfort

Click here to read an article written by Sonny Scott where he offers a opinion of why the American public hates (or at least distrust) homeschoolers so much. He is like a psychologist explaining to a client that their problem isn't the other person (homeschoolers) -- it is themself (society).

He points out homeschoolers "savings to the taxpayers in instructional costs are conservatively estimated at $4 billion, and some place the figure as high as $9 billion."

He says that homeschoolers "very existence represents a rejection of our values, and an indictment of our lifestyles. Those families are willing to render unto Caesar the things that Caesar’s be, but they draw the line at their children. Those of us who have put our trust in the secular state (and effectively surrendered our children to it) recognize this act of defiance as a rejection of our values, and we reject them in return."

While he generalizes about his opinions of the way homeschoolers dress ("clean but unfashionable clothes") it is an article worth reading and sharing.   Well said, Mr. Scott.  Well said.

Jun. 20, 2008
New Twist Chocolate Chip Cookies

My mom made these when we were little -- they were our favorite cookie bars!!!  If you would like it a little bit healthier (how I make it now) use the ingredients in parethesis.

New Twist Chocolate Chip Cookies:

1 c. margarine (butter)

½ c. whte sugar (raw or fructose)

½ c. brown sugar (turbinado)

¼ tsp. baking soda

1 T. water

½ tsp. butter flavoring

¼ tsp. black walnut flavoring

2 egg yolks

2 c. flour (unbleached or whole wheat pastry)

1 c. chocolate chips

Cream margarine and sugars.  Combine soda and water and beat in.  Add flavorings and egg yolks and beat well.  Stir in the flour.  Pat this mixture into bottom of 9x13-inch pan that has been greased and floured.  Sprinkle the chocolate chips on top and cover with the following topping:

Topping:

2 egg whites

1 c. brown sugar (turbinado)

Beat the whites until stiff, then gradually beat in the sugar.  Spread over chocolate chips.  Bake at 325 degrees for 30-35 minutes, or until brown.

(If you don’t have the flavorings on hand, I recommend getting them.  The recipe will work okay without them, but it adds such a wonderful taste…)

Jun. 19, 2008
One Believer’s Journey: Would We Sign-Up For This Trip?

Although I no longer have time in this season of my life to do Sweet Monday, I am cleaning up my computer and found a devotional I wrote for a meeting in 2005.  What an amazing example Paul is. 

  One Believer’s Journey – Would We Sign-Up For This Trip?

*Shortly after you become a Christian, enemies conspire to kill you. (Acts 9:23-25)

*Escape by being lowered down a wall in a basket.

*Other believers don’t trust you. (Acts 9:26-30)

*Find only one person who will stand up for you – he becomes your best friend.

 *Again have enemies try to kill you. Escape again.

*Take your first missions trip.  You have to strike a man blind when he attempts to use his satanic powers to oppose you. (Acts 13)

*Get run out of town several times for bolding teaching truth of God.  (13 & 14)

*Get stoned within an inch of your life. (14:19-20)

*Lose your best friend over a disagreement. (15:36-41)

*Be stripped & beaten (16:22-26)

*Get thrown in jail and have your feet immobilized

*Get saved from jail by means of a violet earthquake

*Go to other towns and have to leave them due to strong, physically-dangerous opposition (Acts 17)

*Almost get arrested on charges on inciting a riot (Acts 19)

*Again have enemies plot to kill you.  Hike 20-miles over rough country to avoid them. (Acts 20)

*Have someone fall asleep on you while you’re preaching.  Worse, he falls out a window & dies.  Bring him back to life

*Over & over again, you have to leave many dear friends that you have made, knowing that you will never see many of them again.

 *Get arrested again. (Acts 21-28)

*Go through a long and tedious arraignment process with many different judges where you make your case and proclaim God’s truth and your testimony over and over again.

*Finally, you appeal to go to the highest court in the land

*In traveling to the place of your trial, you have to sail in a small 140-foot boat with 1 sail and roughly 250-270 other people; a portion of them hardened criminals. 

*Before long, hurricane-forced winds hit and set your ship off course and threaten to break up your ship.

*Suffer through this for 14 days with very little food and sleep.

*Your boat finally breaks apart, but by a miracle everyone survives.

*You land on island.  It’s cold and raining.  You try to help gather wood to build a fire and get bitten by a poisonous viper.

*After at least 3 months, you finally set sail again.

*When you finally get to your destination you get sentenced to “2-5 years.”

*Spend them under house arrest.

*Pass the time by writing 4-5 books. 

*Celebrate your release by going on another journey. 

