Sep. 20, 2006 - The Question, Part Two
I was with my mom running errands today. Since she also has five kids (I am the oldest) and home schooled us all, I knew she could probably help me with my current dilemma. We talked a bit about some of the practical ways I am able to handle having five kids… Our house has structure and organization. By this I do not mean that my house is clean, organized or even tidy at all times, but our family is organized; we have a systemized form. We all know our positions within our family structure. Daddy is the head over our family and what he says goes; Mommy is the heart, the nurturer, and the teacher (she fills in as boss too, while Daddy is absent). The activities in our household are focused primarily on our children now, while in the training years, but we do not have a child-centered home where the little ones rule. My children know that they are required to be obedient immediately in all things. I believe that they truly desire to be compliant and that they strive to please. They are however children, and children are sinful by nature and need direction and guidance. Each of my older children has individual responsibilities and are assigned to specific chores each day. As each of my children become more responsible, they will be given additional tasks allowing my time and attention to be directed elsewhere (maybe the baby or a child needing extra attention). Each day we have Quiet Time - On school days this time is usually late afternoon, otherwise it is during the younger children’s nap, and usually lasts 45 minutes to an hour. This Quiet Time allows me to clear my head and take a short break, while teaching the children how to be quiet. (They are allowed to read, color or assemble puzzles as long as they are quiet and stationary.) I love my kids and my job as their mommy. I consider them to be a blessing and the greatest gift from God. So, now for the new reply….hmmmm, that’ll have to wait ‘til tomorrow!
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