*End up leaving your winter coat and journal & letter-writing paper in one town, possibly b/c you had to leave quickly b/c your life was in danger (2 Tim 4:13)

*End up getting arrested again, and this time, instead of house arrest, you stay in a cold prison cell on death row.  Write to a good friend asking him if he could please bring the coat and letter-writing materials you left behind.

*Eventually get beheaded.

So was Paul’s fate.  Think he still would have gone if he knew all of this lay ahead for him, or even have become a Christian?  Thank goodness God doesn’t show us our future!  We might not ever want to step into it!

Paul wrote 4-5 books during his first trip to prison, when he was under house arrest.  They are known as the “prison epistles,” or a good way to remember them is to think of the word “Pep-C” (like Pepsi):  Phillipians, Ephesians, Philemon, and Colossians (and some scholars think that he might have also written the book of Hebrews at this time)

Rejoice (8) and Joy (9) are found a total of 17 times in those 4 books.  After going thru all those trials, problems, and even being under heavy guard -- his attitude was one of joy! 

Php 2:17 But even if my life is to be poured out like a drink offering to complete the sacrifice of your faithful service (that is, if I am to die for you), I will rejoice, and I want to share my joy with all of you.

Can we have joy like that on our life’s journey, no matter what struggles & difficulties we may go through? 

After what Paul went through, what is our excuse? 

Is it really about WHAT we face when we are on life’s journey,  -- or HOW we face the things that happen to us in life?  

Php 3:1 Whatever happens, dear brothers and sisters, may the Lord give you joy. I never get tired of telling you this. I am doing this for your own good. 

Php 4:4 Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again – rejoice! 

Col 1:11 We also pray that you will be strengthened with his glorious power so that you will have all the patience and endurance you need. May you be filled with joy

Know what your hope is in.  Life is hard.  But that doesn’t mean through it all, you can’t have joy.  Just know what your joy is in, like Paul did.  If you are a Christian, you have to remember that the Lord CAN give you joy.  Pray for it.  Then, with Jesus, you can face anything. 

Jun. 19, 2008
Gift Basket Ideas

Searching google, I found some free gift basket design ideas at Rock Hill Cottage, and thought some might enjoy it.  (Think Christmas in July -- start looking for baskets and supplies now on sale, at thrift stores, etc. so you will be ready for the holidays.)

Themes for Basket Design Ideas

from: http://www.rockhillcottage.com/page/page/537113.htm

• RELAX AND ENJOY--Great for bridal shower, new mom or anyone that just deserves a break! Include soothing aromatherapy bath products such as bath salts or teas, soaps or bubble bath. And some nice candles, lotions, relaxing tea blends and maybe a nice journal. A bath pillow, slippers or a nice terry bath towel might be some extra luxurious touches, too! Use some soft flowers for extra enhancements.

• NIGHT OF ROMANCE--Perfect for wedding, anniversary or Valentine's gifts! Include massage oils, chocolates, candle, wine glasses and sensuous bath salts. (Note: Don't forget that chocolate absorbs scents, so you might have to wrap chocolates in a separate little bag or put extra shrink wrap on them.)

• PASTA LOVERS--Very popular basket! Great for wedding, new home or just because! Include gourmet pasta, marinara sauce, breadsticks or garlic bread mix, dessert, pasta server and/or wooden spoon, and a candle. Try a small bunch of plastic or beaded grapes or some grape vines and leaves for additional enhancements!

• ANGELS AMONG US--Give this to someone who has been an angel! Include angel soaps, an angel/cherub figurine, journal, teas, lotions, angel sachets or angel pins. Try marketing these to local churches to send to church members as get well gifts.

• TIME FOR COMFORT--For the person going through a rough time, think soothing. How about a gourmet chicken noodle soup mix. journal, teas, cocoas, candles or a nice set of stationery. These make great get well gifts or thinking of you!

• BEYOND THE GARDEN GATE--Know someone with a green thumb! Use gardening tools, gloves, seed packets, row markers, plant food, gardeners hand cream, gardening theme sachets, picture frames or notepads. Wrap it all up in a beautiful flowerpot, watering can or wooden picket fence container! Try marketing these to local landscape designers as customer appreciation gifts. Or talk to local nurseries about designing some of these for their store.

• WELCOME HOME--Great for new homeowner! Realtors, banks & mortgage companies love these! Include an address book, post it notes, refrigerator magnets, welcome sign, note cards, personalized stationery (you can do these on your computer for your special customers), candles, picture frames, gourmet soups or cookie mixes, coffees and maybe some snacks for the kids! Let the banks or realtors include a pen or mug with their company logos.

• MARGARITAVILLE--Use colorful Southwestern style basket or container for this fun basket! Include margarita mix, decorative margarita salt, salsas, chips, dips, playing cards and margarita glasses. (Note: make sure your mixes don't contain any alcohol unless you have a liquor license or the customer furnished the mix to you!)

• COOKIE LOVERS DREAM--Try a nice cookie jar or cookie platter for this yummy basket! Include gourmet cookies and cookie mixes, cookie cutters, spatula, wooden spoon, coffees, cocoas, mini cookie recipe book and a sugar cookie scented candle!

• BACKYARD CHEF--Great man's gift, wedding or new homeowners! Include gourmet BBQ sauces, spices or marinades, BBQ baster, mini BBQ cookbook, chef quality spatula, mitts and a Chef's hat for that extra touch.

• CHAMOIS AND SHINE--Car lovers dream basket! Include special car cleaners & waxes, chamois, cloths, sponges, cleaning brushes, key chain and special auto scent products. Try putting all of this in a nice bucket or basket! Market these to car dealers as customer appreciation gifts.

• KITCHEN CUPBOARD--Perfect for weddings and new homeowners! Make these special baskets up in a variety of price ranges and sizes. Start with some of these ideas: wooden spoons, utensils, nice dish towels or linen roll covers, pot holders, cookbook, timer, trivet, spoon rest, recipe holder, candles with kitchen scents like Baked Apple Pie, teas, mugs, gourmet spices, sauces or mixes. Use other containers like bowls or a roasting pan! Another basket that realtors love!

• SUNDAE DELIGHT--Ice cream lovers will enjoy this basket! Put in an ice cream scoop, gourmet syrups, nuts and other toppings, sundae spoons, linen napkins, sundae/fountain glasses and maybe a little notepad with a picture of ice cream on them.

• TIME IN A BOTTLE--Create memories with a Time Capsule. Include an elegant writing pen, stationery, envelopes, acid free papers, journal, picture album and picture frames. Put these items in a nice hinged lid basket, metal box or beautiful hatbox. Create a *New Baby* Time capsule using these same products with baby themes. If you really want to get creative try making up some beautiful colored forms on your computer like a *Letter to the Future* that you could include in this. Design a form with lots of lines for writing and add a few sheets to the basket. Market these ideas to new moms and new brides. Talk to your local hospital about putting these in their gift shop.

• MEMORIES OF MY TRAVELS--Try promoting these to travel agencies. Include a travel journal, stationery, fine writing pen, travel candle, photo album and soothing linen sprays for the nights away from home.

• AFTERNOON TEA--Include a variety of special tea blends, tea cup and saucer, tea pot, cookies or other snacks, candles, honey, silver tea spoon or special gourmet tea spoons coated with flavoring, honey or sugar crystals.

• MOVIE NIGHT--In a large bowl for popcorn, place some microwave popcorn, variety of candy, a gift certificate for a movie rental, and a couple of cans or bottles of soda.  Submitted 4-11-2000 by Catalina Mejia

Jun. 11, 2008
Darling Daughter's Birthday Week Extravaganza

Darling Daughter turned 9 today and has enjoyed her special "Birthday Week Extravaganza" which started early on last Friday, when we had her birthday party for her friends.  It was a "Little Lady Luncheon Tea Party" and 6 of her friends were able to come. It was so delightful to see all the little girls excited and in their best dresses.  One mother told me her little daughter went back-and-forth all week on what to wear:  "It must look "(Darling Daughter's name)-ish." 

When they arrived, we gathered flowers and greenery from our yard to make nose-gays for each girl and then put them together in a vase for the centerpeice for the table.  They also received hankies Darling Daughter and I had embroidered for them and little paper dolls we had printed off from the internet. 

The table was set with a lace tablecloth, white napkins, and Darling Daughter's tea set .  The menu consisted of ...

• Strawberry Lemonade
• Gingerbread Scones
• Blueberry Banana Scones
• Keebler Butterfly & Ladybug Shaped Graham Crackers with Strawberry Cream Cheese
• Cheedar Cheese
• Honey Ham Tea Sandwiches on Raisin Bread
• Peanut Butter & Jelly on Wheat that had been cut with a flower-shaped cookie cutter

We explained to the girls some tea etiquette, and showed them how to rub a slice of lemon around their cups and dip it in pink sugar.  (That was a big hit!)  After a special prayer and blessing that I gave to honor the young ladies and especially my daughter, the girls enjoyed their tea while the moms sat around the coffee table to enjoy ours. 

When it came time to open gifts, we wanted to make it special for not only the receiver, but also the giver.  DD sat on a chair near the gift table and each girl took turns giving their gift to her and sat on a chair next to her to watch her open it.  I then took their pictures and will include them in our thank-you's.  It was a delightful time and the girls, most of whom had never been to our home, enjoyed playing in DD's room and outside in the playhouse.  All of the girls are wonderful young ladies and I am so grateful for the special friendships my daughter has with them.

Saturday, her special celebration continued with blueberry pancakes for breakfast.  In the afternoon, we shopped up at the city, rode on the double-decker merry-go-round at the mall, and then had supper out at the restaurant of her choice.  Afterwards, we enjoyed watching "Taming of the Shrew" at a city parks amphitheater for their Shakespeare on the Green that we attend every year.  We also hope to see their youth production of "A Comedy of Errors" later this month.  (Yes, I know -- kids who like Shakespeare.  Imagine that.  DD has liked it from the very first play she saw.  Last year for her birthday, we gave her the Lamb's "Tales of Shakespeare.")

Sunday and the past few days have been relaxing and enjoyable.  She and I stayed up last night to watch a movie together and we've had some good chats.  How I love this little daughter who is growing up so well.  With this birthday, being her ninth, we truly ARE half-way done raising her.

This morning, we started off the day with Daddy singing, in a fun rock-n-roll way, "They say its your birthday, nana nana nana na na, Happy birthday to ya!" to wake her up.  Then we had a specail birthday breakfast of Breakfast Birthday Cake.  After Daddy went to work, we received a phone call from our friend saying the kittens had finally arrived.

[SIDE NOTE:  The Saga of the Kittens.....  Our dear friend had arranged for us to have 2 kittens from one of her other friend's litter.  (Read HERE about that story and the special names Darling Daughter chose.) Unfortunately, she was unable to coordinate it with him for several days and when she did finally talk to him, he had bad news -- his kittens had been in the woods and he was afraid they were not healthy and didn't want to give us wild, potentially sick kittens.  She felt bad, and asked her husband to check at work to see if anyone else may have some.  She called this Monday to let us know the news, but to also let us know that one of her husband's co-workers had a litter of six or seven week old kittens that needed homes.  All is happy and joyous in our house again, and Darling Daughter has truly grown in patience and seeing that God works all things to work together for good for those who love him.]

So I told a very delighted daughter and an excited son the news and after our morning work, we went over to pick them up.  They are beautiful little things!  The all-gray female has been christened Charlotte and the orange male tabby has been named Mason.  They are rooming in our large master bathroom, and will get settled in there for a week or two before exploring the rest of the house.

Jun. 3, 2008
Potential for Pets and Fun Names

We have been considering a pet for the last few months.  It all began when someone through DH's work let him know of some free Springer Spaniel puppies.  We mulled it over, talked about it as a family, and finally decided, "Yes, let's get one."  We emailed the family, checked out books from the library, and the kids made plans and considered names.   Then DH had to break the news.....  the puppies had already been given away.  While our daughter was especially deeply disappointed, it was a growing time for her as she learned how to handle life's disappointments and look for the silver lining.

Last week, while at a friends, the children where enjoying their new black and white kitten.  Our friend mentioned that his siblings were still available -- for free.  (A decision hubby and I made long ago was that we were not going to pay for a pet -- it had to be "divinely supplied."

When we got home, it was all Darling Daughter could talk about.  At first her daddy was against it.  Like many men we know, he was biased against it -- "Cats are snobby and not as fun as a dog," he declared.  While he and DD went back and forth on their opinions of a cat versus a dog, I had to add some weight to our daughter's side.  "Cats bath & groom themselves, don't need to go on walks, don't tear up garden beds, don't stink like dogs can, and can be left for longer time periods alone then dogs can," I stated persuadingly.  "They are much more managable, in almost every way, which is a big plus for the one who will more than likely end up doing the lion's share of training and caring for the family pet."  (In between the lines:  The Mama of the house -- me!)

Amazingly, DH consented.  "You're right, you're right!  Only we should probably get two kittens, if they still have enough.  One for Darling Daughter and one for Little Man."  I was taken aback.  Never in a million years did I see that coming.

So a phone call was placed to our friend and she promised to check on the possibility of our family being the happy owners of kittens.  We took a trip to the library and checked out books on cat care.  We've perused our local Wal-Mart to price check needed items for our new arrivals -- we will purchase them later, as we are don't want to be stranded with them if we aren't able to get the kittens.

This afternoon during her brother's nap, DD got extra boxes out of the garage and informed me she is making a little house for her kitten to live in.  She asked me if I liked the name "Charlotte."  I did indeed and helped her with the proper spelling of it as she created a name plate for the kitten's little abode.

When Little Man woke up, she asked if he would like a little house for his cat, which he readily agreed to.  It has kept them busy for at least an hour now.  Little Man came up to me while I was reading on the couch.  "Do you like the name Mason?" 

I replied I thought it was a fine name for a little tom cat.  And when I asked who thought of it, he assured me that it was his idea, not his sister's.  (Who has a tendency to "suggest" things to him.) Off he went to inform his sister and they worked on Mason's abode.

I didn't think anything of it until I overheard them chattering, "Charlotte and Mason are going to love their houses.  What else should we add to them?" 

Mommy's brain whirled and clicked: Charlotte & Mason? ..... Charlotte Mason!  Too funny!  Just when you wonder if anything is getting in their cute little heads, they name their kittens after one of my favorite role models in education.

I don't know if the kittens will indeed be christened with the above names, or if they are still available (but how I hope they are for the children's sake), but it was such a delightful moment, this mama just had to share it.

Jun. 3, 2008
One or the Other -- Or Both?

HSLDA sent their weekly update today, and the first bit of news was letting homeschoolers know about a poll PARADE magazine was doing and an article from the magazine titled,"Intelligence Report" which discussed the recent court decision affecting homeschooling in California

One paragraph stated:

“If upheld, the California ruling will send shock waves nationwide,” says Richard Kahlenberg, the author of a number of books on education. He says the case “pits those who believe parental rights are paramount against those who place a premium on well-educated citizens.”

I don't believe, as Mr. Kahlenberg states, it has to be one side for parents' rights and another for well-educated citizens.  I'm sure many of my fellow homeschoolers will agree with me and Dr. Ray's research that in homeschooling, you have BOTH.

Read the comments at the end of PARADE's article for some very well written rebuttals.

Apr. 21, 2008
Homeschool Buyers Co-op

Did you all know about The Homeschool Buyer Co-op?  It is a free homeschooling organization for both new and veteran homeschoolers.  The Homeschool Buyers Co-op is the nation's largest purchasing cooperative for homeschooling families  The Co-op is able to combine the purchasing power of thousands of homeschooling families around the country to give homeschoolers the same purchasing discounts as school districts -- they can offer homeschool member discounts from 10% to 70% off publishers' retail prices!

Co-op membership is FREE (and confidential), and entitles homeschooling families to discounts from over a hundred educational suppliers.  They also sponsor "Group Buys" for curriculum packages that save homerschooling families lots of money. On the site you'll find lots of free information, such as databases of free curriculum, field trips, and educational contests and scholarships. You also earn 100 SmartPoints absolutely FREE just for joining the Co-op, and you can find out ways to earm more by going to their website.  (SmartPoints are a special form of Co-op currency that you can use to purchase many of the award-winning programs through Co-op exclusives).

Click on the icon for the HOMESCHOOL BUYERS CO-OP on my right side bar for more information

Mar. 13, 2008
50 States Study

I Am A New Creation has a fabulous idea that our family hopes to join in on.  She is spearheading a 50 Great States Study over on her blog. 

She'll be using Beverly Hernandez's Our 50 Great States Study.  She is also going to use "The Complete Book of Presidents & States" grades 4-6 from American Education Publishing.  We already have that ($6 at Sam's), as we are going to be focusing on US History & Geography in our Classical Conversations cycle next year (both our 8 yo DD & 4 yo DS know their states and capitals, thanks to Audio Memory).   She also has a file with recipes from each state and other things to share with those who want to participate.

Mar. 13, 2008
St. Patrick's Day Resources

Feb. 29, 2008
S&T Fri -- More Indian Treasures

DH brought home some lovely gifts from India last month for our family...

A sari for me and a suit for him (their suits are different.  Lighter fabric with a special top only.  He had both his suit and my sari specially tailored.  He went with our friends from the ministery and she and the children helped pick out my sari colors.  Below is an example of the amazing detail of the embordiery.)  We wore them the Sunday the team shared with the church about their trip.  I recieved many compliments; I said that I wonder if we will wear something like this in heaven -- it so beautiful, light, and elegant.

Darling Daughter loves her 2 outfits her daddy got for her.  She wore the princess dress for the India Missions Sunday, and the punjabi to our Classical Conversations co-op as part of her presentation one week. (A punjabi is a tunic with pants.)

Example of the amazing beadwork, etc.

Below is what DH calls his "man dress." He hasn't worn it, but thinks it will make a perfect wise man costume someday.

Another punjabi for me fas a gift rom the sweet wife of the man who runs the minstry.  We love this couple so much and are blessed to know them.  We are praying that they & their children will come to visit us this summer during their annual time in the States.

This is the neatest bowl.  It is a flat peice of wood cut in a spiraling star to creat the "bowl"...

A fruit bowl whose base is cut from one single piece of wood.  Through all the items DH brought back, I've come to appreciate the amazing craftmanship of those who made them.

DH brought back 3 spreads for "his girls."  Two are not shown; one is a beautiful tableclothe/spread for DD when she gets older and another is a summer spread for our bed.  The one below has its home over the back of our couch and I love it everytime I see it...

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Feb. 28, 2008
A Top Favorite Christian Speaker

My DH and I have greatly enjoyed -- and been greatly challenged by -- the ministry of Voddie Baucham the last few weeks. We are soaking it up and are discussing what Dr. Baucham preaches, and applications within our lives and our families.  DH says he is the best speaker he's heard so far on the topic of family, marriage, faith, etc.  Here are some sites that we've found that have information about him, along with several of his talks.

• www.voddiebaucham.org
• http://www.gracefamilybaptist.net  (his church in Texas)
• http://psalm305.blogspot.com/2007/03/voddie-baucham-mp3-sermons.html (lots of hours of great teaching, speaking, etc.)
• http://www.familydrivenfaith.org
• His new book Family Driven Faith (on our "wish list")

Feb. 15, 2008
S&T Fri -- Darling Daughter's Tea Set

Favorite things of my eight year-old daughter...

...Her new tea set that we found yesterday at the thrift store*

...Lace gloves from Vision Forum that she purchased with her Liberty doll

...Mini garden tools from our dear friend who sees and encourages God's gifts in DD

...Birds and flowers -- she loves to be outside, gathering flowers and seeing God's creation

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Our sweet daughter adores all things "girly."  She is our creative, artistic dreamer.  Over the last few weeks, I really have been blessed with a prayer answered -- to have my daughter's heart.  It has been such a joy to see her grow and to know that we are walking together as a mother and daughter should.  We've (darling hubby & I) read about it and for the last eight years we've worked on developing that foundation of obedience, love, respect, honor, and closeness with her.  And over the last few weeks, we've really see the fruit of doing so. 

As a parent, I can only describe the process in our particular family's life as finding a manual on proper growing of a "tree" (or in this case, a godly child).  Then taking the steps to "plant" the seed.  Then to care and nurture it.  Then to see the tree start to bud, then open up and blossom.  We see now the fruit forming, and it is sweet and good.  God's word is faithful and I can only encourage all of you to take the time to really know your kids.  This is a journey and we are still near the beginning.  But it hits me deeply every once in a while, that we are almost half-way done raising our little girl, and we want to do all we can to obey the Lord in raising her.  He's been full of grace where we've failed and has encouraged us as we see the blessing of doing things according to His Word and wisdom.

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*Darling Daughter has taken the responsibility to be in charge of our afternoon tea times that we have a couple of times a week.  She has learned to put the water in the kettle and boil it.  She is very talented at gathering the tea items and making the table a delightful presentation.  She likes to do it "in secret" and then call me into our living room where she has it all laid out on our coffe table.

She has been using my mismatched tea cups.  One is from my grandmother and other is one I picked up.  She also is desiring a "Tea Party" themed birthday this summer.  All of this made my mothering wheels turn... "How my daughter would benefit from her own tea set," a thought that was planted by Rebekah Anast in an article in No Greater Joy.  

So whenever we are in a thrift store, my eyes are searching for a tea pot and/or a tea set.  Yesterday we were in town, so we stopped in to one of our favorite second-hand shops.  And there was a 32 (!!!) peice set, with 6 cups for only $8! .  I was amazed at the price and how pretty they were.  No tea pot was with it, but she is delighted with her set.  We will be taking 4 of the settings to a friend's today.  They just started homeschooling and we've been wanting to get together.  Since they have a young son who needs his nap, we are going over to their home and told them we'd bring the tea things.  And now darling daughter has the "perfect set" for this special day and many special days to come.

Please join the rest of the crowd for Show&Tell every Friday! Get all the information over at:

and...

...along with what this week's participants are sharing.

Jan. 31, 2008
The Meaning of My Name...

Saw this over at Juliestew's blog, so tried it out.  The third paragraph made my smile, as I don't see myself as that.

What Karla Means

You are a seeker of knowledge, and you have learned many things in your life. You are also a keeper of knowledge - meaning you don't spill secrets or spread gossip. People sometimes think you're snobby or aloof, but you're just too deep in thought to pay attention to them. You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is.

Jan. 31, 2008
Birthday Week Extravaganza & BREAKFAST BIRTHDAY CAKE

At our house, we celebrate birthdays in a fun way.  I believe it was DH who first dubbed them, "Birthday Weekend Extravaganza!!!!"  Sometimes it's the weekend when the birthday falls next to a weekend; sometimes its a week if it is in the middle. 

Two weeks ago it was my turn to celebrate.  My birthday was Wed the 16th, so we decided to make it "a week."  We started the Saturday before by me making a new recipe called a Breakfast Birthday Cake.  (see recipe below -- it is going to become a birthday breakfast tradition at our house.) 

Then that afternoon, we went to a park, did some errands, and then went out to eat at a great Indochina/Vietnamese resteraunt that a friend recommended. It was wonderful.  I wish I would of taken my camera, but darling daughter has already requested to go there for her birthday, so I'll have to take some then.  It has such a neat feel to it -- lavish, colorful decorations, and beautiful garden seating in nice weather.  You felt like you weren't in the city at all, but actually over in Vietnam, etc.  (The owner is half Vietnamese, half French.)

On "the real bday day," it was the day before DH left for India, so it was full of getting all the last minute things ready for that.  DH brought me home an ice cream cake after work and made Thai food for us.  He got candles shaped like a "3" and a "4" for the cake -- Little Man kept reading it from the other side and kept saying, "Mama, you are fffforrrteeee ttthhhrrreeee."  (I'm 34.) 

BREAKFAST BIRTHDAY CAKE

Ingredients:

Round loaf of bread

3 eggs

2/3 c. milk

1 T. sugar

1 T vanilla

3 c. fresh strawberries

1/2 c. strawberry preserves

1c. whipping cream

4 oz. softened cream cheese

1 T. sugar

1/2 t. vanilla

1.  Cut crust off bottom of bread.  Slice bread into 3 parts.  Set aside the top for another use. 

2.  Preheat skillet or griddle to med to med-high heat.  Mix together eggs, milk, 1 T. sugar and 1 T. vanilla.  Dip bread into egg mixture; let soak 1 minute each side.  Melt 1 T butter on griddle and cook soaked bread for about 5 minutes or until golden.

3.  Meanwhile (helpers are good here), slice the strawberries and place in large bowl.  Melt the preserves on high in microwave for 20-30 seconds; pour over berries and toss to coat.  set aside

4.  In chilled mixing bowl combine whipping cream, cream cheese, 1T. sugar and 1/2 t. vanilla.  Beat until soft peaks form. 

5.  Place bottom of bread on a serving platter.  Top with 1-2 cups of strawberry mixture.  Then top with second bread round.  Top with remaining strawberries and whipped cream mixture.  I dusted ours with powdered sugar.  Carefully cut into wedges.  Serve immediately.  Makes 10 servings.

Jan. 29, 2008
Quote of the Day

"I consider being a wife and mother a career. I have great respect for women -- both those who go out and do their thing and those who stay at home. I think those who stay at home have a lot more courage than those who go out and get a job."

This was said by Margaret Truman, Harry Truman's daughter.  She died today at the age of 83.  To read more, CLICK HERE.

Jan. 25, 2008
India Update

DH (Darling Husband) left last Thursday, Jan 17 with the other 4 team members from our church.   We dropped him off at our pastor's house, whose wife (TK) is a dear friend of mine, and then the kids & I headed up to see our friends in Richmond. We spent 5 days there, enjoying our friends' company.  The kids played, my friend and I were able to catch up and watch some great movies from the new Jubilee Film Festival that her sister gave her for Christmas, and the kids & I were able to see another dear friend on Friday who is always encouraging to us all and covered us & DH in prayer.  (I met with TK on Wed and we both agreed that we feel so blessed and in the Lord's grace. The kids are on their best behavior and are little angels, and we are getting lots of snuggle time -- our days are going so smoothly, so thank you all who are praying. We definately can tell!  God is so good!)

DH called Saturday night to let us know they had made it into Bombay, but that their luggage hadn't ever made it on the plane from Newark.  Long story short, they  received everything just fine a couple of days ago.  DH packed light and had everything in his carry-on.  When I asked about the others, he said our pastor had brought books in his carry-on, but no clothes.   He did survive just fine, but he told his wife how glad he was when he could change into a different pair of pants (he had worn the same pair 4+ days).

In retrospect, it was good that our pastor had his things to help teach & preach, because apparently Yesupadem has been calling on him to preach and teach alot.  We warned him and the others (DH's cousins have gone there for almost a year between high school and college) that Yesupadem will tell you a few minutes before the teaching/preaching begins, "So and so, you will give the long sermon tonight; Mr. ___, you will preach the short sermon; Mrs. ___, you will share your testimony."  God has given them the words every time; our pastor said it's amazing how God just puts in it you to pour it out.

The team is doing great. (Several other teams from the US have gotten very sick with dysentery -- so far everyone from our group hasn't gotten ill; however there is one woman in our group suffering from a sinus infection, so please keep her in your prayers.)

They are very busy going out to villages to preach, etc.  They are also baptizing people, and are gleaning so much wisdom from Yesupadem.  Our pastor said Yesupadam is  modern day Paul and that he has been astounded by the strength God gives Yesupadam to keep up this rigorous schedule. 

The last we heard from Rich was Sunday, the 20th and he sounded fabulous.  They left shortly after arriving in Visag for a 3-hour trip each way to a crusade and didn't get back until 1:30 in the morning (has been their typical schedule).  The drive "was insane...herds of water buffalo in the road... for all intents and purposes, the only traffic rules is don't hit anyone."

They had a great time with the pastor's family there in that village and had dinner with them.  DH was so excited, as he wasn't expecting any meat on this trip, and the pastor's wife lovingly gave them curry with fish, goat, and chicken, I believe.  The kids & I prayer blessings upon blessings upon that woman and her family, as we knew it was a sacrifice for them.  My friend updated me some more the other day and said that the family didn't eat with them, and her husband (our pastor) asked why.  He was informed that there wasn't enough for their family to eat and their guests, so they were giving their meal to their visitors.  He said he looked at their little children and couldn't eat anymore, knowing that they would be skipping a meal.  This apparently is very much the custom from what we've heard from DH's cousins.  It is very humbling and a great example of sacrifice.  The kids and I had a good talk about if we were in that position would we do the same, etc.

Even though I haven't heard directly from DH since Sunday, the other wives & I have been sharing information, so we have an idea of how everything is going.  Apparently, DH is enjoying every minute and our pastor says he's never seen him so full of joy. I can't wait to see DH in person and spend the days after he gets back hearing his heart.  (He has the camera, so I've been without one.  Hopefully he is taking LOTS of pictures!)   They will be back by the end of the weekend, and my friend & I are planning a welcome back supper for those on the team.  We are also getting together tonight, as our children are good friends and they will be sharing supper with us and spending the night.  She is such a blessing and a good friend -- the kind who "iron sharpens iron."

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I just got a call from DH write after penning the above lines.  They will be heading home tomorrow, around noon.  (It's 11pm there now.)  They will be attending a meeting in the morning before they go.

He and another gentleman from our church (who is on staff and does e-media), met with an American (SA) who goes to India frequently and stays and helps the ministry with their computers and videoing, etc.  They worked on the 3 laptops DH brought which are now ready for the ministry, and they have one person trained who can in turn, with SA, train the rest of those who need to. DH wanted to see which server system would be best for the ministry, so will order them one when he gets it back and will have it shipped directly there.

He said they have eaten curry 30 meals in a row -- for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.  (DH LOVES curry and Indian food, so he is definately getting his fill.)  He is bringing some curry mixes home, so I'm looking forward to him cooking us some when he gets back -- DH is a fabulous cook, especially in the area of ethnic dishes.  I told him about the plan for dinner when they get back, and also teased him about our dinner plans for tonight (steaks, garlic roasted potatoes, apple crisp). 

He said a good family friend of the cousins' are there; we actually bought a home from him when we first lived in Richmond.  They are having a good time with him and his son, and they will be leaving soon after spending 3 weeks there.  DH was able to spend time with the Padem's children the other day and colored with them from the postor-sized coloring books he brought for the ministry.  He also walked with a little Indian boy up to the Prayer Mountain (land on a mountain which will eventually be a large hospital, staff housing, old-age & disabled housing, and at the very top, a prayer tower).  He said Yesupadam said just to follow the road, but DH said it was more like rocks and a partial trail. 

Thank you again, all our family and friends, for your continued prayers in their last moments there and traveling back home.  Our church is planning on having them share at least one Sunday, probably more, on the teams time there.  I will share pictures and more news when they arrive home.

Jan. 11, 2008
S&T Fri--India on my Mind

DH is going to India very soon!!!  We are so excited!!!

(read below to find out more about the trip)

So for this Friday, I wanted to share a few treasures we've received from our family and friends from there in the past....

• The hand-carved table was from his cousin.  It is so lovely & intricate.  It has 3 legs which fold together and the top detatches -- what a great design to take home in his suitcase to surprise us with.  You can see elephants on the bottom.
• Hand-carved box (everything is hand made ).
• Vase is a lovely mix of different colored metals.